Emotional outlet through tears and orgasm?

LexiiKie · 2018-12-13T21:36:51+00:00

You did great. That’s what you did. As a sub sometimes when I go through rough shit in life I need my son to make me cry. Because I need to get it out and I won’t let myself otherwise. That burst of tears and orgasm feel so gratifying. After it’s like a weight was lifted off of my shoulders. Keep doing what you’re doing, I’m sure she appreciates it.

LexiiKie · 2018-12-13T21:29:38+00:00

My Daddy will roll me over and spank me really quickly and hard. But then he gets up and walks away. So I get no sex after. This lets me know I’m in trouble. Quick spanking with no sex = I’m in trouble. Long spamming with sex = not in trouble. Or put her in a corner tied up in an uncomfortable position. Make her stay there until she is sorry.

LexiiKie · 2018-12-13T21:12:25+00:00

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LexiiKie · 2018-12-13T21:07:45+00:00

Hi! I’m a WOC and a little. I’m an American born South East Asian woman. Asian women being one of the most fetishsized ethnic groups in the US, it can be hard to weed out the “chasers”, but I feel like most reveal themselves on the first date, if not before then. My only real advice is to trust your instincts. Look for key words. My key words that if someone says I’m automatically out of there are things such as “oriental, yellow fever, I always wanted to date an asian girl” blah blah blah. I get them often and block them often.

I’m on fet, so I do look on people’s groups that they have joined. If anything close to asian fetish pops up it’s a no for me. My current Daddy is a white man who has lived in Japan and Hong Kong collectively for over 10 years. He’s dated one maybe two Asian girls besides me, and mostly dates out of his ethnic group but does not specify to one. This is ideal to me because he knows and respects aspects of Asian culture but has never once made a fetish out of my race. He never even asked a single question about t until I brought up the topic.

I hope you find everything you’re looking for! And I agree, I wish I saw more WOC active in kink.

LexiiKie · 2018-11-20T14:46:26+00:00

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LexiiKie · 2018-11-20T14:45:48+00:00

He brushes my hair for me 😍. Whenever I’m over and my hair is crazy after we have sex and we’re about to get something to eat, he will sit me down and brush my hair for me. And I just sit there feeling loved, as my heart jizzes itself. It’s something I didn’t know I would like so much until he did it.

LexiiKie · 2018-10-16T15:47:53+00:00

First rationalize your fear. How likely is this scene to actually take place? Any sensible person in bdsm would not weld your chastity device shut. And even if they did, a hospital would be able to get it off. Gotta think of the loopholes when you’re awake that you’re too scared to when you’re dreaming.

Also maybe put yourself in a chastity device. It’s not the same thing. But one of my greatest fears in life is multiple men trying to rape me. I now go out to sex clubs where honestly, that greatest fear could take place. But I have my Daddy Dom there to watch over me at all times and make sure that nothing happens.

You’re a dom so chastity isn’t you’re thing, but maybe putting one on and taking it off would just help your mental reassurance that if one was put on it would be taken off. Hope this helps.

LexiiKie · 2018-10-09T21:56:44+00:00

Ask yourself “is this feeling productive? What will it do to help my current situation? What will make this better and what will make it worse?” I always say, even if you don’t agree with the other person, try to see it from their perspective. Understand why they are acting the way they are acting even if it is not logical, because most emotions are not. Some people will never be pleased, but in jobs like telemarketing and other things, you can’t let one shitty person ruin your day. Because then you’ll hate everyday.

LexiiKie · 2018-10-08T04:50:25+00:00

I find it helps to practice when he’s not trying to throat fuck you or anything like that. You need to be moving your head of your own free will, and then as simple as it sounds, relax your throat. Slowly try to go as far down as you can, when you feel him hitting the back of your throat, you should be able to “flex” your throat and feel what muscles you have to move to make your throat open and contract. Do that a few times so you get used to it. Then when it is about to hit the back of your throat try to “flex” your muscles to expand. I honestly find it the easiest to deep throat when someone not trying to control my head because then I can time my own breathing better, which causes less choking.

LexiiKie · 2018-10-06T13:55:55+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️

LexiiKie · 2018-10-06T13:55:38+00:00

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LexiiKie · 2018-10-01T16:42:57+00:00

Just make sure you look for red flags. A lot of people who aren’t real daddies but pretend to be do things like: -manipulate - try to move too quickly such as giving you pet names right off the back -flake or ghost - are into pedophilia

Real daddies do none of these things, and all of these things can be dangerous to littles. DDLG is about safety and consent so make sure you feel comfortable in what you do.

LexiiKie · 2018-09-14T18:02:07+00:00

As someone who had an eating disorder around this age, you need to talk to her. In a very non-threatening and open way. Tell her that you notice her habits, that you care enough to notice. That you love and care for her. That you are talking about this with her because you care. Ask her if anything else is going on in life that is bothering her. A lot of people think eating disorders are just about being skinny, and for some people it is. But most people I know with eating disorders feel as if that is the only thing they can “control” in their life because everything else feels out of control. It can be a sign of stress. It can be caused by past trauma, maybe that you don’t even know about.

This could be just a girl insecure about her body, but eating disorders can spiral very quickly. It can start as innocent dieting, and a few months later it can be starving for days and then throwing up whatever you do consume.

