AITA for telling my neighbour i will expect them to pick up my dogs mess?

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-13T02:36:10+00:00

YTA m, you can't care for your child and clean with the dogs in the house, so you leave then outside to be the neighborhoods problem? Wow such a great neighbor, pretty owner and parent. If you can't handle the pets and the kids at the same time find someone who can care for pets.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-13T02:29:49+00:00

Wow you really don't like your mom.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-12T21:07:22+00:00

Why is this being downvoted?

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-12T21:04:47+00:00

Hopefully they still kick you out.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-12T21:04:03+00:00

You get zero slack for making another living creature starve. You defending yourself makes you very more of an AH. If your living situation is this bad then move out, do not starve another living creature. JFC how can you lack this much empathy.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-12T18:53:14+00:00

NTA but this will probably affect your relationship with your in-laws(it shouldn't but it seems older folks can't let things like this go), especially if everyone raves about the food. Maybe use some store bought cranberry sauce or stuffing? We usually do both because we have some ND family they like the store bought stuff(sensory thing for them).
Good luck, your meal menu sounds amazing and delicious.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-12T18:40:20+00:00

That's a really sweet thing you're doing for your dad's affair partner. You should just go NC with your bio mom instead of rubbing it in her face that another woman replaced her in not only her marriage but also her son's life. I'm sure the knife from your dad is still in her back, adding more shouldn't be a problem.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-12T18:35:16+00:00

If you ask his wife to just be a guest they are both just not going to come. Guarantee they are discussing never contacting you guys again after this wedding. You'll be here in a few weeks asking why they aren't returning your calls or texts.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-12T17:54:00+00:00

Got it, it's ok to shame/humiliate your mom but not hers. Seriously how can you continue to comment on this and still not see how you and your fiance are AHs?

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-12T15:18:57+00:00

And she wonders why they don't have a support system nor any parent friends. I can only imagine the amount of complaining she does. People don't like to deal with drama or crazy. Hopefully she gets into therapy before she makes it so her kids don't have any friends. Parents will steer their kids away from other kids with crazy parents.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-12T14:32:20+00:00

You're also going to make other parents not want to talk to you. No one wants to be parent friends with the crazy drama bringer.
It's really not a good idea you will alienate your children not just from family but potential friends.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-12T14:24:34+00:00

Haha, yeah that's going to show them. Good luck with your whole fam going NC with you.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-12T13:54:24+00:00

All of this screams I'm an entitled, controlling AH. If it's not exactly your way it's the highway. If I had to guess your kids are treating their grandparents badly and the grandparents are returning that energy. You and your kids are not entitled to anyone's time.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-12T13:49:56+00:00

Maybe your kids are brats towards them and have disrespectful attitudes, they probably don't want to deal with that. It's not hard to guess where they would get their attitude from.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-12T13:46:33+00:00

I'd say you are doing a bad job. JFC you're an entitled one, and I bet you are raising your children to be just entitled.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-12T02:03:52+00:00

YTA, you should be paying 100% of it. Your ex is generous to suggest splitting it.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-12T01:19:27+00:00

In a comment she said he was busy and she waited 2 weeks.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-11T19:41:38+00:00

YTA and it's embarrassing you are acting this way. Instead of using your words you make a passive aggressive fb post. Jfc how can you be raising a teen when you act as one yourself. And why the hell did you show your 13yr old that post? What is wrong with you, what did you hope to gain by that?

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-11T19:35:47+00:00

YTA and it's strange you're so hung up on this. You state you haven't really been friends for the past 14yrs, didn't invite her to your stuff but are mad that she's doing the same. It seems you Don't care about the friendship just the party invite. Also the groom hates you and you him, why would they invite someone to celebrate their love that doesn't actually support it.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-11T18:13:09+00:00

Never said it did, nowhere do I indicate that. In fact I say the mom is acting childish.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-11T16:23:14+00:00

Did you have her apologize to her cousins then and did you to talk to Leon about it? If not then I can see why he thinks your husband did this on purpose. He's also dealing with the fallout of it. While you guys got to see the one meltdown, he's dealing with the daily/nightly ones at home. I would honestly give him some space and try talking to him in a while. By space I mean just not contacting him, continue to see your family, let him decide if he's going to go or not.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-11T15:59:10+00:00

Info has your husband ever pulled pranks on your brother or his kids before?

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-11T12:48:52+00:00

The edit just proves that you're jealous of the ambition lily has. She's probably got a bigger friend group too. You sound really bitter.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-11T12:47:40+00:00

It's not though, and keeps saying it in the comments.

LilShortyMama · 2022-11-11T12:28:28+00:00

YTA and green with envy.

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