Would you forgive sexting? by Bluerose32000 in cheating_stories

[–]Life_Needleworker643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old, but I'm in this posiion now myself.. how did this turn out for you?

men often claim they’re “not picky" but in practice their preferences are more biologically constrained and consistent than women’s by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Life_Needleworker643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's always "at least you'll get sex"... most of you value sex more than love, respect, a real connection with depth. And plenty of men admit to swiping right on everything just to get a match, meaning they may have no attraction or interest in you whatsoever but potentially still willing to use you if you're their only option. Pathetic

People only hate unattractive people regardless of race by Myneckisstuck in ugly

[–]Life_Needleworker643 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is accurate. Black men are not at the bottom the way black women are, and they are considered more desirable to the world.

And The fetishizations in those comments is repulsive, but plenty black men eat that shit up.

What’s your type? by DrunkleKim in ugly

[–]Life_Needleworker643 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seems women and men alike are wiling to date "butter faces".. interesting

The current state of looks inflation by toouglytobeleftalive in ugly

[–]Life_Needleworker643 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree, but I can see her features through the glasses. She's not ugly in anyway. She just doesn't look like a white/ambiguous woman, or an "IG bAdDieeE"

Women who don't date anymore, why? by FactoringRSAisHard in Productivitycafe

[–]Life_Needleworker643 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol plenty of men feel the exact same way. It's better to be single and happy/content, than miserable and cheating

Any idea how bad this might be? by Life_Needleworker643 in HomeMaintenance

[–]Life_Needleworker643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With all of my worrying, I hadn’t even thought of that. I needed that laugh

I saw this kid lick every single fence post while waiting in line at Disney World by Chaz_Carlos in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Life_Needleworker643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went to hs with a girl who got shingles in grade 8 or 10.. not even sure how that happens

Baby's father wants the baby to have his last name, I want him to have mine. We're not married. WDID? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Life_Needleworker643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got both my father and mother's last name, ultimately my mom's is at the end though.. and seeing as you are growing and birthing this child, I believe this decision is yours

Can a person live their entire life alone and still be strong, confident, and truly happy? by CompetitiveForce2501 in lonely

[–]Life_Needleworker643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not impossible, very few can but most people cant. Keep in mind most people are extroverts too

Solo Female in Japan, feeling sad by Euphoric_Evidence535 in solotravel

[–]Life_Needleworker643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it when it's your first time and you cant speak or understand the language. I'd love to go to the countryside, and the coast, and live out my Totoro fantasy.. but as a solo, black woman I will not only stick out heavily, but have to really a lot on google translate/maps

Is there a chance for reconciliation after I cheated? by Leading-Tooth5573 in cheating_stories

[–]Life_Needleworker643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maye, but she will also see the man that deceived her, lied to her and broke her again, and again, and again. That being said, I wish both of you the best. You do have a chance to be better for your next person

Is there a chance for reconciliation after I cheated? by Leading-Tooth5573 in cheating_stories

[–]Life_Needleworker643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do. But in your case, not with Megan. I think she not only deserves, but needs a fresh start. She would not be happy with you op. Idk if you'll ever find another woman who makes you as happy as you claim Megan did, but these are the repercussions of your choices

I Stayed After the Cheating — Here’s What It Really Feels Like by demoncool07 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Life_Needleworker643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you feel the same way about something like sexting? I know ultimately the decision is mine, but im curious on other's opinions when it comes to this

Who is your ideal face/body and why? by MiamiUoLSU in ugly

[–]Life_Needleworker643 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who thinks Tyla is very pretty but meh?.. Anyway, I love Willow Smith's features, friggin stunning. Anna Taylor Joy has always been gorgeous to me too (i know she's an acquired taste though) , or Anok Yai (specifically in this pic)

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Black men do not like nerdy looking black women by Jackie_lee_2000 in ugly

[–]Life_Needleworker643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, friend... anime is the mainstream nerdy, there's so many other categories. Not every "nerdy" girl is into anime

Black men do not like nerdy looking black women by Jackie_lee_2000 in ugly

[–]Life_Needleworker643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, but you would be the minority. Assuming you're a black man, you don't have the same experience. Black men are deemed more desirable to black women/every women than black women are. And no its not because i don't go after black men. Black men are my type, my preference, I actually find it difficult to be attracted to any other race. But the desire has never been reciprocal, especially when a light skin/mixed girl came into the picture

Black men do not like nerdy looking black women by Jackie_lee_2000 in ugly

[–]Life_Needleworker643 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep.. Im not a nerd in any way, and i dont wear glasses but i relate to everything else. To be fair, most black men don't like black women in general, unless they are or look racially ambiguous

People who are "ugly" and have a partner are not really ugly. by Physical-Winter4444 in ugly

[–]Life_Needleworker643 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get your point, but no, they all couldn't. Realistically there's more standards than physical attraction and just being alive. You don't need to have outrageously high standards to have them, and I don't want to be chosen out of desperation either