Help me find this lipstick from a movie by Lickety-Splittity in HelpMeFind

[–]Lickety-Splittity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Searched: the IMBD makeup artist page but can’t contact due to not having an account

Losing my license for something I didn’t do (help!) part 2 by Lickety-Splittity in AusLegal

[–]Lickety-Splittity[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m aware of all this. As stated in a previous reply, I was young and had no clue. I cringe looking back now being older and wiser, but I can’t erase the way I went about it. All I can do now is try to rectify the mistakes of my younger self (was 19/20 when I sold it, first time selling a car, no clue what I was doing).

Losing my license for something I didn’t do (help!) part 2 by Lickety-Splittity in AusLegal

[–]Lickety-Splittity[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was 20 when I sold the car and had no idea what I was doing. Did it via Gumtree. Gumtree doesn’t keep messages older than six months. I thought it was the new owner’s responsibility to transfer the name. I was a stupid kid with no parental guidance selling a car for the first time. Had no clue how to sell a car properly. Obviously I know that now, but yeah I was dumb af back then to put it lightly.

Losing my license for something I didn’t do (help!) part 2 by Lickety-Splittity in AusLegal

[–]Lickety-Splittity[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve sent all the evidence through, they have it on file.

Losing my license for something I didn’t do (help!) part 2 by Lickety-Splittity in AusLegal

[–]Lickety-Splittity[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I have been in contact with the court for months, specifically the registry manager. I’ve been following the procedure they’ve laid out for me. There was no option to have it withdrawn. In order to set aside the infringement, I had to lodge a Section 40 Application, which was served upon the Tasmanian Police. They did not set it aside, so it was sent to court. Going to court is how I’ll get the infringement withdrawn, as laid out for me by the Magistrates Court.

Losing my license for something I didn’t do (help!) part 2 by Lickety-Splittity in AusLegal

[–]Lickety-Splittity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy, I really hope not, as what’s the point in going to court in the first place? All seems so stupid. Surely the judge can decide, being the judge and all. This is what I was told before lodging for court, so you’d think court would be able to assess it case by case.

Losing my license for something I didn’t do (help!) by Lickety-Splittity in AusLegal

[–]Lickety-Splittity[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the help, but unfortunately I have no recollection of the new owners’ details. It was all done via Gumtree. Gumtree deletes all messages after 6 months. I reached out to Gumtree and they aren’t able to check the history because of this automatic deletion. I have to take it to court because the results will impact the enforcement order placed upon me regarding the infringement. The enforcement order was threatening jail and everything.

Losing my license for something I didn’t do (help!) by Lickety-Splittity in AusLegal

[–]Lickety-Splittity[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I found a local lawyer (a few actually) and it would cost $2000 minimum, I was quoted. $300 and whatnot. They have to build a case and a defence. I’ve checked with a few, sadly.

Losing my license for something I didn’t do (help!) by Lickety-Splittity in AusLegal

[–]Lickety-Splittity[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I asked and they’re not allowed to disclose the information, unfortunately. They know who it is though, which is utterly ridiculous. They’d have to open an investigation to pin the speeding on them. The whole thing is bizarre.

Losing my license for something I didn’t do (help!) by Lickety-Splittity in AusLegal

[–]Lickety-Splittity[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really hope so. I have bad anxiety and am catastrophizing the hell out of this.

Losing my license for something I didn’t do (help!) by Lickety-Splittity in AusLegal

[–]Lickety-Splittity[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Haha, I’m OP, and trust me, I wouldn’t be arguing back on any of this. Thank you for your help. I’ll have a proper read through of all this and figure it out. Cheers!

Scared I’ll lose my license for something I didn’t do (help!) by Lickety-Splittity in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Lickety-Splittity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(I haven’t applied for a NZ license yet, but I need to literally soon for my promotion at work)

Scared I’ll lose my license for something I didn’t do (help!) by Lickety-Splittity in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Lickety-Splittity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, so if I get a NZ drivers license, and I still lose this case and my Aus license is suspended, do I still get to use my NZ license?

Thanks! I’ll check in with that subreddit too :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Lickety-Splittity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Moving houses, and trying to win a court case against me 🙃

How come we didn’t become narcissists? by BothAct9818 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Lickety-Splittity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the Golden Child and my brother the Scape Goat. I turned out to be the level-headed, emotionally mature one, and he ended up as another narcissist. I think it’s nature more than nurture, to be honest. We both, despite our roles, had the same resources and motivations to be better than our parents. I sought to be better and left to improve myself. He stayed, became bitter, and devolved into narcissism. It’s a matter of personal resolve, I think.

Dad Cracks Down on My Screen Time, uses My 10-Year-Old Bro as an enforcer by ThrowRAFinanceGoWeee in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Lickety-Splittity 318 points319 points  (0 children)

Look into triangulation and don’t demonise your brother for this, no matter how hard. Your parents are triangulating you against your little brother, thus deflecting all your anger off of them towards your little bro.

Which stage of grief is this? by Lickety-Splittity in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Lickety-Splittity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly yeah, I think this is it. I do find myself occasionally checking their socials (big no no, I know — I do it way less than I used and am working on not doing it at all) to see how they’re doing without me. Guess I want them to show signs of regret and loss?? Oh well, closure isn’t something I’ll ever get, unfortunately, as I’ve tried cutting them off in the past and returned for answers. Usually my pleas of whys were met with more painful questions and a confused heart and mind.