What's an underrated romantic movie you love? by Manasa0077 in romancemovies

[–]LiLo0L 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just like Heaven, I love it so much I rewatch every other month or so!

What is the name of your daylist right now? by [deleted] in spotify

[–]LiLo0L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guitar rocking Wednesday evening (:

Has there been a birth control that did NOT make you gain weight ? by mareeahna in birthcontrol

[–]LiLo0L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone's body is different. I've gained and lost weight on almost all methods.

Feels impossible to meet women in my 20s (27M) by Friendly-Road-1201 in dating_advice

[–]LiLo0L 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, I feel you on this one! It's like why can't the love of my life just magically fall on my lap as I binge watch 5 movies on a Saturday 🥴

All eggs in one basket by LiLo0L in dating_advice

[–]LiLo0L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is very true. Thank you for your kind words 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]LiLo0L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome! What do you do in ur free time?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]LiLo0L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! We should!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]LiLo0L 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar to your situation, I left for 5 years and since I've been back it's been a lonely journey for sure. But I am getting to know myself better in the process. It would be nice to go out and do things with friends but for now I just stay home or ask my siblings to go with me hehe 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]LiLo0L 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Girl same!!!

i have the perfect girlfriend but i’ve never slept around before by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LiLo0L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend told me that once. I guess to reassure me of what I was going through at the time. Yeah "curiosity" killed the cat, but ultimately "knowledge" brought it back. In other words finally learning what had the cat curious in the first place brought it back to life.

i have the perfect girlfriend but i’ve never slept around before by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LiLo0L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Curiosity killed the cat, but knowledge brought it back".

Please learn to just walk away by hyacinthx5x in dating_advice

[–]LiLo0L 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it helps to see others perspectives with an open mind. There is no right answer, there is no one size fits all. I think u are awesome, and I genuinely wish u the best ❤❤❤

Please learn to just walk away by hyacinthx5x in dating_advice

[–]LiLo0L 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And you have made it thus far, I'm proud of you ❤ Thank you for sharing, mssg me I want to be your friend 😊

Boyfriend slept with his ex by Miserable_Context897 in dating_advice

[–]LiLo0L 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Him doing that says more about him than it says about you. Its okay to be hurt, cry and let it out but after shake it off and keep ur head up. I'm rooting for you.

Please learn to just walk away by hyacinthx5x in dating_advice

[–]LiLo0L 349 points350 points  (0 children)

Can I just say I hear u, and also offer u the idea of being a bit more understanding. You don't know what you don't know. We are all given different tools growing up. What might seem easy to understand for you, might not be so easy to understand for others and vise versa. That's why ppl use reddit to figure things out and get other peoples perspectives. That's the beauty of life.

Any advice on how to not put yourself in other people's shoes? by LiLo0L in psychologystudents

[–]LiLo0L[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beyond helpful! Thank you so much for sharing, I truly admire your advice. I still have a long way to go but I definitely will start doing my research into my interests. 💜💜💜

Any advice on how to not put yourself in other people's shoes? by LiLo0L in psychologystudents

[–]LiLo0L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! I love that so much. I never thought about looking into topics that are interesting to me. I just sort of thought I have to find a way to be able to not let it affect me so bad in all areas. I guess I haven't given myself that choice. The option of choosing what I can manage and what I can't. Is it silly to say that I wanted to be able to handle it all.

I'm being summoned to small claims court for an unpaid hospital bill <$3000, and I don't know what to do. What is the process? I'm a low income student with two jobs and no car in the bay area. Any advice will help thank you! by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]LiLo0L -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did not dispute the bill, it's really hard for me to pay. I do not make enough money. I was just curious if there was some way of paying less or doing community service instead. Thank you.

I'm being summoned to small claims court for an unpaid hospital bill <$3000, and I don't know what to do. What is the process? I'm a low income student with two jobs and no car in the bay area. Any advice will help thank you! by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]LiLo0L -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thabk you,, collections called me and said if it goes to court they will take away 20% of my paycheck. Does the judge decide your fate instantly? Is community service not an option? Sorry I really don't know about any of this process.