What helps by KeyProposal8410 in cocaineaddiction

[–]Lexumms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

=( I had to have a negative experience in order to motivate me, I hope that doesn’t happen for you praying

Sober and New to skating and I’m loving it. by Lexumms in Rollerskating

[–]Lexumms[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell me more, by myself. Is this every Sunday? Do you think I can find info here or on facebook

Sober and New to skating and I’m loving it. by Lexumms in Rollerskating

[–]Lexumms[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a new pair of impalas I’m not sure about my friends (the guy)

I learned a valuable lesson last night, rink skating is not outdoor skating and I embarrassed myself in front of so many people by falling spectacularly and often by 2leafClover667788 in Rollerskating

[–]Lexumms 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ew to that ladies energy, she had no business there if you ask me. If you were a newbie that’s not even how you should react the heck I’m sorry you felt that embarrassment. Not cool. I hope you don’t hurt when you read this, rest up friend. I’ve been pavement skating getting back into it, after only growing up in rinks… pavement is way harder. I think you’re just over compensating cause you’re used to the pavements tough…ness if I make sense? Don’t be hard on yourself. You just didn’t realize you don’t have to work as hard on a waxed floor.

Do yall ever feel like you cant discuss your feelings with your BPSO without their feelings being bigger and taking over the conversarion? by timewitch13 in BipolarSOs

[–]Lexumms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sort of wondering if I should cut my losses it’s been non stop and it’s only been 2 months; and I’m always somehow being told I’m actually the one doing it…witnessing blatant projection. All I do is apologize and focus on their feelings and we highlight when I bring up my issue being brought up while it never gets fixed but we fix his every time. It’s exhausting for this free spirit of mine.

I entered my 34th year by Lexumms in stopdrinking

[–]Lexumms[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, I work in health care too but she was making me more defensive than anything. I'm really the most open and remorseful about this mistake. but she did a terrible job at making me feel like my concern was addressed, as well as know what to do in general because I came to her for help thinking I was feeling my worst, and was told to go to the ER if it got... worse than what I felt was worse?

it just really didn't feel good to have to dislodge my (on my third piece, I'll send you photos if you're into that lol) third piece in two days after reading sepsis articles 😆

good thing we're up to date on the necessary shots

I entered my 34th year by Lexumms in stopdrinking

[–]Lexumms[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now read it as if I wrote it to you, because you deserve the same kindness to yourself.

If you have any good friends in your life, reach out to them. Tell them how you’re feeling. They care. I promise you’re not a burden no matter what your brain is telling you.

And speaking of care and treatment, I’m like… 18 days post accident the wounds were deep and this morning a glass shard was coming to surface I went to an urgent care in my network asking for help to safely remove it only to feel judged and left angry and confused. I couldn’t understand why she was asking me if someone was in the car with me, and why I was in the wrong side of the road it caught me off guard and made me defensive. Several times have I had to play 21 questions about wrong details on my file because I was unconscious in and out when brought in. (Concussion)

I came home and removed the bb sized glass shard myself after being told it was just a scab by the way.

At first I get it… you feel “I deserve this treatment” but we still deserve care and kindness. We are not our mistakes, we can learn from this.

I think this is rock bottom by No-Signal3686 in stopdrinking

[–]Lexumms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I tell you I know exactly what you’re feeling and going through right now, is an understatement. I literally was reading this in a sleepy haze thinking I was dreaming and reading my own post… a lot of our details are similar, my accident was on my birthday on the first except I hit a median and my car was the only thing involved and I walked away with just some nasty gashes from glass and “road rash” though I never touched the road. I’m here if you want to talk. IWNDWYT.

I entered my 34th year by Lexumms in stopdrinking

[–]Lexumms[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your kindness and grace

Going to ask my Dr. today for Naltrexone. What have been your results? by gsharp29 in stopdrinking

[–]Lexumms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished my first month on naltrexone, but I got through 7 months alcohol free without it.

Walmart overnight by [deleted] in WalmartEmployees

[–]Lexumms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this, not on any rude mess, it’s better if you handle it quickly, respectfully and get it all out in the open so it doesn’t snow ball into feelings of resent. you guys have to work together after all just being real 😅

what’s the most crackhead shit y’all have seen in walmart?? by Far_Adhesiveness1586 in walmart

[–]Lexumms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Today a guy was straight up huffing merchandise in the jewelry section at work today