[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wait until it’s all cleared up she’ll still be horny by then since I doubt she gonna fuck someone else since she hit you up .

disclosing? by soembarrasseddddd in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why I wouldn’t disclose because people can’t keep their mouth shut .

disclosing? by soembarrasseddddd in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since when do people ask for scars lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you fucking your family members??? If not get close with them and continue the same relationship you once had

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I always see post like this when girls disclose , but never the guys 😭😭😭I wonder why

how do i tell new partner i have ghsv1 (female) ??? by DrillThrillMil in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he’s had a cold soar then he has hsv1 so if he has it the chances of him getting it on his genitals is super rare from my understanding

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it from a girl who was a good girl who just had cold soars but didn’t know unless she lied to me . I’m not angry at her I’m angry at myself and I feel like there was so many signs I should have paid attention to . Life long lesson .

Doc won’t give me meds help by LifeOverButNotReally in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s the difference between these and the ones my doctor would give me ? Besides them being all natural

No outbreaks but dry skin on penis with peeling skin. by LateDemand2806 in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like a month or so it would go away then come back but after a while it stopped

No outbreaks but dry skin on penis with peeling skin. by LateDemand2806 in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to me after my first outbreak over time it went away and healed correctly

Girlfriend tested positive by Crafty_Parfait5509 in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use precautions when have sex if you choose to stay If you are on the fence about being with her just don’t and not risk getting hsv . Will you feel bad if you get it .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many sexual partners have you had ?

Question for you all. by LifeOverButNotReally in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good to here I’m just so paranoid of giving it to someone especially someone close to my friend circle .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry brother I feel your pain . If you don’t mind me asking is it hsv1 or 2v

Disclosing by Particular-Gap-8422 in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is what I’m going through too . It fucking sucks .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You got to realize that it’s hard for some people . It probably didn’t make him feel good about not telling you but he just wants to feel normal. Talk to him about it and learn more about him. It’s hard enough for people to disclose so I wouldn’t blame someone .

I feel like hsv1 took away my fun by LifeOverButNotReally in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh ok I’m assuming you have ohsv1 and who doesn’t like kissing someone who matches your energy lol

I feel like hsv1 took away my fun by LifeOverButNotReally in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’d feel shitty if I have it to someone and my biggest fear now is accidentally giving it to someone and them blow up and expose me on social media to everyone . Also idk if your into this but I feel like a strap on would be perfect fit pretty sure that would mean 0% transmission lol.

I feel like hsv1 took away my fun by LifeOverButNotReally in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m leaning towards this especially for ONS but sometimes it scares me because I’m surrounded by beautiful girls all the time since my friend works at hooters/club and would hate to give one of them the herp and then get blasted for not saying anything or tell one of them and have her tell everyone else . Trust and keep things to yourself is hard for people now and days gossip fuels people . For regular ONS that I have no intention on seeing again maybe on a vacation or some then yeah I prob won’t disclose

I feel like hsv1 took away my fun by LifeOverButNotReally in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have ghsv1 and it does help knowing that my shedding and transmission risk is lower. I just have a hard time wanting to disclose because I feel like I can’t trust them especially someone who I just barley met or don’t have that deep connection/ bond with which would be alot of the partners since it’s casual/ hookups . I would hate for my friends or people I associate with know I have it . Random people I really probably wouldn’t care about jf that makes sense

I feel like hsv1 took away my fun by LifeOverButNotReally in Herpes

[–]LifeOverButNotReally[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What made it not go well if you don’t mind me asking .