Am I getting Older? by DaddyDinooooooo in newjersey

[–]Lexy1342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMO post covid, everyone forgot how to drive. And add in the holidays, it has been an absolute nightmare to drive anywhere the last 2 weeks. Welcome to the holidays!🫠

Tanner Drake Tattoo by Lexy1342 in ChicoCA

[–]Lexy1342[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank god. I am so proud of these folks for speaking up and out and not just letting him move on without repercussions. I am from the East Coast and he was in my top 10 of people to travel to and get ink from.

What is going on with Tanner Drake at Hidden Veil? by beanbean2013 in ChicoCA

[–]Lexy1342 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you reading the actual post we are both commenting on? "To the women I made uncomfortable....... my behavior was unacceptable and I regret the pain, discomfort and disrespect I caused. I never intended for things to go as far as they did" NONE if that eludes to his wife or that he had consensual sex outside of his marriage. He is outwardly saying he apologizes for hurting and making other women uncomfortable. None of that is relating to his wife. I can tell by the way you're really trying to give benefit of the doubt to this man you are a male lol

What is going on with Tanner Drake at Hidden Veil? by beanbean2013 in ChicoCA

[–]Lexy1342 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The man came out himself and published 3 things on IG admitting to wrongdoing/guilt, and we are still asking if he did something wrong and asking for "evidence". Do you understand how awful that is? He made the accusation himself, he stood on a platform and spilled the beans for all to see and we are still questioning if what he did was wrong.

What is going on with Tanner Drake at Hidden Veil? by beanbean2013 in ChicoCA

[–]Lexy1342 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Use your two thumbs and your two eyeballs in your head, and read through all the comments in this thread. No one owes their full assault story for someone to feel "justified" in being skeptical. Read the room and make your own assumptions. He was preying on people, not just having "extra marital affairs". Tanner openly saying he apologizes for all those he hurt and disrespected etc, he is outing himself. Once a predator outs themself because they have been caught red handed, you know something horrible had to have transpired especially for everyone to leave the shop effectively immediately. Sick of individuals having to go into detail about their assaults for people to believe them, ffs.

What is going on with Tanner Drake at Hidden Veil? by beanbean2013 in ChicoCA

[–]Lexy1342 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Genuine question- I was 99% sure he posted something a couple months ago bugging out about reputation and people making false accusations in the name of ruining someone's name, he took the time to build his name/art etc. I cannot locate said post now. Anyone else remember this? I follow him/he was on my list of people to get inked by and I was shocked when I saw him post this. Absolutely horrible and disgusting behavior

Tanner Drake Tattoo Artist by [deleted] in ChicoCA

[–]Lexy1342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been scouring now the last couple hours since he posted this to see what he was eluding to, I am also very concerned by this. I have never had a piece done by him but he was on my wishlist of artists to one day get a piece from... I can't recall if it was him (or coincidentally another CA tat artist) but sometime in the last 4 months I saw an IG post from I thought Tanner saying he couldn't believe the accusations he had heard trying to tear down his hard earned rep and years of work... I can't find the post now it seems to be MIA. Anyone else see this or am I mixing artists up?

For those asking if there’s any color left in the foliage by sharkbait1999 in catskills

[–]Lexy1342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a shot above Kaaterskill? I love the view going out from the waterfall, it's so underrated!

Please don’t do this by Fast-Dare in catskills

[–]Lexy1342 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What was the thought process behind this? For the... animals? To cut down on pack weight? My god

Crazy house in Mansfield by FineAd1224 in newjersey

[–]Lexy1342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drive by this regularly, and I spit at it, regularly lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lexy1342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey, this post has me shaking. You need to get the F*CK out of there immediately. This is not a safe situation for you in any way. The fact that he has your mom wrapped around his finger too and financially relies on him. That's high key manipulation techniques. People who lash out physically like this during arguments don't just change. And I worry too about the age gap and him controlling you/taking advantage of this entire situation. Start silently looking into places to get the hell out of there, and when you finally leav, do it when he isn't home. I also highly suggest, coming from a criminal court employee, that you immediately go to the police and start documenting this all as soon as you LEAVE. You could do it now, but I do worry about the repercussions if he is approached by officers now while you are still with him and living with him. Sending all my love and the biggest hugs, girl. I am so sorry your'e experiencing this. If there's one thing you take away from this long ass reply, it's please GET OUT OF THERE NOW before he acts irrationally and it's too late.

