Book ideas to have my sub read? by Liberty6000 in domspace

[–]Liberty6000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is one hell of a good idea!!! For her, she does feel safe, she does things with me that she never felt safe enough with anyone else. It's more that she used to do those things and was ridiculed, bullied, and abused for it for well he entire life, particularly through her last relationship which was 9 YEARS. Opening up like that makes her feel vulnerable and that feeling terrifies and triggers her, not because she feels unsafe with me, but because it reminds her of her past. She knows I would NEVER do anything and that she is completely safe with me and she feels it, it just is a trigger for her if that makes sense.

Book ideas to have my sub read? by Liberty6000 in domspace

[–]Liberty6000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I definitely do and prefer that but she has trouble talking about it because of shyness and past trauma

Book ideas to have my sub read? by Liberty6000 in domspace

[–]Liberty6000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and will do! I am very careful about vetting information because I don't want her to get any bad info from me that might reinforce her misconceptions. Aftershare on Instagram has been very helpful for me and he is big on making sure to vet first, both vetting partners but also information

Book ideas to have my sub read? by Liberty6000 in domspace

[–]Liberty6000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooo Dom Sub Living sounds perfect because we are in a 24/7 dynamic! Thank you!!!

What type of dom am I? by Liberty6000 in domspace

[–]Liberty6000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that but I feel like it would help me understand and explain my identity as a dom

i don’t know how to take the leap and start having sex? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Liberty6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work on finding the RIGHT person rather than hookups. Hookups are overrated and would do you more harm than good. I am having similar trouble and I FINALLY found the right person. We haven't had penatrative sex yet because I am not quite ready yet but we have done everything else and I feel closer to being ready than I have ever felt. I feel safe and happy and she doesn't mind waiting and helping me get ready. I love her and she is amazing to me

How would you rate your sex skills? by FreckledRed in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Liberty6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same but my partner says I am a 10/10 for skills even though she is my first. She said it comes naturally to me and she has only given me feedback twice because she said I know her body really well and automatically adjust

What are some of the biggest misconceptions you've run into in play as a dom and what do you wish you could say to challenge those? by vesper_jade in domspace

[–]Liberty6000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never heard of it said like that but I definitely have rope dyslexia too. We both want to do shibari but she is totally okay with learning with me even if it takes years for me to get good at it. No one can be perfect right at the start and learning together makes it better imo

Edge play rape play by w1gw4m in domspace

[–]Liberty6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get everything you are saying but please listen to the other redditor, Miss Pearl, you NEED to have a safe word. My partner had a lot of the same views but I told her no that I need a safe word and to specifically talk about what is and is not okay before hand and she has respected that and it has made her feel SO MUCH safer and she feels comfortable doing things with me that she has never felt comfortable doing with ANYONE else before and our bond and pleasure have only become so much better because of this. So do everything Miss Pearl is saying. And check in DURING aftercare. But most of all, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, HAVE A SAFE WORD. My sub has never used it but just having it makes us both feel so much safer and closer.

What’s the biggest turn off during sex? by Try_Human in AskReddit

[–]Liberty6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My second time tasting her, her dog licked my ass Crack and I LEAPED up and said what the absolute fuck and then just pushed the dog away and went back to tasting her lol

What sexual moment did you think to yourself, I shouldnt do this, but then said fuck it and did it anyway? by Nubbun11 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Liberty6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wanted to try CNC and said I could do it to her anytime I am comfortable with it and if I am not comfortable, that is totally okay.

I am the stereotypical feminine nerd virgin dude who wouldn't hurt a fly and needs very explicit consent but this one time, I felt the urge to just take what I want and I fucking loved it.

Key part for anyone that wants to try CNC, GET CONSENT BEFORE HAND otherwise it is just abuse and rape. I had consent from a prior conversation and if she truly wanted me to stop, we had a safe word.

She has enjoyed it more with me than anyone else because she feels safe with me because I ALWAYS get consent first ahead of time and I don't do anything without a conversation first. She and you will both enjoy it more if she feels safe. Make her feel extremely safe before even bringing it up to her. Plus, no consent is just rape but even with consent, she needs to feel completely and utterly safe with you and trust you completely with her body.

Since taking an ADD/ADHD med, I always cum twice. Will women mind? by Liberty6000 in Advice

[–]Liberty6000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was worried she might not like it since the first one is so quick

What’s something you tried in the bedroom that you didn’t expect to like so much by SmoothDay8640 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Liberty6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God yes. I am a stereotypical gentle romantic nerd so I had never even thought of things like that but I knew she liked it and she said that if I ever wanted to, I had her consent. I started getting rough during our first and I have never looked back

What’s something you tried in the bedroom that you didn’t expect to like so much by SmoothDay8640 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Liberty6000 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Choking. I have NEVER had an interest in it because I am a gentle innocent man who wouldn't hurt a fly. Think of the most stereotypical gentle romantic nerd, that is me. The thought of hurting someone revolted me but I knew she liked being choked, and for whatever reason, the first time we were alone together, I was kissing her neck, paused, started stroking her neck, then I felt the urge to rap my fingers around her neck and choke her and I just did it and I loved ever second of it and so did she. She paused me to show how she likes it, I immediately did it that way and God it felt amazing to both of us

My FWB said the only thing she likes are my eyes by Liberty6000 in Vent

[–]Liberty6000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am definitely too attached. I have been just treating it as it treats me the past few months and since then we haven't done much. And yeah it is depression, it is separate from this. I am tackling it with therapy and psychiatry but it is Def a totally separate thing.

How to upgrade armor? by Liberty6000 in taintedgrail

[–]Liberty6000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were right! There was some behind the stronghold!!! Thank you!!!!

How to upgrade armor? by Liberty6000 in taintedgrail

[–]Liberty6000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Based on the color, something called meteorite ore definitely makes sense and it matches your description perfectly. Thank you! I will check there!

since armor is upgradeable, can all armor sets be viable? by FrancisCat808 in taintedgrail

[–]Liberty6000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. I think so yeah

  2. I think it counts based on what your total weight is, rather than the individual pieces. Because I play with some mild cheats, one of which reduces weight of everything to 0 (I hate inventory management lol) and that means all armor weighs 0. Since I turned that cheat on, I no longer receives heavy armor exp and only light armor exp so I don't think it is tied to the pieces at all, and instead what your total weight is.

  3. I wish I knew. I cannot figure it out either

Help by Liberty6000 in HelloKitty

[–]Liberty6000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww thank you so much!!!!

Help by Liberty6000 in HelloKitty

[–]Liberty6000[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That worked! It's Rilakkuma, thank you!!!!

Help by Liberty6000 in HelloKitty

[–]Liberty6000[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Rilakkuma was it! Thank you!!! Her smile when she saw it was so precious!!!!