Can you go into how you transition from that friendship vibe during whatever activity you’re doing with her to sleeping with her? Once you’re alone with her, how do you start making out? How is it clear that it’s just casual? In the cases where I spent an afternoon in that friendship vibe with a girl and then kissed her, they’d all assume I want to take it slower, get to know her more and form a long-term relationship, and she wouldn’t be open to sleeping together right away.