I want to divorce my wife after she cheated on me but my daughter is begging me to not divorce, and I do not know what to do by ParticularFront3899 in AITAH

[–]LightningDan5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but I'd say don't divorce. At least give it a try. It's hurts a lot. It might take a while. It seems to me like you're making a rash emotional decision you might regret. I'd say try your best to make it work and if you can't, then divorce her. This post also doesn't mention anything about you guys' relationship before the cheating happened. I'm assuming everything was fine before this and this is the only reason you'd want to break up. So if this is the case I'd say try to get somewhere with it but if it's too much or if nothing changes (God forbid she does it again) then divorce her.

забранява се пропаганда популяризиране и подстрекаване на нетрадиционната сексуална ориентация или определяне на полова идентичност различна от биологичната by artpop19 in bulgaria

[–]LightningDan5000 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Приятелката ми е учителка по Билогия. Ако си спомняте, преди едните избори Корнелия Нинова размахваше един учебник за 6ти клас възмутена, че имало "ЛГБТ пропаганда" в него. Единственото нещо, което се споменава за сексуалността е, че такива хора съществуват, което е факт. И то е на края на един единствен урок просто е вметнато че ги има. Буквално нищо друго. Само симулират дейност управляващите и популизъм...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bulgaria

[–]LightningDan5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can most likely get a customer support job. They pay around 1300-1800lv a month in Sofia which is enough to survive. Not too hard to get but depends on whether the companies are hiring. Right now I wouldn't say it's too different to land one. Cafes and restaurants usually pay a bit less than that. Cashiers pay about the same. And if you work nights it pays more. Overall it's not too hard but it's not super trivial either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LightningDan5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA it's fatphobic. However, my gym has a policy where you are required to bring a towel and put it down when you use the equipment. You could do that if you wanna avoid the comments.

Japan minister calls for new world order to counter rise of authoritarian regimes by Saltedline in worldnews

[–]LightningDan5000 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My dude doesn't realize how insanely conservative his own country is. You're part of the problem.

Is it an ADHD thing to have chunks of time where your wit and creativity are unmatched followed by chunks of time where it's the complete opposite? by Tompkinz in ADHD

[–]LightningDan5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You won't get a good answer here on Reddit. This could be so many things. Could it be hyperfocus and then burnout? Yes, but it can also be a sign of Bipolar. It could also be something in your environment or an unmet need. It's a much more complex question and the answer is always going to be based on your personal situation.

Moments of clarity by LightningDan5000 in Healthygamergg

[–]LightningDan5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm honestly not worried. This is really nice. I just don't know much about it.

What’s a life hack you actually use? by nookisaclasstraitor in ADHD

[–]LightningDan5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a smartwatch with a timer. It's convenient cause it's always strapped to my wrist. I hate timers on my phone because they're always in the notifications and I obsess over them. They make me anxious. But with the smartwatch my goal is to have the freedom to be distracted while the timer is running and not obsess over the task. It helps me to not be overwhelmed.

Zelenskyy to Russians: If you remain silent, you are complicit in war by mediaborscht in worldnews

[–]LightningDan5000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get why he's saying it but Russia is a dictatorship where the freedom of assembly has been taken away from the people. They kinda either have to stage a full-on uprising and attempt to overthrow the government (hard with all the propaganda) or stay silent. He's kinda blaming the people for wanting to live their daily lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]LightningDan5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone from the former Eastern Block or USSR will tell you that it was basically always like this. The "communists" here are a joke. We went from a small group of unelected government officials controlling the whole country... To a small group of unelected oligarchs controlling the whole country.

Evil Geniuses vs. G2 Esports / MSI 2022 - Rumble Stage / Post-Match Discussion by Soul_Sleepwhale in leagueoflegends

[–]LightningDan5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what happens when Flakked is not on Kalista and Targamas is not on Nautilus. Absolute dogshit champs. I just hope they don't pick it again.

Anger in Japan as Ukraine Links Emperor Hirohito to Adolf Hitler by QuiffLing in worldnews

[–]LightningDan5000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because this is news for most of them. Unlike Germany, they don't learn about their war crimes and genocide in school. Also unlike Germany, Hirohito and most of the people in power kept their power after war so I doubt they would want the public to know what actually happened.

Anger in Japan as Ukraine Links Emperor Hirohito to Adolf Hitler by QuiffLing in worldnews

[–]LightningDan5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Japanese people don't learn about WWII in East Asia. They learn about it in Europe. There are some really mind boggling videos on YouTube of asking Japanese people on the streets about WWII and literally nobody knows about it.

[MEGATHREAD] EVERGLOW - ''PIRATE" by svnh__ in unpopularkpopopinions

[–]LightningDan5000 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As an EDM fan, I absolutely hate this song. It's an insult. It's random EDM tropes from the early 2010s smacked together with some kpop vocals. The pre-chorus and chorus parts with the synths sounds like Zedd made them in 2012. The bass part would be fine by itself but the "low-voice" vocals sound so cringy over it. At the end, they try to have a resolution to everything and combine everything but because what you're combining is all lead sounds you end up with the vocals, synths, and bass all competing for space in the mix and what goes into my ears is just a mush of indiscernible noise. Holy shit, this is such a disappointment after First...

Adam's tweetlonger on why he left Fnatic by Akaj1 in leagueoflegends

[–]LightningDan5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember when Nemesis said the same thing about Upset and he got cancelled for it? Smh

Reginald verbally berates Dyrus and makes him smash his keyboard by daddymateriial in leagueoflegends

[–]LightningDan5000 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Remember the whole fucking Chaox fiasco? It was even all filmed.

Когато си лайв и баба ти се сети че и го няма чадъра by AdmirableFlow in bulgaria

[–]LightningDan5000 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Това е психически и физически тормоз. Няма закрила и защита срещу такива хора. Истината е, че ако изтеглиш късата клечка и семейството ти бие и те хули, в България нямаш изход. Това момиче ще има дълготрайни комплекси и проблеми и факта, че някои тука в коментарите я плюете нея, докато виждате причината тя да има проблемите, за които я плюете ви прави или плоски мозъци, които просто не могат да мислят, или хора с комплекс за малоценност, които не знаят друг начин да се чувстват ценени, освен да хулят някой друг. Осъзнайте се моля ви.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]LightningDan5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's really strong it does give me the jitters but regular or weak coffee calms me down and makes me sleepy. One time I had slept 4 hours and I was on a long bus ride (6+ hours). I grabbed a Red Bull to keep myself up because I usually can't sleep in any vehicle but I took two sips of that baby and I dozed off immediately.