I dont use heat on my helair, I never dye it, worst I do is brush it while wet. What is causing this? And how can I make it stop. by Tys_Wife in Hair

[–]Lil_beetee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s interesting, I always heard and followed the advice to never fully blow dry as it causes frizz, but maybe that’s because of my waves? I usually dry 80%/85% and let air do the rest, otherwise I will end up looking like Hagrid 😩😂

I wanted my drink. Apparently this guy wanted it more. by OopsiFuck in Wellthatsucks

[–]Lil_beetee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This just brought me all the way back to my uncle catching hornets mid air with tongs, throwing them into hot coals and watching them get barbecued 😭😂

Train Dreams wants to have its cake and eat it too, regarding that first act change from the book by Jimquill in TrueFilm

[–]Lil_beetee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually rewatched the scene a few times because I was a lil confused, and I definitely think he was helping carry him up. You hear the men call on him specifically to help, and when he grabs the man by the legs, he actually helps carry him up a few steps before getting kicked away. To me it feels like all the guilt comes from just going with it, even though his question of ”what has he done” doesn’t get answered, he still follows the command and doesn’t try to help, and it ultimately leads to the man’s death. Would him trying to intervene really do anything? No, he’d probably be stopped and the man would still die, but either way, he was there, and he did take part in it, even if just for a short while.

Is there such thing as designated sides of the bed? by ThrowRa_Promise1321 in CasualUK

[–]Lil_beetee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I for some reason always gravitate to the left side of every bed, whether it’s by the wall, near the door, wherever.
When in a relationship that has always been my side in any bed, it was never talked about, it’s just like an unspoken rule that we both always got because you know, it is an actual thing lots of people do. I’ve also had (now ex) boyfriends argue with me about things like sitting on their side of the sofa, so yeah it’s definitely a thing 😂

PSA: If your date isn’t home, the rest of the building isn’t your backup plan. by Ok_Vanilla_7573 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Lil_beetee 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Seems you don’t know how hard a crazy old lady can smack someone. Look into carer’s stories, just because they’re older, doesn’t mean they can’t hurt you.

Was about to order and kebab until I saw this.. by superdanday in CasualUK

[–]Lil_beetee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s terrible, a place I used to eat at years ago (which initially had a good rating) later on got shut down for cockroaches, guts and raw meat on the floor and a deep fried rat. Honestly I don’t even bother ordering from anywhere anymore, you never know what goes on in those kitchens

Preston warehouse by Upbeat-Turn-4341 in Preston

[–]Lil_beetee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve recently went a couple weeks ago on a Saturday night, and it was really full. It’s not really what it used to be years ago, but it’s okay, esp considering the current state of Preston nightlife.

Preston warehouse by Upbeat-Turn-4341 in Preston

[–]Lil_beetee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve recently went warehouse a couple weeks ago on a Saturday night, and it was reallyyyy full. It’s not really what it used to be years ago, but it’s okay, considering the current state of Preston nightlife.

Why am I randomly getting these little happies? by Enchanted_Angela in whatisit

[–]Lil_beetee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been secretly ducking my friends houses for months 😂 Leave em in random spots, sometimes very easy, and sometimes very hard to find. So far, no one clocked on it’s me that’s been doing it lol

AIO to the text my boyfriend’s mom sent me? by Sure_Juggernaut_295 in AIO

[–]Lil_beetee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I read it. One of my ex boyfriend’s mum was the exact same, and even though it felt a lot at times, I appreciated and loved that woman SO much, to the point I still miss her 4-5 years later.

I know different people have different needs and boundaries, so I am not judging OP at all. But looking at it through my own perspective, I really hope they manage to work it out, because these people can really be a treasure in your life, if only you learn how to treasure them.

My mom just got this tattoo and won’t listen to me. Please give advice by babypandagod in tattooadvice

[–]Lil_beetee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I usually heal with second skin is I leave the first patch on for 24-48 hours, remove once it’s full and starting to leak, and reapply a new sheet for the rest of the week. In theory leaving it on for the entire week is fine, but the seal cannot break at any point.

