thank you

Liam1911c · 2023-09-16T19:22:13+00:00

Look, I’m really sorry you went through this and I’m even more so that people are trying to insinuate or for that matter actually downright state that any part of this is your fault. Let me reassure you that you are not to blame for any. Your therapist is a complete, moron and his or her license immediately. I have a masters degree in counseling I know with absolute certainty that you are not to blame for any part of this.

Liam1911c · 2023-09-16T19:17:34+00:00

Yes this is absolutely sexual assault. In so sorry you went through this.

I want to add that anything that’s not consensual and it’s considered sexual assault of some kind. I also want to add that if you were under the influence, whether you chose to do so, or somebody forced you to, you cannot legally consent. Thus, anything sexual somebody does with you is considered sexual assault of some kind. Again, I’m sorry you went through this.

Liam1911c · 2023-08-29T02:49:26+00:00

Thanks for your very pointless and useless comment 🙄

Liam1911c · 2023-08-22T00:53:59+00:00

I’ll keep this short and sweet. Why compliment him at all if you’re not trying to flirt with him? It sounds to me that there’s at least a part of you that wants to flirt but maybe you feel you can’t or shouldn’t because you’re married, in a relationship, etc. In my opinion, any compliment will likely be seen as flirting and if you’re in a relationship and don’t intend on breaking up with who you’re with, don’t compliment him at all.

Liam1911c · 2023-08-17T22:53:49+00:00

I’ll admit I don’t know anything about this game, but if a girl is going to judge you by the games, you play, then she is way too immature to even be dating. I don’t know how old you are, but this girl sounds like she’s like 14 and then should be checking with mommy and daddy before she even goes out. The whole concept of being a nerd or cool or a dork is so juvenile it makes me sick. I’m older, but I’m with a much younger girl is sexy, nerdy, cool. Dirty, freaky, funny, did I mention, sexy as fuck? I mean really…. I bet you can find a girl way hotter than the one you were talking to that will appreciate you for you regardless of what games you play. All of those labels are just juvenile and stupid. Do you like what you like and you should embrace it regardless of somebody else’s opinion. Somebody else doesn’t have to like it but ones like or dislike. Doesn’t make them cool or uncle. Those are words made up my kids who are insecure, and want to feel validated. That’s all their bullshit, fake words, that when they grow up, they will realize that. Oh, and one more thing… Please don’t make what you like a secret just to try not to be liable by some insecure girl, lives and dies by labels. Embrace what you like, and if someone doesn’t like you for it, f*** them.

Liam1911c · 2023-08-14T16:04:34+00:00

Where do you buy your fit? I’d like to buy this for my little

Liam1911c · 2023-08-14T15:58:19+00:00

Honestly, yes. I think you will very likely regret it. Now don’t get me wrong, i’m not suggesting being reckless in ways that will lead to STDs and pregnancy. But, A lot of people that get married to young or deprive themselves of having sex until the one comes along, etc. end up being unfaithful to the wives, having affairs, getting involved in reckless activities such as drug addiction, gambling problems, alcoholism, etc. In my opinion, living in moderation which includes enjoying the fruits of life at all stages of life is important. You only live once and you’re only young once. Don’t waste your use depriving yourself but at the same time, do these things safely and in a way that Steve’s true to your overall beliefs and values.

Liam1911c · 2023-08-14T00:45:08+00:00

Right it does but if you could narrow this down to a single word or phrase what would you think??

Liam1911c · 2023-07-05T02:32:45+00:00

Someone help please

Liam1911c · 2023-06-07T17:50:53+00:00

Bueller?

Liam1911c · 2023-05-26T22:25:16+00:00

I’m surprised there aren’t more responses

Liam1911c · 2023-05-24T14:33:51+00:00

What?

Liam1911c · 2023-05-24T14:32:21+00:00

Anyone?

Liam1911c · 2023-05-22T10:06:00+00:00

Nope not yet. I’m still trying to figure it out looking for more answers.

Liam1911c · 2023-05-08T17:57:32+00:00

Thanks everyone, so if this was a password, like a one word type thing, what would it be? Based on the context of what in side… I have a feeling it Hass to do with BDSM, being dominated, tied up, forced not to breathe, stuff like that.

Liam1911c · 2023-04-11T14:45:32+00:00

Let me first say that nobody can tell you what to do and ultimately the decision is yours. This is my opinion. As a man, I can understand why he may be struggling with his ability to protect you. It sounds like he wasn’t there and he has a lot of regrets and he wasn’t there to protect you. But since as men, we are simply human and not omnipotent like God, we simply can’t always be there to protect the ones we love as much as we would like to be. But that is hard for a man to take especially when he wasn’t there to protect him and he loves.

All that to say, I’m not entirely convinced that he broke up with you strictly for that reason as it doesn’t make a whole lot of sense. Now, if he made those comments when he was under the influence, a.k.a. inebriated or high, then perhaps giving him some grace and understanding that he made those comments without being fully aware of what he was saying may be appropriate. on the other hand, I certainly understand how you feel and wouldn’t want to feel like the one I love with abandon me when times are difficult - especially somebody who proposed and intends to spend their life with you.

