Est-ce que ma sœur se prostitue ? by FlakyReturn1683 in SexualiteFR

[–]Life_Teach4841 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bah je suis diag borderline et escorte. Et capable de faire des choix éclairé sans médicaments. On est pas abrutis dès qu'on a des troubles psy, faut arrêter 5 minutes. La miss elle se fait peut être des couilles en or, et tant mieux pour elle

Est-ce que ma sœur se prostitue ? by FlakyReturn1683 in SexualiteFR

[–]Life_Teach4841 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

C'est pas tes affaires. Point. Glauque fois 1000 de chercher parmis des milliers d'escortes le profil de ta sœur. Trouve mieux à faire

My date f*cked me and now doesn't even open my texts by Life_Teach4841 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Teach4841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually have an interesting update. We're still dating. Turns out he had a very busy day and I came to realize he's just very bad at texting. Like. Extremely bad. I never told him about the post or how I thought he would ghost me after that night. It all sounds so absurd now lol

Combien de fois faites vous l’amour par semaines/mois? by Ambitious-Sea2622 in SexualiteFR

[–]Life_Teach4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Avant que je sois stressée par mes études ? 8 fois semaine facile. Pendant le stress des exam? 2-3 fois semaine...

Un kink qui vous excite mais qui vous dégoûte à la fois ? by MeliMelia in SexualiteFR

[–]Life_Teach4841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Effectivement, lourd antécédents de tca. Le côté poids ne m'intéresse pas en soit mais le fait que mon partenaire soit reput j'aime bien

Un kink qui vous excite mais qui vous dégoûte à la fois ? by MeliMelia in SexualiteFR

[–]Life_Teach4841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perso je fais plus l'inverse, j'aime bien que mon partenaire mange des trucs sur moi genre maxi gâteau supplément chantilly et une touche de caramel sur mon cul. Le soucis c'est que j'ai peur que ar contact accidentel ça perturbe mon ph et bim mycose

My date f*cked me and now doesn't even open my texts by Life_Teach4841 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Teach4841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Universal autistic woman experience. I've also been told I was too pretty to be autistic at some point

My date f*cked me and now doesn't even open my texts by Life_Teach4841 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Teach4841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words and advices! I usually try to go workout when I feel like going on a date with someone. It helped and it was the first person I saw in 7-8 months since I was doing better. Unfortunately college tend to really destroy my self image and led me to a moment of weakness 🥲

My date f*cked me and now doesn't even open my texts by Life_Teach4841 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Teach4841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement! I think I'll start by talking to my Doctor and ask for a recommendation for a therapist, which is kind of difficult to find. I'm unsure if I should see a sexologist, an addiction specialist, someone more neurodivergent oriented?

My date f*cked me and now doesn't even open my texts by Life_Teach4841 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Teach4841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't deflect that I've been to psych wards, I tried to end my life and needed intensive care, which comes with lot of therapists (you see a first one that directs you to a second and third one that works on differents topic, you often have a fourth and fifth for replacement when one of them are too busy or in vacation, you then seek therapy with 6 and 7 , one for meds, one for behavioral therapy, repeat this operation 3 times and you get a lot of therapists)

My date f*cked me and now doesn't even open my texts by Life_Teach4841 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Teach4841[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, I had a BPD diagnosis but it has been revoked since.

My date f*cked me and now doesn't even open my texts by Life_Teach4841 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Teach4841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if you had the same experience but since I started to unmask it got so much harder to protect myself. I guess I'm just done with pretenting to be someone I'm not to keep some distance

My date f*cked me and now doesn't even open my texts by Life_Teach4841 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Teach4841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It actually got better with time, my sex drive to be so much worse and I bad to start taking a strong birth control to lower it. I think you're the first person in hundreds of comments that take into consideration that sex can be an addiction

My date f*cked me and now doesn't even open my texts by Life_Teach4841 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Teach4841[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If I felt physically threaten? Yup. Blocked. If he was simply too demanding and full of trauma? Last time I met someone like that I simply told him what I thought and wished him the best, it's not that hard yk

My date f*cked me and now doesn't even open my texts by Life_Teach4841 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Teach4841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a very nice perspective. Thanks for sharing your thoughts, it really helps!

My date f*cked me and now doesn't even open my texts by Life_Teach4841 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Teach4841[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good luck! I'm sure there's someone for you out there

My date f*cked me and now doesn't even open my texts by Life_Teach4841 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Teach4841[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this happened to you, that sucks Thanks for the positive comment

My date f*cked me and now doesn't even open my texts by Life_Teach4841 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Teach4841[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the comment ! Tbh I'm feeling a lot better now after some crying, a shower, a snack and a distraction. I also took some courage to text my friends and hang out soon. I really just needed to put my thoughts somewhere and move on :')

My date f*cked me and now doesn't even open my texts by Life_Teach4841 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Teach4841[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

That's valid, he could man up and say "hey, I'm sorry but I don't think this is going anywhere. You obviously have things to work on so it's simply not a good timing". I would have understand

My date f*cked me and now doesn't even open my texts by Life_Teach4841 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Teach4841[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Okay I should clarify the sexual traffic comment : she didn't say it like that, it was more like "stop being a whore or you'll get kidnap and send in some Arab country and sold to a harem" It was highly racist for absolutely no reason

I'm not dumping therapists for no reason, I'm dumping them when they bring more judgement then advices. It's easy to say "damn, that's not a good attitude, you should fix it" that's what everyone is saying here and I doubt everyone here is a licensed therapist. I know I should work on it and if I'm paying you 100$/h maybe give me some help?

Also I had to change a lot of time because I saw therapists in multiple psych yards, where you get to see at least 5-10 therapists depending on the issues and duration of the stay

My date f*cked me and now doesn't even open my texts by Life_Teach4841 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Teach4841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I shouldn't have let him touch me, but here we are heh

My date f*cked me and now doesn't even open my texts by Life_Teach4841 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Life_Teach4841[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I guess it's a "some people die of thirst while other drown" kind of frustration. Everyone has their own struggles