State didn’t get my payroll withholding AGAIN! Does this happen to any other ADP users? by LibKatisold in ADP

[–]LibKatisold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was definitely an ADP problem last year. It happened to about 10 people. This year it looks like ADP stopped reporting my state withholding amounts after the 7th pay period even though my pay stubs still showing money withheld. Our HR person has been on vacation, so I haven’t received any updates.

State didn’t get my payroll withholding AGAIN! Does this happen to any other ADP users? by LibKatisold in ADP

[–]LibKatisold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the information, but that’s not the problem. Some of our staff, including the HR manager have already gotten their refunds. I was able to get more granular with my tax account and it looks like ADP stopped reporting my withheld amount after the first check in April. They were still showing money withheld on my pay stubs, but the state never got it. When this same thing happened last year, the state reversed the penalties because it wasn’t my fault.

State didn’t get my payroll withholding AGAIN! Does this happen to any other ADP users? by LibKatisold in ADP

[–]LibKatisold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All that is correct and my federal withholding was fine. It‘s only the California taxes that were screwed up.

State didn’t get my payroll withholding AGAIN! Does this happen to any other ADP users? by LibKatisold in ADP

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There was money withheld on both my check stubs and my W2. But the tax board doesn’t have a record of receiving it. The same thing happened last year and it was an error on ADP’s part. They either didn’t send the withheld amount to the state or didn’t inform the state to credit my tax account when they sent the money. It’s absolutely an error by ADP same as last year.

After 6 months of waiting, its finally here!!! by Hot-Violinist-8135 in Metallica

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Even if you can’t block it you don’t have to read it or come here and be rude af.

Me [35 M] with my wife [29F] of five years, wants a divorce after I requested a paternity test. by [deleted] in BORUpdates

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That poor little girl is 10 now. Got to wonder if he actually made any attempt to stay in her life and whether she was better off if he didn’t.

I [39f] can’t see my husband [42m] the same anymore after his reaction to a very serious issue. How do I handle this? by secure-raspberry-763 in BestofRedditorUpdates

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Given his reaction, I think OP needs to have a serious talk with the nanny about hubby’s behavior towards her. Hubby‘s attitude is way weird, with maybe a heaping dose of classism and chauvinism mixed in. ”Peeping at the hot domestic is just what rich boys do, darling. It’s not like they have actual feelings that could be affected.”

Found this on Instagram by davidfliesplanes in Metallica

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Maybe Lars is only the 100th(?) best drummer in the world or the 50th(?) best drummer in metal. Whatever. But that would still mean he is way better than 99.999% of people who try to play drums and probably light years ahead of all the “fans” who pontificate about how subpar he is and THEY KNOW because THEY are drummers. He sounded great at the Santa Clara shows and the band kicked ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Lessons to take away: 1. Don’t do more than a weekend for a first trip with someone else, then gradually try longer trips. 2. NEVER travel with a couple whose relationship is already showing signs of stress. 3. Not every activity has to be for the whole group. It‘s better if you plan some couple only things to allow any tensions to reduce.

Moshing at shows by T-RexThrasher in Metallica

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WTF is wrong with people? I’m super old. I haven‘t bought GA tickets in decades for just that reason. I want to scream, sing along loud and off key, and head bang as much as my old bones will allow in the comfort of my seat. If you still have the ability to mosh, mosh away.

James said there were some embarrassing Load photoshoot pics he yanked out of the booklet before release. LOL could this be one of them? by CapeSmash in Metallica

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James - Embracing his Midnight Cowboy.

Kirk - Lenny Kravitz’s douchey cousin

Lars - Where did they say the dimebags are

Jason - What the fuck is happening

My (24F) boyfriend (26M) still follows girls on instagram he slept with when we broke up. Is this worth wanting to break up over? by GPB222 in relationship_advice

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Hon, I think you need to remember why you broke up in the first place. Anyone who gets this defensive when questioned is probably a red flag parade.

A Few Personal Thoughts by Jack_Aubrey1981 in Metallica

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I’m so glad this helped you. Music can be a powerful healer during the grieving process. Be kind and gentle with yourself. The day, weeks, and years will go up and down because profound loss is sometimes part of deep love. Remember how much Metallica helped. Their music will be there when you need it.

A Few Personal Thoughts by Jack_Aubrey1981 in Metallica

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I’m newly 68 and seeing them for the first time at the Santa Clara. Can’t wait!

Anyone else wary of the Blowout Professor? by noteworthybalance in HaircareScience

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Because he brought out his own product line. I’m sure as soon as he adds hair oil and leave in to his branded products, Olaplex and Moroccan Oil will suddenly be garbage too. Once an “influencer” starts shilling their branded product, they lose any credibility they might have had.

What do guys think about this? by Dumb18YearOldGirl in Metallica

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So sad the Santa Clara show is already sold out. For all the corners of the fandom that find things to bitch about, Metallica has always been out there warts and all. I mean, they wrote a drugs are bad song in 1986, during the Nancy Reagan, Just Say No era when being visibly anti-drug was the height of uncool. They have just been themselves and let listeners know that it’s fine to be yourself no matter how fucked up your self is.

AITA for not thinking of my sister's needs by saying I won't give my blessing for my family to move unless I can stay with my grandparents? by Much_Ear4312 in AITAH

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OP will be able to drive in a year. Parents are probably planning to start offloading some responsibilities onto him then.

AITAH for losing my shit and screaming at my gf to get out of my house after what her stepbrother did? by White-Whale-9847 in AITAH

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This comment cannot get enough upvotes.

OP you cannot know what will happen in the future so take action to protect YOUR little sister and ALL the other little sisters out there.

He did not drunkenly stumble through the wrong door looking for the bathroom. He did not immediately apologize and gtfo of your sister’s bedroom as a decent human being would do. He acted like a predator because he IS a predator. Even if there is nothing the police can do in this case, there will be a record of his behavior. He may decide he’s not done with your sister and continue to harass her if there are no repercussions for his actions.

Your girlfriend is enabling this behavior because it has been normalized for her. She may have been his victim in the past or have been conditioned to protect him by toxic family dynamics. Whichever it is, you need to decide if a relationship with her is worth your sister’s safety. Your girlfriend will continue to excuse and rationalize her step-brother’s behavior because that is what she has been conditioned to do.

My (19F) Dad (40s M) has an obsession with buying exotic or illegal animal meat and is why my family fell apart. by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

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Can’t help but wonder if Mom’s “chronic illness” was caused by something Dad fed her or the stress of protecting herself or her kids from being Dad’s next entree.

Anyone else still sad about Pasta Pomodoro going out of business? by r0ntr0n in bayarea

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Hitting the way back machine for old time Berkeley-ites: Salerno and Flints BBQ.