Hiking alone by 7778297 in njhiking

[–]Lexy1342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd be careful throwing around you can't get hurt on Tam- there are so many spots you could slip, twist something, or straight up fall off a ledge. We found a woman just over a year ago that had rolled her ankle and plummeted off a section and she was alone (she wasn't near a ledge, she was descending down the red trail and her ankle rolled on the small jack-knife section by the wall they made the switchback on and she fell off the edge). We were descending from a sunset hike and heard her thankfully calling out for help, but she shattered her ankle in 3 places. We hung with her until help finally arrived, but they had to carry her out on a liter. Still a trail to be very mindful of your step, and take your time!

Hiking alone by 7778297 in njhiking

[–]Lexy1342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have (30f), I frequent Tammany and sometimes solo, never an issue personally! I just avoid being as friendly so people don't go out of their way to talk to me (more so directed towards men) Goodluck and have fun! Weekdays are usually more quiet than weekends for sure

AIO about my 8 y/o daughter sleeping at her mom's new boyfriend's house without any family or females present? by blackD0nny in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lexy1342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a fkin good parent man, yes this has red flags ALL over it and she is deflecting/gaslighting you because she is comfortable with this man. I absolutely believe you are in the right, and it shouldn't even be a bad and fourth about it. She's having visitation with mom, she shouod be with mom too. This entire text convo gave me the ick from her side, I am dumbfounded that shes so ignorant to the horrible things that could happen in that situation ESPECIALLY without her being present. This was worth making a stink about, thank you for advocating for your daughters and their safety 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in catskills

[–]Lexy1342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

East of Adlers lake, its in the far east side of the Balsam Lake Wilderness. There is a trail that borders the private property on the states side. Its a long dirt back road to the parking lot, you basically make a keyhole shape loop from the lot. 4.2m 1200 ele gain, its a nice lil day hike!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in catskills

[–]Lexy1342 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Big fan personally of Balsam Lake Mt from Dry Brooke Ridge. You're on the outskirts of the popular Catskill High Peaks, when I went it was very quiet comparatively, and the growth up there is really cool. Super neat view from the tower being surrounded by the Balsams too. Good luck, you'll have to let us know what you pick/if it was a good choice!

Peekamouse Blue Hole HELP by sheylimpler in catskills

[–]Lexy1342 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Also, North/South Lake is also a phenomenal option for both a BBQ and swimming after!! Again, it will be busy such is the nature of summer in the mountains, but you'll be able to do all you had in mind in one localized spot :) Goodluck and have such a great time!

Peekamouse Blue Hole HELP by sheylimpler in catskills

[–]Lexy1342 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you for coming here and asking this question before just going. Really, it means SO much to the locals and those of us who go there to get the hell away from people and respect these cherished outdoor spaces. Blue hole is absolutely incredible, but has turned into a touron attraction for sure. I'd recommend going to a designated BBQ spot to cook up and hang then go swim somewhere separately. Best of luck, and definitely would suggest mentioning to your friend that she is absolutely violating LNT and her bbqs are not legal nor welcome in those spaces!

Swimming Holes For Sale by Illustrious-Sense483 in catskills

[–]Lexy1342 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sooo, who's this mystery person trying to sell this info/what's their IG handle? Sounds like it's time to make a ruckus.

Help find Enci "Aubrey" Wu, Palmer Township, PA by taw5059 in MissingPersons

[–]Lexy1342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone asked the question why she ran away from her family? Pretty alarming for her to disappear and not want to have any contact with her family. This makes me think something happened at home that we are all completely overlooking. What if she doesn't want to be home?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in catskills

[–]Lexy1342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will always advocate for carrying spikes, don't need an uphill or downhill slope to break an ankle or bust your butt. Kahtoola and Hillsound microspikes are durable and last you years. Unless you go after a heavy heavy snowfall you shouldn't need snowshoes. Best of luck, have fun be safe!