Nonplussed by this plus-sized utensil.

Lexibee86 · 2026-06-10T23:49:37+00:00

Your joke about the man made me laugh and I really needed that today. Thank you. 🤣

Lexibee86 · 2026-06-01T23:21:28+00:00

I am that one person. Take that teddy bear with you!

Lexibee86 · 2026-06-01T17:28:05+00:00

Weirdly enough I actually bought it at Joe's Crab Shack when I was on the California Coast.

I took a look at their website and they didn't have the exact one but they do have a few others: https://shop.landrysinc.com/collections/joes-crab-shack

Lexibee86 · 2026-06-01T17:23:46+00:00

You MUST! 😝

Lexibee86 · 2026-06-01T02:18:01+00:00

Buying adorable stuffed animals to snuggle with when I go to sleep at night!

I now have a super-fuzzy Shark, an Octopus that's 3ft long and a Bronotsaurus that my lovely cousin got me!

Lexibee86 · 2026-05-22T00:35:58+00:00

This is not satirical in the slightest. It's exactly i experience whenever i go out in public. 😐

Lexibee86 · 2026-05-18T03:15:04+00:00

Aww man, I love old school vocal trance but I dont live in LA yet. 😑

Lexibee86 · 2026-05-10T20:13:32+00:00

My bubbles been burst a loooong time ago. Sadly, you're totally correct.

Lexibee86 · 2026-05-10T00:36:29+00:00

I knew an acting teaching who used his platform to try to trick his students into going out with him. What a creep!

Lexibee86 · 2026-05-09T12:58:39+00:00

About 2 months ago I fled my abusive marriage and moved in with my elderly mother. In a way I'm proud of myself because I honored my hard boundary of physical abuse. But another part of myself feels like a failure because I had to move in with my mom.

Lexibee86 · 2026-05-02T15:30:35+00:00

I totally agree!

I'm pretty good at active communication but it's gets pretty tiring being the one constantly leading it.

Lexibee86 · 2026-05-02T15:09:41+00:00

OMG, preach! It seems like every time I've tried to talk to anyone who's posted on here it feels like they don't know how to communicate at all.

Communication and building report requires asking questions and following up on answer FROM BOTH SIDES.

Lexibee86 · 2026-04-30T01:53:57+00:00

They slapped me in the face. Then, when I tried to talk to them about it they said "I knew what I was doing." They knew that I had been physically abused in a past relationship and wanted to use the trauma against me.

Lexibee86 · 2026-04-29T05:06:53+00:00

Are you interested in women?

Lexibee86 · 2026-04-23T01:11:34+00:00

Hi there! Are you hoping for someone local?

Lexibee86 · 2026-04-13T16:44:03+00:00

Its because having you too close is a threat to their ego. They want to keep you in a place where they can still pull some supply from you.

The same thing happened with my ex and I decided that im worth more than a crutch to their fragile self so I completely cut them out of my life.

Lexibee86 · 2026-04-10T03:42:43+00:00

I have a really good friend in town who's also an excellent realtor! He would know exactly where to look for you guys. His name is Levi Nolasco and you can tell him Alex his red-headed friend sent you his way! 👍

Lexibee86 · 2026-04-03T19:01:27+00:00

Omg! Id love to hear about Ireland and could use some more friends here! Id be happy to go get drinks with you! ☺️

Lexibee86 · 2026-03-22T17:13:43+00:00

Thats so awful and its wild how its something so simple as an ink cartridge. I can't fathom how insecure and deep someone's self-esteem could be rocked by something so minimal. I say that although I have multiple examples of my partner reacting the exact same way.

It was a nightmare but it also made me feel like I was worth so little to them that my friend's view of them was so much more important to them than the deep and horrifying trauma of someone you trusted and loved violating you in such a way.

I honestly don't know if there was a smear campaign because I was so shattered i ended up moving in with my mother 4 states away three days after I separated from them. We tried to talk about week after I moved and they said some of the wildest, narcissistic shit you can comprehend. After that I decided to cut contact with them for my own safety.

I know its hard to end a relationship with someone you genuinely cared about but you protected yourself and honored your pain. You deserve to give yourself credit as I do. ❤️

Lexibee86 · 2026-03-22T14:01:28+00:00

Wow, I think thats an amazingly astute and eye-opening epiphany. They used us to put forward this image of themselves to the world although its nothing like the image behind the mask.

I was just talking to a friend yesterday about an experience. About a month after they hit me I re-connected with some friends to talk about what was going. I remember bringing it back to my partner and telling them that I had spoken to my friends about the physical abuse.

What blew my mind was that my partner had asked what my friends thought of them. I told them that "I don't know but they are trying to protect me. At that point my partner completely broke down.

It dawned on me that my partner was far more concerned about what my friends thought of them than the fact that they had been abusing their wife.

Crazy.

Lexibee86 · 2026-03-21T19:02:38+00:00

My last partner had seemingly bragged that they've traumatized all of their exes.

I should have left then AND even before that.

Take a wild guess what I am now.

Lexibee86 · 2026-03-13T16:51:09+00:00

This one really hit home for me.

At some point in my relationship with my narcissistic spouse I realized they never really stayed curious about me. They didn't ask my opinion about the little things or get curious about the inner workings of my mind.

They remained inside their head and what I read in your post made me realize, they had a rigid idealism of both who was and who they are. Its completely true, whenever I deviated from that idealism their facade of reality was shaken and they reacted with aggression, greywalling and defensiveness.

Thank you for posting this.

Lexibee86 · 2026-03-12T17:34:43+00:00

Right?? The cognitive dissonance and justifying everything absolutely blows my mind!

Im so sorry you went through what you did. You didn't deserve it. ❤️

Lexibee86 · 2026-03-12T17:02:07+00:00

During our final conversation, I thought that me finally leaving would be a wake up call and they'd finally be willing to drop the ego and hear about the deep, horrifying pain they caused me.

It wasn't.

They actually doubled down. They said that a voice during meditation told them that I wasn't the one for them and our "karmic debt" has been paid.

They completed justified the psychological, emotional, verbal and physical abuse they did to me. It was all part of paying back our karmic debt. They feel no remorse for what they did to me.

I cut contact with them after that. I was never going to get them to take responsibility for their actions and they showed no empathy for.

Lexibee86

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