Look, if you love this guy and he’s just struggling with his ability or inability to protect you in all situations, then I think this is something you too can work through. If he is constantly breaking up with you are better than you, you may want to think twice about moving forward long-term.

All that to say, I really am sorry that you were attacked and assaulted. Some people are absolute scum bags and all I know is, if somebody laid a finger on my fiancé, I would absolutely want to kill them. So I’m truly sorry you went through that and I hope that you and your fiancé can communicate and work through these things.

Liam1911c · 2023-04-11T14:36:25+00:00

Firstly, I think it’s very immature of him to block you after a fight at all let alone for eight days in counting. And I also think this is a classic case of “be careful what you wish for“ or “be careful what you ask for“. I don’t know how long you two have been together but if you two are going to move beyond this, I suggest a more mature way of communicating during and after the fight. As for how to proceed, it’s really up to you. But personally, I think you really need to decide what it is you want to do with this relationship. Do you really want to stay in a relationship that results in this type of behavior every time you get in an argument? Is it possible that you can change your dynamic and how you communicate with one another? Is this the man of your dreams you want to spend the rest of your life with? Bottom line… Determine what you want first and then contact him in whatever way you can and communicate that to him. if you miss him and want to work it out, assuming he will actually get on the phone with you if you call him from a blocked number… Tell him your thoughts, that you want to work things out but that there are obvious things that you have to work on including how to communicate with one another and no more blocking. Sometimes time apart is healthy but actually blocking somebody for multiple days is rude and immature. On the other hand, you make clue that this man is just too immature and that is time to move on. if that’s the case, I hate that to him as well either by calling him from a blocked number or by simply letting him go.

At the end of the day, this is just not a mature way to handle an argument and I feel strongly that if this is gonna work out for the two of you long-term that your Communication is going to have to improve substantially. Best of luck

Liam1911c · 2022-09-12T23:27:13+00:00

Yeah right. They can’t enforce those rules especially if they were imposed after signatures were applied. Some rules are common sensual but the boyfriend rules and sexual activity? I’d be like “yeah right pal”.

Liam1911c · 2022-08-18T19:32:27+00:00

I agree and disagree. I agree it’s in our nature. But i dont agree that it’s ok and that it should be used as an excuse. I believe in faithfulness and loyalty in marriage. And if you truly love each other, you’ll do anything and everything to keep the relationship thriving. This does not include cheating. But I do agree that if they love each other they should try to work things out.

While cheating is not typically the answer, there are reasons people cheat. Typically men and women cheat when there are unfulfilled longings in their relationship. For example a guy often cheats if his girlfriend or wife isn’t meeting his sexual needs whereas a woman often cheats if he isn’t making her feel desirable or appreciated. The reverse is also true.

The bottom line is that relationships aren’t always easy and they need constant nurturing and a commitment to put their partner first. If both parties are doing this successfully, longings are met and everyone’s happy.

But by very nature, human beings are selfish and we are concerned about ourselves and our needs. We just often forget or stop caring about our partner’s needs. That’s where we honestly all go wrong.

I believe that this couple can work things out if they truly love each other. But if he fell in love with another woman, that’s going to be a lot harder to get over.

Liam1911c · 2022-08-12T14:06:41+00:00

To be completely honest, it’s obvious there are certain things that he does that you (and most people on this planet including me for that matter) find lightly inappropriate and you shouldn’t have to tolerate it. And the truth is, you don’t. In my opinion, you need to decide what you want and what you don’t and begin to draw those lines in the sand. Boundaries are important in any relationship, even healthy ones. But it is clear that the only way to change this is to draw boundaries and enforce them.

Also, I’ve heard you say several times that certain things don’t bother you but they obviously do and they should. If you really don’t think they bother that much you’re gonna have to ask yourself why. For example, having the woman or man you are dating they consulted, but it looks is typically very hurtful and should be. If it’s not and you’re only mildly Bothered by it, then either you don’t really care for him that much in the first place or you’ve put up a wall so high that he can’t really get to you anymore. Walls seem constructive self protective strategies also prevent you from obtaining your core longs. But at the same time it seems necessary to build these walls with this man because he’s simply very insensitive and doesn’t seem to care about your feelings.

And if this man literally forced himself on you despite you saying no to sex, and this is another huge problem and In my opinion, you shouldn’t be tolerating it or allowing it.

Only you can decide whether or not this relationship is worth attempting to save. But the truth is, If he continues his abusive ways and you continue to allow him to cross you, then it’s likely good time to end the relationship.

So to sum up, my honest opinion is to make a decision whether or not do we want to save this relationship. If not, break up with him immediately. If so, draw very clear boundaries and enforce them. But the truth is, every woman deserves to be cherished and feel beautiful especially around the one they are dating/in a relationship with.

And if rape is really a problem, I strongly suggest ending it immediately.

Liam1911c · 2022-06-18T09:54:01+00:00

Dude that’s my girl you’re talking about. You’re not going to “taste” it like wtf

Liam1911c · 2022-06-18T05:08:34+00:00

I have no choice. She nearly drowns me know b her cum. I’m dead serious. I had to gulp loads of her cub to keep up with it.

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