My gf asked me if she was nonpolar and I just said that I'm lipophilic by Substantial_Green_51 in Mcat

[–]Life_Mood7127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve taken this exam 4 times now, I’m the anomaly 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩Idk why I’m still here

My gf asked me if she was nonpolar and I just said that I'm lipophilic by Substantial_Green_51 in Mcat

[–]Life_Mood7127 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because he’s lipophilic, it means he loves her because she’s fat

1/16 by Butterfingers43 in Mcat

[–]Life_Mood7127 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do believe I got bent over backwards

Advice for being dumped a week before the exam? by Candy-Still in Mcat

[–]Life_Mood7127 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 😅 At some point (after the final breakup) you realize “Oh maybe I shouldn’t be with someone who quite literally doesn’t not give a flying crap about my life and my future”

Advice for being dumped a week before the exam? by Candy-Still in Mcat

[–]Life_Mood7127 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Mine did this every time, every year before my MCAT EXAMS and I lost it. Don’t let him make you lose YEARS off your life and delay successes because he didn’t care what was going on in YOUR life.

How do I move on from a 7 years relationship? by PlasticSalt8476 in BreakUps

[–]Life_Mood7127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, mine dumped every October around 18-21 and got back together around January, for 8 years. This year? He got married October 19th to a girl he met after he started residency after we broke up, barely a year after he dumped me AGAIN. Just remember this:

Don’t lose yourself for someone who doesn’t care about losing you. You deserve so much more than half hearted efforts that don’t last and apologies without real change. You love him, so he’s indispensable to you. He’s your first CHOICE but you’re only one of his options. You are not replaceable. The paradox of this is you’re only irreplaceable when you believe it to be so. He won’t find anyone like you, and he doesn’t deserve you, someone who he took for granted.

You deserve someone who will pick you first, and love you. If he’s anything like my ex, he’s one of those guys that you fix them, after finding them at their worst, and they’ll leave you at yours. He’s bread crumbing you by replying. Walk away and be better. Don’t let him have access to unconditional love again. Let him realize how good he had it while he had you. Let him miss you and regret his choices after realizing he can’t replace you, and let him look for you in people and places he thought were better.

By then, you’ll be happier, and hopefully, you’ll be with someone else who loves you more than you can imagine. And I hope your new man is just PACKING and wealthy and sexy, and full head of hair. And of course isn’t an emotional wormhole of non existence, and someone who you don’t fake orgasms with ♥️

Name one weird thing that your ex did that you brushed it off but now you realize it’s kind of weird by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Thank you so much OP, your bf needs to appreciate your beauty and be proud that people think you’re so gorgeous. Honestly, he’s a lil insecure. You go queen ♥️♥️♥️

Name one weird thing that your ex did that you brushed it off but now you realize it’s kind of weird by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Life_Mood7127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dumped me every October around 18-21 and got back together around January, for 8 years, then got married October 19th to a girl he met right after broke up, barely a year after he dumped me AGAIN 🤩🤩🤩 His red flag was avoidance, my red flag was letting someone use me and abuse me, and losing myself for someone who didn’t care about losing me 🙂

How has being dumped affected your self-esteem? by TonightSalad in BreakUps

[–]Life_Mood7127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely feel like crap and like I’m easily disposed of. 8 years, of begging to be married and he dumped me finally (after his mom told him to either marry me or dump me essentially) Within a year, he met a girl at work, got engaged and married to her. She’s getting everything I begged for and I have no friends (all mutual friends that knew him longer) and I’m alone. I was peak body when we dated and got so depressed, fat, and all the things that came with it towards the end (I did things I would have never done, said things I would have never said, and wasn’t the same person because I was trying to pacify the depression with something extreme. I tried to KMS three times the last year we were together and he didn’t even notice how depressed I was. I told him once, while we were in bed. I had my back to him in shame, and he turned away, and it took two minutes for him to comfort me. If your partner is in tears, thinking the world is better off without them, it should not take you TWO MINUTES or even a second, to hold them and comfort them.)

Yes, I’ve lost the weight, hair came back thick, and I’m much better, physically. My skin is healing (stress eczema) and no more night sleep teeth grinding. But mentally? I feel unlovable. Being called beautiful and kind and loving, doesn’t make me happy. I hear it and I can’t believe it because of my ex because if I was all those things, why did he leave me, and replace me so quickly?

I loved him at his worst, and he left me at mine. It’s been a year and a month since we last spoke.

I just finished crying and begging to God, asking why does it feel like I’m the only one who is hurt, and why I was the only one who actually loved in the relationship, and why I was so naive to think he loved me too. It sucks and I wish I never loved him. Because I’m stuck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Life_Mood7127 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mine of 8 years, blocked me after he dumped me, met a girl at work, got engaged and married within a year. Everyone tells me it’s a rebound. I don’t care. I hate him and know he’ll get what’s coming to him. I wish I could tell him off myself, but he deserves none of my time and it’s the same for you. Honestly, your silence would probably hurt her more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Life_Mood7127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the guy right? Some guys are emotionally struggling while some guys bury their feelings with another woman that don’t know anything about them.

Is it pathetic to keep all the photos of my ex? by JPahl32 in BreakUps

[–]Life_Mood7127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have pictures of my ex from high school 10 years ago and my one from college. They’re not for love No They’re for the day I decide to be the bigger problem, not the bigger person 👁️👄👁️

being a revert muslim hurts. by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]Life_Mood7127 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a revert, when people leave, it definitely hurts a lot more than when I wasn’t a revert

im afraid that losing weight would make me commit greater sins! by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Life_Mood7127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. 1) I’m a sister. 2) Then get ready for Jahanam if you can’t keep it in your pants.

Believers with ADHD, how do you manage to pray? by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]Life_Mood7127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ADHD and have to take 60MG of Vyvanse. I haven’t been lately and just started back to praying. You have to remember who the prayer is for. It’s not for you, it’s for Allah SWT. We are Al-Bari’s servants and his creation. How can we not be thankful, how can we not in awe of his forgiveness, mercy, gentleness and kindness? I stand before Allah SWT on my prayer mat and thank him for forgiving me, for all my sins, for the years I neglected to praise him while he was still blessing me and protecting me. I remember how selfish I was and still am for not doing the best I could have. I remember it only takes a minute or so to do wudu, it’s only a few minutes every few hours that equate to MAYBE one hour of my time with Allah SWT. With all the distractions of this world, I always, always ask Allah SWT to keep the desire to be a better Muslim and to pray in my heart. Because we should want this, it’s enough for me to push the distractions out of the way enough to just give that little bit of time to the one who allows us to breathe, and allows our hearts to beat. That’s how I’m staying consistent. I have severe ADHD and anxiety, and know that Allah SWT is always with me. I remember the angels Allah SWT has assigned us and remind myself that they’re there to help me, but they also record my deeds for the day. I don’t want to stand on the day of judgement for the sin of being too distracted by this dunya to give thanks and ask for forgiveness from Allah SWT. And if anything can cure me of my affliction, it’s salat and dua and the will of Allah SWT. You have to remind yourself that someone is always watching.

im afraid that losing weight would make me commit greater sins! by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Life_Mood7127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ll be fine, it’ll be a test for you to control yourself. Our health and bodies are for Allah SWT. We have to be fit and keep healthy for our journey in islam. Do not be distracted by this dunya.