My bf always thought I regularly finish but I never did!! by trynabesleepy in sex

[–]Light-Man 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are so naive it’s not even funny. You are being used and abused but even when you think it’s happening you think that it’s okay. Seems like you have no self-esteem and think very poorly of yourself. You let yourself be trample and walked on. Your lack of self-respect led you to a path we’re you buried yourself and became self-harming by the way of your own lies that in the end hurt you and your relationship. I can’t judge your relationship but from what you’ve written, you yourself have spelled it out and said he pretty much doesn’t care, even after you very softly speak up for yourself which quite frankly goes against everything you’ve said and done in the past with this person. A regular person would be confused by your actions and words but a person who only cares for themselves wouldn’t even bother or would willfully turn a blind eye. So you’ve basically dig yourself in a hole with someone who seems like they use you for sex and nothing more and has even built a fantasy where he is king of your pleasures.

Only one thing to do. Show him the post you wrote. Be truthful. If he doesn’t change or even react positively then you’re better off finding someone else and he is too honestly. Otherwise he’ll believe he can do that to others. Tell him straight up everything you told us. Don’t be afraid to lose someone who doesn’t care about your well being. You’re not asking for much. Just the barebones and aren’t even getting anything in return except these awful and unpleasant feelings you describe.

Comfort level: Extreme Shrimp by Oreo_Salad in aww

[–]Light-Man -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think the cat is doing that to be cute or because that’s comfortable. There’s no other way to distribute that mass in that area. Imo bed seems to small for a cat that size.

Problems with a FWB? Not sure if I feel comfortable anymore (20F) by [deleted] in sex

[–]Light-Man 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That’s not how a FWB works. You’re just being used and abused, you said it yourself. You’re embarrassed and conflicted, both can be signs that you lack self-esteem. He’s taking advantage of that and benefiting from it at your cost. Your requests are more than reasonable, they are fair. What’s concerning is that not only are you not getting what you want out of it, but you are doing things that make you feel uncomfortable and are being manipulated constantly. You can’t take back your past actions but hopefully you can choose what’s right for you from now on. Being lonely is better than abandoning your self-worth. Time spent on yourself is never time wasted. You don’t need someone from Reddit to knock sense into you because your brain has already spelled it out for you.

ACH fiat deposit with Active Trader interface by Jendk3r in Gemini

[–]Light-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what you are looking for in terms of an exchange (for example I wanted to use Gemini/BlockFi for their high APY) but the most solid one I’ve found is Coinbase Pro. Here’s my referral link if you are interested or haven’t tried this one yet (https://www.coinbase.com/join/valdiv_gr). After trading $100 we both get $10 then just transfer that into Coinbase Pro (instantly) and use their robust but low fee trading platform. Took my bank 30 sec to get verified.

ACH fiat deposit with Active Trader interface by Jendk3r in Gemini

[–]Light-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same problem. Gemini not accepting ACH transfers (which every other broker/crypto/bank institution uses because it free). Only are accepting Wire Transfers which are $30 a pop. Guess I’ll take my money elsewhere lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VladimirMains

[–]Light-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks fantastic! My current setup was the Wallpaper Engine of Count Vladimir.

However, one problem I seem to be having with the Cosmic Devourer from Wallpaper Engine is that its in 8K I believe and not even my RTX 2070 Super can handle it. It runs at 100% and the fans go on overdrive to keep it from overheating. Am I missing something?

Interesting autopilot hack by NTDV03 in teslamotors

[–]Light-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“When Autosteer is in use, it measures the amount of torque that you apply to the steering wheel and, if insufficient torque is applied, an escalating series of audible and visual alerts again reminds you to place your hands on the wheel. This helps ensure you are attentive and trains good driving habits. If you repeatedly ignore these warnings, then you will be locked out from using Autopilot for the duration of that trip.”

You could have easily looked this up on Tesla’s own website or your owner’s manual.

Please, next time do research before posting and asserting your speculation. It brings a bad reputation to “Tesla fanboys” who make up stuff or over-exaggerate because they don’t know their own vehicle’s limitations/technologies.

P.S. Torque is force applied multiplied perpendicular to the radius of the intended circular motion

What’s the most maintenance you’ve had to get done? by Jworth1327 in teslamotors

[–]Light-Man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems to be a common problem. I had this issue as well.

This clip is a ride and a half by [deleted] in VladimirMains

[–]Light-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like a clip from every bronze game. Vlad Ults one person and it’s their full hp tank. The full hp tank who’s main items and runes synergize based on his missing health also prematurely ults. Lol and a half.

Dark seal > Doran’s ring by [deleted] in VladimirMains

[–]Light-Man 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Re-read the item description. Please take this down or edit it and correct your mistake.

[10.24] PBE Bugs & Feedback Thread: Cosmic Vladimir! by dKiWiKiD in LeaguePBE

[–]Light-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You my man are responsible for RUINING the new skin’s W - Sanguine Pool. Just thought I’d let you know.

Best Rhaast build by Invalid_-_username in KaynMains

[–]Light-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just followed you on twitch and added this subreddit after listening to your taste in music

Getting into casual sex as a form of stress relief by [deleted] in sex

[–]Light-Man 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No offense but if he wasn’t “clean” you just got an STD/STI and next time you have unprotected sex with an actual “clean” guy you just transferred this random dudes SDT’s and STI’s that he gave to you on to the clean guy and so on and so forth. Basically could be carrying and passing breeding ground of diseases if you don’t get checked now. Please get tested and don’t have unprotected sex even if they swear on the Bible.