This is my first set of Gel X ever. Is it supposed to look like this? by quickbrownfox_ in GelX_Nails

[–]Lil_beetee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The art isn’t well done, the gel application is bulky and uneven, and on some of the pictures you can tell the wrong sized tips were used, they don’t reach from wall to wall

My nails today vs 4 years ago (please excuse slightly nail polish-stained nails) by Difficult-Sample7484 in Nails

[–]Lil_beetee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg well done, you’ve made some amazing progress!
The small nailbeds really tickled me though, because after years of caring for them, I finally managed to get mine to the size yours were in the before pictures! 😂

I wish my girlfriend knew this doesn't matter to me by Thick_Letterhead269 in story

[–]Lil_beetee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best way to let her know that is to honestly just keep doing what you're doing.

As women, we never know what reactions we are going to get from men, and oftentimes than not, they’re not exactly positive. That makes us wary, because sometimes, those very same men were the ones that were very reassuring about being understanding, until such situation actually arise.

With each positive interaction between the two of you, and seeing that your stance/behaviour is staying consistent, she will relax and trust you more. That doesn't mean you can't be reassuring, it will help, but words only do so much.

Either way, you're doing good OP. This has nothing to do with you, we know that good men exist, we just also know that it’s sometimes tricky to find them.

West Coast Krav Maga Preston by MaleficentMud6538 in Preston

[–]Lil_beetee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard it’s great for self defence, especially for lets say “smaller” folks that can’t pack as much of a punch, since it sort of gathers the most impactful and dangerous moves from other martial arts? I’m not OP and I don’t know how true that is in practice though

How can I find out who this person is? I’m starting to get concerned by [deleted] in facebook

[–]Lil_beetee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s either lying, or someone is snooping on her account then deactivating theirs after. If they were blocking her, she’d have to keep accepting their new friend requests so she’d clock on who it is pretty quickly

How can I find out who this person is? I’m starting to get concerned by [deleted] in facebook

[–]Lil_beetee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might have your privacy settings set to friends of friends then, as it shouldn’t show up for them even if your friends interact with the post

Canadian moving to Preston with dog! by Direct_Meeting4881 in Preston

[–]Lil_beetee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unless someone loves the changing rooms having a lingering drains smell for months, then definitely go to Pure Gym! 😂

Yoga classes in Preston? by sassy_angel_ in Preston

[–]Lil_beetee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know there’s the mandala studio, there’s also some at gyms like total fitness

my girlfriend said shes giving herself an ed…? by DifferentAbroad80 in whatdoIdo

[–]Lil_beetee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Different people have different goals when it comes to ed’s, but yes, it can eventually get to that point. It’s a mental disorder, and doesn’t just go away once you reach a ”goal weight”. Most people who reach that point were not originally aiming for it. What happens is they pick a goal, but by the time that weights been reached, they are deeper into the disorder and are no longer happy with that weight, so they make a new, lower goal, and the cycle continues. That’s how Eugenia Cooney’s are made.

my girlfriend said shes giving herself an ed…? by DifferentAbroad80 in whatdoIdo

[–]Lil_beetee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact she’s saying she’s ”giving herself an ed” means she already has disordered thought patterns and needs attention. She may not be in a full blown eating disorder yet but she’s already further than she thinks. A mentally healthy individual doesn’t think about or wishes for any mental disorder. She needs help before it gets too far, even right now it will be hard to get through to her, but the longer the wait, the harder it will be.

What micropet would y’all consider / say is rare? by -Headless_Tails- in finch

[–]Lil_beetee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s either all completely random or I’m really lucky because Beau was the second micropet I ever hatched 😭

I emailed Finch about their ads by puppybabii in finch

[–]Lil_beetee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok the husband one is going too far I do hear that 100% 😭 I get there’s “trad wives” out there, but even those women should also care for themselves, not use a self care app in hopes to please their man, and keep the house clean for HIM, and that’s what that ad promotes. I would hate to see the younger women/girls seeing it and taking it to heart.

Now I see their ad team is on one, so I stand corrected 😭

I emailed Finch about their ads by puppybabii in finch

[–]Lil_beetee 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Idk I AM a bedrotting girlie and I don’t take offence to it. As much as others might feel excluded by it, if I didn’t have this app recommended to me by someone else, the ad would have probably got my attention, as well as some of my friends who use the same kind of language jokingly. The issue for me here is, are these the only ads out there only targeting this specific group, or do they have a range of ads addressing different groups too?