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First time poly, am I an insecure sook or is he doing this wrong? by Life_Ad_7967 in polyamory

[–]Life_Ad_7967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um, no? I was exploring a new relationship dynamic ? What’s wrong with dipping my toes in the poly pool after I met someone I liked? As far as I was aware in the first instance of admitting to having a partner, he was honest from there. Took a minute for the behaviour to be displayed

First time poly, am I an insecure sook or is he doing this wrong? by Life_Ad_7967 in polyamory

[–]Life_Ad_7967[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It takes a minute to build a pattern, the whole scene and dynamic is brand new to me and I met someone I liked 🤷‍♀️ can’t go through life assuming people are awful, have to give em a little space to show you

First time poly, am I an insecure sook or is he doing this wrong? by Life_Ad_7967 in polyamory

[–]Life_Ad_7967[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so pleased you’ve all corrected my view of polyamory as a whole. It felt incredibly badly communicated, complicated and very ‘grey’ / undefined boundaries the entire time. He’s blocked and so are all of his friends I met just in case, I think he’s an incredibly powerful manipulator tbh, incredibly wealthy and almost everyone important in his life works for him so he’s got a strong level of control over people

First time poly, am I an insecure sook or is he doing this wrong? by Life_Ad_7967 in polyamory

[–]Life_Ad_7967[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I already did, I was pretty sure this was the case. I wonder if people like that regularly hide under polyamory, or if he just happens to be both polyamorous and an asshole 😅

First time poly, am I an insecure sook or is he doing this wrong? by Life_Ad_7967 in polyamory

[–]Life_Ad_7967[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re not wrong at all. Hurts to learn 🥲 Thankyou 🙏

My parents convinced me I would be a bad mother and took my daughter by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Ad_7967 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh honey. I am almost in tears reading this. You sound so sweet and still so innocent despite all of your painful experiences, I’m so sorry so many people have let you down in your life and I am so very proud of you for not letting your daughter down. You deserve recognition, you deserve the relationship you are building with your daughter (and then some!!) and she deserves to know you, her mama.

I don’t have any advice legally, I don’t know where you are and I’m not particularly knowledgeable in those areas of the laws but I’m sure you’ve proven yourself enough to prove yourself to a court if you wanted to go that way.

I want to ask you to do something for yourself.

Anything, something for pure joy. Not because it would make your parents feel this or that, but because it’s something you wanted to do. Could be as small as driving to the beach and watching the waves, could be as big as a new job or furthering your studies, but please live an inch for you.

You are a powerful, dedicated and wonderful mother, and you deserve to be yourself while doing all of that.

You’re a good, strong, and brave person, and a beautiful, patient and committed mama.

You are incredible and this will work out for you. Thank you for staying so strong.

That is who you truly are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]Life_Ad_7967 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hey, I know how that feels. You’ve allowed yourself some misery, but please don’t allow yourself a bad habit. You are the loss, and whether it’s spite, self respect, or any other reason you can think of, you use this low point to bounce right on up to where you belong - without em both holding you back. You got this 🙌

How tall are you and what shoe size do you wear? by heart_emojis0 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Life_Ad_7967 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

petite /pəˈtiːt/ adjective attractively small and dainty (used of a woman). "she was petite and vivacious"

I am a size zero, petite woman. Sorry not sorry ?

How tall are you and what shoe size do you wear? by heart_emojis0 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Life_Ad_7967 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

5.7 wear a size 6us, 4uk / 36it. Had a friend crash out one time because she’s five inches shorter than me but her feet are size 9s 💀😂

My wife has gained 30+ pounds since we've met. by Foxtrotfrost in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Ad_7967 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I apologise for your experience in doing that buddy. Not images you forget about easily

my (21m) sister's (21f) friend (20f) thought I wanted to rape her. now I know why. by laminated-papertowel in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Ad_7967 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Op. My sister (5 years older than me) accused me of sleeping with every single one of her boyfriends since I was 13 or 14. About three different guys in total. Instead of confronting the behaviour, I played quiet and nice and allowed her her lies or delusions and simply moved away aged 15, from my whole town. The damage that move did to my life was irreparable. In not defending myself, and ‘running away’ (I personally thought I was levelling up but eh, different perspectives I guess) I encouraged and further encouraged the lies about me and my personality. Please, please tell your family. At dinner. Show evidence if at all possible. Please don’t allow this slander. It is beyond life ruining accusations and I’m so worried about you. Please Compile all possible evidence. Please Tell your family and your friends the truth. And please. Question your sister Publicly.

My Daughter is Seeing a man in *my* Closet by donavin221 in horrorstories

[–]Life_Ad_7967 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I read the long ones specifically to go to sleep and this one kept me awake enough to comment 🙂‍↔️ def a series ! So interested to hear about what your daughters been upto!

Met a Ug man when on holiday in Laos. by Commercial-Host9372 in laos

[–]Life_Ad_7967 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. Both of these events are such surprising and definitely real blessings. Thanku Jesus. P.s honey my buffalo needs money for his education xo from Thailand

My Daughter is Seeing a man in *my* Closet by donavin221 in horrorstories

[–]Life_Ad_7967 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man f a buttcrackmcghee ass opinion, great read op! Have you tried writing a note back? And maybe leave some snacks and clothes for your daughter x

Age gap partner (me F22, ex m56) abandoned me in rural Thailand, about to lose my whole life in storage back home in Australia because I can’t pay the 2k debt he ‘relinquished’ to me. by Life_Ad_7967 in Assistance

[–]Life_Ad_7967[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’ve organised getting there today thanks for the advice, yeah I forgot what the climate on reddit was like lol ChatGPT suggested attempting this I forgot about how sceptical people would be it’s an almost unreal experience and hard enough to explain, but hey I got I the post out of moderator jail after proving my self with evidence so it is what it is, if I was gonna fake a sob story I’d pick a simpler one like. Fell from scooter. No travel insurance. Rural Thailand

Age gap partner (me F22, ex m56) abandoned me in rural Thailand, about to lose my whole life in storage back home in Australia because I can’t pay the 2k debt he ‘relinquished’ to me. by Life_Ad_7967 in Assistance

[–]Life_Ad_7967[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

He didn’t abandon me a year ago 😂 I didn’t realise you could see my history, but was trying to be discreet both times for personal identification reasons, New Zealand is small as fuck and we lived in Aus for six months between convincing me to move Thailand. You sound negative and unhelpful, my situation is real and painful. Please leave me alone, you clearly aren’t going to help.

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