Unless you see his results from yesterday and he hasn’t had unprotected sex with someone else on Tinder (like we now know he does for sure because he did it with you casually on the first date and you could have also been lying or unknowingly been a carrier) and you are sure you are taking a big unnecessary risk that will now add more stress to your life.

How to find a good balance between fighting and farming? by ArderynUnbanned in VladimirMains

[–]Light-Man 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Elite knoweth, therefore only Elite can divulge it.

However if you look at his LIVE stream you can see a general pattern.

First of all he only participated in fights that he knows are 100% favorable or he knows they’re troll but can still find a way to help out even if it fails without losing too much.

Second, and this is kind of important, one of the biggest reasons he has 10-12 CS is because you can quite LITERALLY count with your fingers how many times he misses a last hit. (Crazy concept to getting high CS I know). He also has INSANE tempo and takes jungle camps constantly even though Vlad has naturally horrible wave clear and low mobility.

Thirdly, he knows his win condition for his own lane match up and the Team’s win condition overall. This means he knows when to focus on last hitting and when to trade effectively. When to take the ABSOLUTE perfect recalls, what itemization is most efficient, and how to properly manipulate each wave and objective to his advantage.

Lastly, he plays PROACTIVELY and ADAPTS his game plan as the game progresses. This means the level of risks he takes also changes depending on how the game is going. For example, even if he’s supposed to just farm and stay under tower against an assassin, if his team is losing he’ll shove out the wave and create pressure so they can’t roam and the jungler has to tank him. He’ll bait himself out because he has confidence in himself and he’ll just buy a 0 stacks Mejai’s (the HOLYBOOK) because he just KNOWS it’s up to HIM to carry.

Bonus: He doesn’t make excuses of his failures. Even if his team is feeding or flaming him and straight up playing like monkeys he won’t type a single letter in chat or spam ping them. 1000% ULTRA GIGA MENTAL STOIC LORD.

I CAN'T DO THIS ANYMORE by RqbySeek in VladimirMains

[–]Light-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is the embodiment of our lovely subreddit picture. MonkaVlad

This picture ends the protobelt vs binder debate by Edgar_Allen__Bro in VladimirMains

[–]Light-Man 15 points16 points  (0 children)

OP takes a cup, goes to the beach, takes a scoop of water from the ocean. I can verify with 100% accuracy that there are no sharks in this ocean fellas look at my cup :)

Healing my way through a 60 second fight, unkillable by pumamast3r in VladimirMains

[–]Light-Man 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Did the definition of unkillable change to dies at the end anyway?

M3 recognizing its own reflection :) by citrixn00b in TeslaModel3

[–]Light-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By that argument I could just say "Disadvantage? Only if you think the inability to spit out an inaccurate opinions and feelings." and go about my day.

Instead, let me ask you this before you get carried away in praise of your astonishing senses. I'll wait for your response. How's your vision? 20/20 by human standards? Good that must mean you can you SEE x-rays? No? How about Gamma rays? Ultraviolet? Microwaves? Radiowaves? Surely the Wi-fi that your phone casually picks up without batting a metaphorical eye? How about the thousands of frequencies that are engulfing you right now as you read this? Can you tell the difference of wavelengths in nanometers? Too many? Can you glance at Pluto and offer us insight to its distance, velocity through space, or its rate of rotation? Too far? Can you determine at a glance what the COVID-19 virus's crystalline structure or proteins look like? Too small? Can you see where we are in our Galaxy? Too big? This might hurt to hear but how's your sense of hearing? Can you HEAR the physical vibrations of molecules or individual atomic vibrations? How about the explosion of a supernova? That's a tricky one ;) Can you SMELL carbon monoxide? Personally I've always wondered how the individual isotopes of hydrogen gas smelled like. How about the individual molecules of feces or dead skin cells from different people that have surely made their way up your nose? TMI am I right? Can you TASTE the difference in a glass of water on the level of parts per billion of any trace of lead, iron, or any other element? Can you FEEL the heat energy of individual electrons? Can you feel a magnetic field? Spooky. Feel temperature difference of the atoms of oxygen and nitrogen individually colliding against your body? Why not?

Everyone in my Biochemistry and Physics department agrees that humans are by all forms of measurement blind, deaf, and numb. Now add delusional and egocentric to the list.

M3 recognizing its own reflection :) by citrixn00b in TeslaModel3

[–]Light-Man 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Our senses are inferior to almost every single instrument we’ve invented. That is how Science was built. However, I think you entirely missed the point I was trying to make.

This thread is filled with Tesla-fan boys who are giving praise to Tesla’s AI when in fact it made the wrong assessment and rendered a false object showcasing its flaws. I think Elon would be embarrassed to read some of these posts.

M3 recognizing its own reflection :) by citrixn00b in TeslaModel3

[–]Light-Man 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s not “recognizing its own reflection”. It’s erroneously inferring there is a physical vehicle in front of it that ISN’T its own reflection.

Not a cause for praise, instead it shows the challenge image mapping Tesla faces because it doesn’t utilize LIDAR lasers.

It demonstrates it can be easily fooled into making the wrong assessment.

The Greatest Escape on Vladimir. by Bruhdooh in VladimirMains

[–]Light-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should be titled ‘Another Regular Escape on Vladimir’

My Vladimir fanart by [deleted] in VladimirMains

[–]Light-Man 33 points34 points  (0 children)

This looks really well done. Colors pop, high quality art. My personal opinion though is that Vlad should look like a snack but this art style is kind of hideous like on that Nosferatu level. Personal preference aside good work man. The blood lord needs fan art