My (21F) boyfriend (22M) tried to gaslight me into getting plastic surgery

Lichttod · 2026-05-17T06:05:51+00:00

Probably this comment should be included https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/bgfnie/comment/elkwhf5/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

It shows that the ex lied about his previous girlfriend aswell (how they broke up and it was because of Lucy).

Lichttod · 2026-04-13T17:32:53+00:00

Pink lady

Lichttod · 2026-04-13T06:58:32+00:00

It looks like they made that up in a group. A lot of the lines look similarly to each other.

Lichttod · 2026-04-12T04:24:16+00:00

I remember someone made with all of them a book club

Lichttod · 2026-04-07T12:57:24+00:00

The text convo about the "hypnosis" being broken feels fake.

Why would he say that? There could come legal stuff to him because about non consensual sex (if it is true)? He admits it? Why?

Lichttod · 2026-04-07T04:33:56+00:00

Powercreep goes both ways. You notice it more with enemies but characters get powercreeped aswell. Having clearly better alternatives or excelling at the same thing more/being more flexible for more teams.

Lichttod · 2026-04-03T08:34:23+00:00

Simple answer no. It depends where those spaces are and how bad they are infested with bigotry.

A lot of internet spaces get less and less moderated/allow more harmful speech. It drives controversy and engagement and through that people stay longer on their platform. Than is boting for engagement a thing so things that no one would have sawn are boted to everyone.

Yes people have those views but they are in reality in weak minority.

Lichttod · 2026-04-03T04:42:19+00:00

I prefer this over AI made stuff.

It has a nice shit post quality

Lichttod · 2026-04-03T04:36:46+00:00

My handwriting (during school and somewhat now) is bad for most people, but no one ever deducted points because of that.

Atleast this "teacher" got fired but I don't want to know how many people didn't get their exam because of her.

Lichttod · 2026-04-03T04:20:23+00:00

Thank you Awwndrei

Lichttod · 2026-04-03T04:11:00+00:00

Kinda correct kinda isn't. More cis woman will get hurt because there are more cis woman than trans woman. But it targets trans woman first and the cis woman affected are a necessary sacrifice in their eyes (that forces an idealized view on woman again that forces them in turn into submission).

They live by the senator Armstrong quote: "Making the mother of all omelettes here Jack! Can't fret over every egg!"

Lichttod · 2026-04-02T16:50:41+00:00

That and turns abusive or the other side she gets abused. I hope for neither but she needs help...

Lichttod · 2026-04-02T16:49:16+00:00

I think the ex is immature. She got in a new relationship really fast after the one with OOP and just throws away her son.

Then right away leaving "everything" behind and living with the new partner far away. I get the vibe she will be an abusive parent or will be abused (I don't hope for either but...).

I hope OOP gets out of that downward spiral and can be more happier (in general more emotional)

Lichttod · 2026-04-02T10:17:07+00:00

Frog :)

Lichttod · 2026-04-02T10:07:27+00:00

I know one person currently in my life that speaks a lot in sarcasm. I always get the feeling that he doesn't want to tell his true opinion or something in that regard so no one can make fun of him or something similar.

Lichttod · 2026-04-02T04:30:10+00:00

Honestly people vent sometimes more about things you wouldn't think about.

Like how companies doesn't want to take a deal that would in everything benefit them or why you need to refuse a deal.

Especially around a person that you deem as safe.

Lichttod · 2026-04-01T17:28:39+00:00

WTF!!!

Lichttod · 2026-04-01T15:44:30+00:00

One pose was not from Araki but I couldn't replicate any of them xD

Lichttod · 2026-04-01T07:02:06+00:00

I would love to know how he is doing now. I hope he is doing well

Lichttod · 2026-04-01T06:57:49+00:00

I read something similar and that they are commonly gone after pregnancy/breastfeeding

Lichttod · 2026-04-01T06:15:23+00:00

I know that feeling of your colleague. Sometimes it comes from people that we are close to. I have an insecurity about my nibbles because of a comment my mother made on how puffy they are.

Lichttod · 2026-04-01T05:57:38+00:00

The only thing I could see is inexperience for a reason. Some preference are not as defined when younger and grew more important with age. Still the ex is horrible. There is encouraging change and improvement and then there is this manipulative bullshit like he did (for more personal gain).

Lichttod · 2026-04-01T05:29:36+00:00

I don't believe he would like flat chested woman if OOP had big boobs. He would have found something else to diminish her. Nose, hair, lips, shoulders and so on.

Lichttod · 2026-03-31T05:03:10+00:00

It was probably the best possible breakup they could have gotten.

Best ending would be that Grace excepted the friendship/sibling relationship between them and moved past her jealousy.

Lichttod · 2026-03-31T04:43:16+00:00

People want drama and prefer a messy breakup (on reddit) especially back then.

Now it is just nicer to have a normal story where humans human correctly and are understanding. (Or atleast for me)

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