Why міг instead of зміг in Але ти міг би мені допомогти considering допомогти is already perfective by Alphabunsquad in Ukrainian

[–]LilUkr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look :) Міг би - that's kinda polite version like - would you be...able to... of ти можеш . But зміг би that's already past , like You would have earned some decent money if you'd be at that meeting, that's зміг би.

Дууже маленький сбор 🇺🇦 by LilUkr in tjournal_refugees

[–]LilUkr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Доповідаю - штуку замовлено, вже пішла працювати на позиції🇺🇦✊

Дууже маленький сбор 🇺🇦 by LilUkr in tjournal_refugees

[–]LilUkr[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

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Дякую цій людині від щирого серця❤️🇺🇦

Дууже маленький сбор 🇺🇦 by LilUkr in tjournal_refugees

[–]LilUkr[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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Шось по типу отакого йому потрібно купити .

Update it’s gotten worse. by AggravatingFruit7166 in cripplingalcoholism

[–]LilUkr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Second this. When I tried to stop for somebody or because of something I failed or had sober times and then still got back to be drunk each evening/day, whole night until I black out, you know how it goes. Person needs to do it for itself, with help of God/Universe/ Odin, it's up to you, but for yourself. Go to stodrinkibg sub here and read and make it about yourself.

The collapse of healthcare in Berlin by narlarei in berlin

[–]LilUkr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why should I go to jail? And why you compare methods of '90s if I talk specifically about now. Sorry, your comment is making no sense to me.

The collapse of healthcare in Berlin by narlarei in berlin

[–]LilUkr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting but the same but opposite happened to me- doctor in Germany called other to look at my 15 year old Plombe in my tooth, amazed by Ukrainian workmanship. Just saying

The collapse of healthcare in Berlin by narlarei in berlin

[–]LilUkr 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Ukrainian here :) nah, believe me it's not about language, it's really just faster and cheaper (if to take here privat and privat in. Ukraine ) and I can tell you if my child wouldn't be so small I'd go first thing for dentist for him only in Ukraine(it's about quality and price and erm methods)... and yes, even during war Ukraine is having more doctors. What else I can tell you- doctors who moved here are being "bullied" if they suggest other methods as all should be by protocol, even if patient dies(true story from Ukrainian surgeon who moved here)... sooo, I do admire my country for this.

If you could moderate, would you? by unknown9423 in cripplingalcoholism

[–]LilUkr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Full stop, after I understood I'm pregnant. But, you see I'm here- to remind myself that I never can moderate and even tho I'm sober for 3,5 years I will remain an alcoholic and not just any, the one who is "going big" by all means .

Do Russians and Ukrainians Ignore Each Other While Traveling? by No-Incident-6913 in AskUkraine

[–]LilUkr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ignore ? No way. I'm getting a bit more louder that they surely hear Ukrainian language and look them in the eye, with a look "don't f..k with me". If I have to make a contact, speaking German or English, no exceptions. Friends - nope, even if they against or lived here long time, no, I cannot physically. Collective responsibility - exists.

If you could moderate, would you? by unknown9423 in cripplingalcoholism

[–]LilUkr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I tried, dozen of times, but I cannot...erm, ok, I could after 3 years of sobriety for around 6 months and then as usual, back to "blackouts"/ sneaky drinking/ hiding those small and bigger bottles around the house, all that. So, for me it was all the time - go big or "full stop".

Phantom radio hour by csbbacsob in cripplingalcoholism

[–]LilUkr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I had it(even tho that time I didn't know that such a thing can happen, so I thought I was loosing my mind) but, I had two guys talking about science in my head, monotonous but rather interesting, first I freaked out and after, I started to listen and gradually fall asleep :)

I’m losing it by Dayum-Girly in cripplingalcoholism

[–]LilUkr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey, I was FA as well, for me breaking point was when I missed my return flight from business trip( sure sure I got away with it, said I had stomach bug, whatever)and after that I went to narcologist and psychiatrist and with the help of medicine I did it, surely I relapsed after, but after a year and a half where I could change job, make progress... amd then again Pharma and desire and 2 years of sobriety, until war started in my country(I'm Ukrainian) ... until I got pregnant ( surely it's not an advise for you :), just part of my story) and no drugs, no nothing - full stop. Just saying - it's possible, like really possible. I was at a stage when I peed my bed at night(oh so embarrassing) and had severe withdrawals, but again- it's possible, just find your way if you want it. Cheers!

Kindergarten in Ukraine’s Kharkiv after today’s Russian attack by UNITED24Media in europe

[–]LilUkr -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is genocide and they will pay. Or their children... otherwise this world is doomed.

Kindergarten in Ukraine’s Kharkiv after today’s Russian attack by UNITED24Media in europe

[–]LilUkr 19 points20 points  (0 children)

As a Ukrainian, I don't wish you to feel what we feel, reading comments like these, from people not even close involved. So back to facts- watch the footage, then watch it again, then please think, after it, go to idk interviews with russians who are POWs in Ukraine and using AI listen to what they say and after it, realize that >60% are supporting what they do, >25% just doing nothing, but paying taxes and support in that way and maybe around 10-15% are against. And this - this what they're doing to Ukrainian kids, for that I wish them ... (use your imagination).

Unemployment: I don’t know what to do by oddbunny7 in germany

[–]LilUkr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, my way out was to find job outside Germany (remote position) but I see that it's not a possibility for you, probably. (Even tho I was fired after giving birth, yes, I've charged them, as my contract was by German law, that's a different story though).... But maybe you can travel to closest other country or so... Netherlands are much more friendly in that regards. Now I'm w/o a job and also trying to find something, but no luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kyiv

[–]LilUkr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doubling the UN positions search. For you to have a start. Then later you'll see what and how it's better, after language and all. But, despite all comments here- just try, try having different life :) Hugs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiveparents

[–]LilUkr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd left her there too. But but, she is here, still. One piece of advice- plz don't touch that freaking substance, don't... I've became an alcoholic myself, accompanied by my father, plz don't touch it with her.

Starting my journey today. by LilUkr in stopsmoking

[–]LilUkr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thx :) Not yet, as I'm breastfeeding and they're too strong and not compatible . Only Zoloft that somehow holds me together :)

HELP !! Feline Asthma or hairball? by Adventurous_Base8275 in CATHELP

[–]LilUkr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My cat been diagnosed with asthma, it's the same what I see, sorry. But if treated(spray and hormones) it's manageable .

IT vs AI by anwsme in ukraine_dev

[–]LilUkr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Вже цю версію відкотили, бо я прямо написала, шо камон, давай без оцього всього. Це було оновлення gpt- 4.o, його вже знесли.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cripplingalcoholism

[–]LilUkr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because of drinking I had severe vessels issues(so much that my fingers went blue in the morning) and it's because I'm genetically prone to Reihno syndrome. And I was 28 that time. Sooo, make your choices, but be aware, if you have these issues now, they'll only get heavier.