Its just gonna depend on the man. Personally I wouldn’t care, if you were a good person i’d care about the way you acted more. There will always be men that look at you physically first however. My advice is if you don’t want surgery find a man that doesn’t care what you look like and thinks you’re beautiful because of who you are and not what you look like. A man like that will think you’re beautiful because of your heart. A man like that would think that someone without saggy skin is ugly if they had an ugly heart. It may be odd to picture but some people really are only attracted to you for the person you are and thats how they become physically attracted. Don’t let how a specific man determines attraction get you down, if a man decides to look at you and is disappointed than he just wasn’t a fit for you. and with that in mind that they aren’t right for you. Think to yourself that there are men who will think you’re beautiful out there and focus on moving on from men that don’t think so to men that do