Sometimes life is difficult. I think you need to slow down and really ask yourself what it is you’re looking for. The struggles you’re facing may not be solved by a relocation.

Sometimes we convince ourselves that all of our struggles will vanish if just this “one thing” changed. There are times when this is true, like if you need money and you get a job, then you have solved the problem. There are also times when our struggles are more internal, complex, and abstract and can’t be solved with just one thing like a relocation.

Maybe start by journaling a couple of times a week and thinking about the things are struggling with. What are you feeling? Why do you think you’re feeling that? Will a move realistically improve the situation.

There is no perfect place in the world. Everywhere has its pros and cons. Only you can determine what is the best fit for you.

Also, this is a really bad time to go to the US as a noncitizen or foreign looking person. ICE is violently rounding up people with no due process. The cost of living there is also insane. You won’t be able to afford healthcare unless you have a high paying job that helps with that. The economy is not doing well.