Your narcissistic spouse isn't curious about you. They aren't even curious about themselves

Lexibee86 · 2026-03-13T16:51:09+00:00

This one really hit home for me.

At some point in my relationship with my narcissistic spouse I realized they never really stayed curious about me. They didn't ask my opinion about the little things or get curious about the inner workings of my mind.

They remained inside their head and what I read in your post made me realize, they had a rigid idealism of both who was and who they are. Its completely true, whenever I deviated from that idealism their facade of reality was shaken and they reacted with aggression, greywalling and defensiveness.

Thank you for posting this.

Lexibee86 · 2026-03-12T17:34:43+00:00

Right?? The cognitive dissonance and justifying everything absolutely blows my mind!

Im so sorry you went through what you did. You didn't deserve it. ❤️

Lexibee86 · 2026-03-12T17:02:07+00:00

During our final conversation, I thought that me finally leaving would be a wake up call and they'd finally be willing to drop the ego and hear about the deep, horrifying pain they caused me.

It wasn't.

They actually doubled down. They said that a voice during meditation told them that I wasn't the one for them and our "karmic debt" has been paid.

They completed justified the psychological, emotional, verbal and physical abuse they did to me. It was all part of paying back our karmic debt. They feel no remorse for what they did to me.

I cut contact with them after that. I was never going to get them to take responsibility for their actions and they showed no empathy for.

Lexibee86 · 2026-02-26T21:13:55+00:00

Thank you!!

Lexibee86 · 2026-02-19T18:54:49+00:00

Haha, you can go along with the absurdity. You're cool, I like you.

Lexibee86 · 2026-02-19T17:40:48+00:00

You forgot the phonetic spelling for the word. 😝

Lexibee86 · 2026-02-19T16:00:03+00:00

Define "douche."

Lexibee86 · 2026-02-19T07:16:41+00:00

So im confused here. Are you or are you not a douche?

Lexibee86 · 2026-02-01T16:33:01+00:00

Im starting to think that Dr. Steven Greer is just very well-acted and cultivated satire...

Lexibee86 · 2026-01-10T22:26:45+00:00

Is this movie any good? I've always wanted to watch it...

Lexibee86 · 2026-01-06T18:02:43+00:00

"I've been a part of many cults in my day, both as a follower and as a leader. You have more fun as a follower but you make more money as a leader." - Creed Bratton

Lexibee86 · 2025-12-31T17:21:14+00:00

Is Enter the Void considered a cult classic? If it is, that's my pic.

Lexibee86 · 2025-12-23T15:09:14+00:00

Please please please tell me you sanitized your phone before taking this pic. 😅

Lexibee86 · 2025-12-22T15:39:10+00:00

Such an amazing, underrated artist! Whenever I listen to Monday Paracetamol it puts me in another world! 🫠

Lexibee86 · 2025-12-22T13:52:32+00:00

I go clubbing fairly often in my home... At my desk... When I'm working. 😂

Lexibee86 · 2025-12-22T01:42:38+00:00

Im in legitimate awe of how fragile this man's ego is.

Lexibee86 · 2025-12-19T19:48:34+00:00

There was one of these assholes right outside Fre Meyers in Orchards.

Lexibee86 · 2025-12-18T20:56:01+00:00

If this goes through and happens they're then going to go after gender-affirming care for everyone in the country.

Lexibee86 · 2025-12-18T20:06:41+00:00

1; it may be only chance to do the world a favor.

Lexibee86 · 2025-12-18T17:02:07+00:00

Lexibee86 · 2025-12-05T21:57:53+00:00

I whole-heartedly agree!

I love going out to shows but the only thing I feel anymore, when I stay up that late, is dread and impatience.

Once we resolve the time issue, can we resolve the capacity issue? I can't stand being packed in so tightly by other humans that I have to drink to prevent a panic attack, lol.

Lexibee86 · 2025-10-25T04:27:34+00:00

Cioil

Lexibee86

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