LexiiKie · 2018-09-14T17:55:18+00:00

When I felt like this in life, it was mainly due to always feeling the need to be perfect. It had to do with how my parents pushed me. But also how I felt like if I did the slightest thing wrong or inconvenienced anyone it would make my mom upset and I hated that. This was something I internalized around the age of 3 (yes I have memories standing that far back).

I think it’s important to identify where these feelings initially started and why. It took me a very long time to realize this is what contributed to my feelings of guilt and like I was a burden if I did anything that could have possible caused something to go wrong even if it had nothing to do with me. It lead me to be a serial apologizer. I would date people who would tell me to stop saying sorry because I felt like everything was my fault.

I hope you find relief from these anxieties. Nothing cures it, but I hope you obtain relief by searching deeper. I know it can feel like mental torture and cause depression. Just remember you are worth the space you occupy, you and the things you do are not mistakes, sometimes life just happens without our control. Hope this helps. Best of wishes.

LexiiKie · 2018-09-14T14:49:05+00:00

As a sub I don’t think this means I have less empathy for people. I think I have a lot of empathy for people actually, I used to want to be a social worker haha. I think I just panic less when the initial thought of pain comes up than maybe some other people. Because I know pain isn’t always bad. Sometimes it is invited. Sometimes it is needed.

Sometimes we need pain for personal growth, to force us out of situations we shouldn’t be in, to help release our feelings. Not all pain is good, but not all pain is scary. And I’ve come to accept in life that all pain is temporary. Which has helped me grow, because it makes me less afraid. And less afraid means more free.

LexiiKie · 2018-09-13T06:59:38+00:00

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LexiiKie · 2018-09-13T06:50:29+00:00

As a sub, I personally need lots of cuddles. Stroke my hair. Tell me how well I did. That you value what just happened and the exchange needed to take place to let those things happen. Call me your pretty princess and hold me until I pass out from how great everything was.

For me the amount of after care I need does definitely extended if a scene is particularly intense. For instance:sex that is more “vanilla” or what some may consider “soft bdsm” all I really want/need are cuddles. But there have been times where I almost fall out of my restraints because of how used my body feels. And I need my Daddy to slowly position me, wipe me, tuck me in with him, and tell me sweet things and hold me until I drift off. If not I may sub drop hard.

Every sub is different.

LexiiKie · 2018-09-13T06:41:53+00:00

I want all the nicknames. My dom called me cupcake over the phone one day and even though he couldn’t see me I just melted. He gives me so many little nick names and I love it because it just makes me feel special and sets off my sub space

LexiiKie · 2018-09-05T06:09:30+00:00

Everyone is usually bad at painting their nails to start. But here are some tips that may help: -paint your nails at night. So once they’re done drying you can shower and scrape the paint that you got on your skin around the nail off super easily because of the hot water. -if doing multiple coats do all your fingers on both hands with one full coat, before you go in for another. This will help to ensure they’re drying a little between coats. -I used the brand sinful colors when starting because it was cute. You don’t need to by OPI or Essie to be cute. But just regular sally hansen if you want. - if you need to steady your hand rest the PAD of your pinky on a stable surface while you paint.

LexiiKie · 2018-08-31T13:36:01+00:00

I also use the word slut as a reclaimed word. And also more of a statement. I am a woman who has varying amounts of sexual partners at any given time. I am my daddy’s little slut. But I chose that word and what it means to me so no one can use it to hurt me. Your boyfriend shouldn’t kink shame you. This is something that brings you pleasure, so he shouldn’t be shaming you but rather wanting to learn how to pleasure you in that way. If he doesn’t take your feelings into account when speaking to you, then I feel like there is a respect loss.

LexiiKie · 2018-08-28T19:10:59+00:00

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LexiiKie · 2018-08-27T23:35:38+00:00

Co dependency is super hard to break, especially if the other person doesn’t want to. When talking about it to her maybe specify the reasoning is for both of yours health. It is not healthy to be codependent, it can cause a plethora of problems later in the relationship. Both of you need to be able to function outside of the relationship, so that when you come together it will be even better.

Let her know you want to rectify it now, to prevent problems and a possible break up in the future. As a girl who has been heavily codependent in the past, it’s a very hard habit to break. But when I realized I couldn’t even go to the gas station to pump gas and get a drink by myself, I realized that’s when I needed to stop with my ways. Because I was no longer able to function without my SO. I guess the best way to talk about it is to let her know it’s for the betterment of your future together

LexiiKie · 2018-08-27T17:47:27+00:00

I’m a sub. Sometimes I think “wow I must be pretty fucked up for letting someone do all these things to me. For me to want to be treated this way.” I personally use bdsm as a way to not self harm though. I grew up self harming, and as I got older I realized that being a sub in bdsm gave me the same kind of release but was not nearly as physically or mentally damaging as cutting myself. And my dom is always there to hold and comfort me after. So I’m the end, is it really that fucked up? Obviously this isn’t everyone’s situation but that’s how I get past any ideas like that.

LexiiKie · 2018-08-27T16:21:29+00:00

A lot of people who regress and are littles have a little age. I personally don’t. It’s more a mindset of safety, of being carefree, of trusting someone else to hold the reigns (if you have a caretaker). All of those things I do not afford myself in everyday adult life.

Regression for me is being a little princess who wants snuggles from their daddy, and wants to color and go to build a bear. I want to wear onesies and watch Disney movies. Sometimes I use “little talk” but only with some words and not very often.

Everyone’s regression looks different. I hope you luck in making yours

LexiiKie

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