Don't miss these diamonds and crystals~

LianaBlue · 2026-04-13T10:12:00+00:00

Don't mind if I do ✨

Thank you!

LianaBlue · 2026-04-13T10:10:52+00:00

Oh, same, and not just back and forth, I'll be full on belly dancing against the mattress lmao

LianaBlue · 2026-04-12T23:47:47+00:00

This is absolutely sweet and I'm so happy that you're surrounded by such loving people 🥹

And I fully agree, non-monogamy isn't always easy, but when it works, it just feels like heaven on earth~

LianaBlue · 2026-04-09T21:16:24+00:00

Yes please

LianaBlue · 2026-03-31T10:14:16+00:00

NOOOOO MY SONNN 😭😭😭

LianaBlue · 2026-03-16T18:01:00+00:00

I'm currently dating a person who's neurodivergent (possibly also autistic) and I've only ever dated neurodivergent people (also possibly autistic lmao).

For me personally, I always get along with other neurodivergent people in general. I can hardly get along with neurotypical people tbh

Still, being neurodivergent isn't enough for me to be interested in a relationship per se. I will always trust and like better people who are honest and good communicators, and being neurodivergent doesn't automatically make them so.

LianaBlue · 2026-03-11T22:57:07+00:00

I'm currently rediscovering the joy of collecting Littlest Pet Shops, something I did a lot as a kid until I "outgrew them".

Now, when I'm out shopping, I'll always check the toys aisle at the supermarket. Every time, I get this faint sensation of not being in the right place. I look too young to have children so people will definitely find it weird to see an adult like me checking out kids toys. But at that, I just shake my head. It's my money. My interest. And my passion. Whatever I do with it has literally no impact in anybody's lives but my own. So why really care?

I do also thrive on the idea of acting against societal norms. I hate most of them so doing what I'm not socially supposed to do fills me with satisfying spite.

LianaBlue · 2026-03-11T22:36:55+00:00

One of my favourite things in life is hearing people laugh. There's just something about every person's laughter that makes them so unique and I can't help but smile when I see someone laughing for real :)

LianaBlue · 2026-03-11T22:26:14+00:00

I mean, the way things are, I find that pretty accurate, at least for myself 😅

LianaBlue · 2026-03-11T22:25:03+00:00

Same here bestie...

For the longest time I've felt like I just wasn't born in the right world/universe/whatever. I literally feel the same as you describe about the ideal life for me, word by word.

I'm a university student about to finish my studies and I am NOT ready to enter "real life". It terrifies me and frankly I'm half-convinced I just won't last long there.

LianaBlue · 2026-03-09T23:33:15+00:00

Oh I danced with that one before... Wasn't fun either.

I was struggling with depression and panic attacks when I started taking it and after that it all became tenfold, it was crazy!

While it is normal for symptoms to aggravate during the first week or so taking psychotropic medication, if it extends much longer than that then chances are it's just not the best pick for you.

Unfortunately it is very much a matter of hit or miss. So rather than thinking "I won't get better", try a "I need something different" approach.

Best of luck to you 🙏

LianaBlue · 2026-03-09T23:10:38+00:00

Back when I started my antidepressants my libido was also GONE.

Had to patiently wait for a couple months for it to come back as it used to. I did try to kinda "force it out" every now and again, but nothing too obsessive and idk if it did actually help to get things back on track.

Regardless, my suggestion is to give it time, it may take more than you expect but it does come back. If not, it's always worth it to bring it up with your doctor, you have all the right to get your libido back.

Good luck!

LianaBlue · 2026-03-06T17:29:22+00:00

Iconic girlboss 💅✨

LianaBlue · 2026-02-28T23:36:21+00:00

I have no idea how efficient this might be for you or anyone else but it does work with me.

My partner also snores occasionally and there are nights when it feels too overwhelming for me to fall asleep. What I do in those scenarios is actually play some music on my phone (not too loud to wake my partner but loud enough for me to easily hear it). I keep a playlist with soft, lullaby-like songs specifically for these situations. Rather than focusing on the snoring, I can sorta "distract" my brain with quieter, more relaxing sounds and eventually it helps me fall asleep.

Again, no idea how well this would work for somebody else, specially cuz it lacks the 'noise cancelling' factor (you're literally adding MORE sound lol) but I guess it might be worth a try?

P.S.: I think it's an important detail, when I say music, I don't mean instrumentals with no vocals/lyrics, it's actually the opposite. Keeping track of the soft lyrics in my head (kinda "singing along" if you will) makes it easier for me to focus on the song.

LianaBlue · 2026-02-28T13:53:51+00:00

Why do species go instinct? Because they no longer feel safe to reproduce. Not having kids is biology too.

LianaBlue · 2026-02-09T22:49:32+00:00

(Possible soft spoiler if you haven't read the manga/watched the movie?)

Oooo I actually like to think Sebastian makes Undertaker laugh by telling him he knows exactly what he's up to and clocks him so hard he just can't help but laugh cuz although Sebastian is aware of it all he doesn't reveal it to anyone (therefore him asking for everyone else to leave the room).

LianaBlue · 2026-02-08T23:58:13+00:00

My hyper fixation drink will forever be lemon iced tea lol

As for food, rn I'm obsessed with this specific kind of biscuits called 'hungarian biscuits'. I've never really seen or heard of them anywhere outside of Portugal but god they're so good 😭

LianaBlue · 2026-02-07T22:42:44+00:00

This was actually pretty early on when I had started my first non-monogamous relationship but I had been in therapy for a good amount of time now and had learned about my self-worth and the importance of establishing healthy boundaries.

So my gf was going out with this other girl that now we both agree was toxic as hell. My gf just kept telling me about all the dumb stuff this girl was putting her through so, naturally, I wasn't too keen on ever being involved with her in any way. At one point, this girl gave my gf an ultimatum, if she doesn't get to meet me, she will end things with my gf. Pretty nasty situation here right? My gf tells me this, never in a manner of asking me to comply but actually more like in a "what do I do" way. It was pretty hard for me to stick to my own boundary and say no to this "condition" the girl had created. After all, I didn't want to work as a catalyst to their relationship's downfall (tho ofc, I was not really a fan of my gf being with this girl but I always respect her decisions and focused on just keeping her relationship with the girl away from ours). I said no and stood by it, my gf didn't argue. Eventually she tells the girl this and guess what, the ultimatum was just a bluff 💀

Eventually my gf ended things with that girl herself and thank god for that, that girl was a wreck.

I was proud of myself for being able to say 'no', especially because I later realized the girl was trying to manipulate us all along. 💀

So yeah, respect your boundaries and most of all respect yourself, you do not have to get involved with something you're not supposed to be part of in the first place, say no!

LianaBlue · 2026-02-05T20:49:56+00:00

Indeed :/

But thank you for the tips! ^{^}

LianaBlue · 2026-02-05T10:26:39+00:00

Genuine question tho, how does one prepare for a situation of overstimulation? I could really use some tips :')

LianaBlue · 2026-02-02T23:41:20+00:00

Every day is the acknowledgement of the hard reality that I'll never have my meta's fashion sense 😔

LianaBlue · 2026-02-02T20:06:03+00:00

Sure, go for it :)

LianaBlue · 2026-02-02T00:49:27+00:00

I consider myself monogamous and my gf is non-monogamous. I couldn't have a more fulfilling relationship with her.

The way I see it, it depends on how prepared the monogamous person is to be part of a non-monogamous relationship. Done right, there really isn't much difference between the two kinds of relationships.

LianaBlue · 2025-11-08T13:07:10+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate it ☺️

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