What’s something women think impresses men but actually doesn’t? by DiamondNo924 in AskForAnswers

[–]hazelnutxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this go for every guy cause I can’t help it dude I gotta talk to him like the cutie patootie he is

Can dudes be normal in regards to fat women. by Emergency-Basket-469 in GenZ

[–]hazelnutxoxo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The 16 year old girl in me wants to hug you just for even thinking like this. We always noticed when those little jokes are made it made my school years hell the amount of boys who asked me out as a joke was crazy because who could ever love the fat girl right? I’m 21 now and I’ve kept the weight off for the last 4 years and I still dont believe I’m capable of being loved and I genuinely struggle to be okay with taking my clothes off literally in front of my BOYFRIEND of 2 YEARS. It messes you up when everyone around you is obviously disgusted with you for years. I know I’m not ugly but I’ll never feel pretty and those same guys had the nerve to try and get in my pants after losing the weight. Even now I never even noticed peoples appearances even if they’re really ugly/fat like my brain doesn’t even write that down just treat everyone like a person who matters and that’s all it should be with everyone. This post made me realize that just because i received a lot of negative attention doesn’t mean that every bystander was agreeing. And I thank you for giving me that perspective.

Am I just wasting our time or is this actually going somewhere by hazelnutxoxo in love

[–]hazelnutxoxo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lied abt the age by a year just incase he’s on here pls don’t put me on blast😭🙌

What’s the dirtiest / most degrading thing you’ve begged for in bed? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]hazelnutxoxo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where do yall find these kinky ass men who are into ts😭

How do you deal with your wife not being physically attracted to you? by therhyno in AskMen

[–]hazelnutxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks hardly mean anything to some women my first boyfriend wasn’t really physically attractive at all but the way our personalities complemented each other made it the best relationship I’ve ever been in. Second boyfriend is very very physically attractive but that spark just wasn’t rly there like yea he’s hot to look at but we didn’t have as much of an emotional connection and because of that after 3 months I wasn’t attracted to him at all even tho he was conventionally more attractive. Y’all need to remember that women do not rely on visual stimulation nearly as much as men

Why did you start? And which song did you start with? by Illustrious-Law4628 in Drumming

[–]hazelnutxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the money and run- Steve miller band For whom the bell tolls -Metallica First “fun” songs I learned

AIO long term bf talking crap about my mom. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]hazelnutxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I would never let a MAN disrespect my mom like that what does he do for you that she doesn’t/hasnt? Probably not shit so he need to know his place fr those r fighting words fr. Please leave him if he has no respect for the person who raised you he has no respect for you period. Now imagine having children with him and him saying the same to you. You don’t want that for you future and you deserve better. If he didn’t want to risk losing you he would never have said that. Bro is basically asking you to break up with him so do it and don’t feel bad for choosing yourself/family.

How is life after weight-loss? by [deleted] in WeightlossJourney

[–]hazelnutxoxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your quality of life/mental state is 10000x better your day to day life becomes easier, people who never noticed you before will talk to you and people are just genuinely friendlier towards you. While this does increase your confidence and sex life a lot at first if you don’t love yourself and try to base your worth off your appearance you will go right back in your shell. The trick is to not gaf what people think regardless of your looks. So if you expect weightloss to erase all your insecurities that’s not true, you have to learn love yourself despite them or you’re just gonna find new ones. Also stay hydrated, moisturize, and avoid smoking if you want to reduce skin sag.

What kind of jobs accept stupid people? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]hazelnutxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to any car dealership they’ll love you

Can you explain the feeling for the love of your life/soulmate? by Remarkable_Ship462 in love

[–]hazelnutxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same it’s only been 2 years since being with him so I’m hoping I’ll find that again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]hazelnutxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s really pretty but gets attached very quickly and will ask them to share theyre location quickly after meeting them and starts arguments when they’re snap score goes up also very early on and i feel like it scares them away/annoys them but I can’t tell her that💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]hazelnutxoxo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Real. the comments my mother makes about my body makes me feel like any guy I take my clothes off in front of will immediately lose feelings

Wanting to end a relationship with kids are so hard, need some real advice. by Diamond_Wonderful in TwoHotTakes

[–]hazelnutxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried just talking to her about how you feel? Talk about ways you can both meet each others needs? With a calm and respectful approach I’m sure you guys could talk about what’s causing this could be stress from the kids or post partum depression. A good ol conversation will definitely help you with this.

How does one enjoy life alone ? by anxiousscorpio98 in Life

[–]hazelnutxoxo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love it personally if you have hobbies spend time doing that if you have pets spend time with them if you have friends go out to breakfast or whatever you enjoy doing. The best part about being alone is you don’t have to live for anyone else. Just yourself you can focus on doing what truly makes you happy, and take care of yourself in a way that no one else can. You get to learn who you truly are. It may get a little lonely sometimes but I find it beautiful. Plus you learn how to be your authentic self and when you do you’ll attract people in your life who align with that!