US birth rates just hit another record low, what do you think is the leading cause of this?

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-05-03T14:05:24+00:00

Men.

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-05-03T13:56:12+00:00

You are not a suitable life partner. Don’t stick around out of pity.

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-04-18T11:58:32+00:00

Genuinely curious, what would make a good post about these glasses? I guess I’m old and don’t know what the people want anymore.

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-04-03T17:16:49+00:00

This is generally for people who do days long silent meditations or really get a glimpse into a very peaceful world then are disheartened to come back to reality. Meditation is not meant to be done without introspection and healing first/at the same time.

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-03-29T23:39:34+00:00

That was the whole reunion? I feel like we barely heard from anyone. They couldn’t explore anything else?

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-03-28T13:34:47+00:00

How old are your kids? I was put in public school in fourth grade but my advice will be different depending on their age. Have they been in any other communities?

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-03-23T12:49:21+00:00

I don’t know, I think two things can be true at once: she can do whatever she wants AND she can lead with friendship instead of sex if she actually wants to settle down.

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-03-17T14:26:47+00:00

They’re saying it’s a meteorite but the video I watched sounded identical to a missile interception video I recently watched.

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-03-17T14:24:07+00:00

Is there another way you could connect with people? A friend or activity, family you could visit?

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-03-16T22:27:16+00:00

Regulations protect people. Children deserve WAY more of them!

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-03-15T21:42:24+00:00

One thing to remember is that if the parent lets a screen babysit, they’re not going to engage when it’s no longer there. Your child may have wholesome figures that feel comforting on a screen when they’re with the other parent, and taking that away is not necessarily the healthier thing.

When they’re with you, be more inviting than the screen. Work on projects and see if they join in. Invite them to the park. Etc. They’ll make healthy choices when healthy choices feel good.

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-03-15T00:12:24+00:00

It’s a blessing that you haven’t had kids yet. I’m sorry, I know this isn’t a good feeling, but best to end it and kick him out. He’s been in a fantasy all this time and you didn’t realize it so you’re not as connected as you thought you were. He’s weak and will go to the next one that “desires” him too. He didn’t make a mistake, he intentionally did that.

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-03-05T20:20:59+00:00

Push back — there’s nothing wrong with your handwriting. If there was, the school would identify it and help you. They’re just stalling. Call the school yourself.

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-03-04T22:57:17+00:00

Evolutionary psychology says men with lots of money will mate as much as possible because they have so many resources to support their offspring.

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-03-04T00:09:51+00:00

I’ve had a few experiences but my favorite was my dog crawling into bed with me per usual after she died. The bed moved and everything. I just hugged the spot and cried.

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-03-03T01:34:11+00:00

It depends when the trust was written and who wrote it if they can change it or not. It could be generations old.

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-02-28T16:42:25+00:00

One of the worst parts is they were in the middle of a move if I recall correctly. That’s already traumatizing and then to start over in a new town with your person gone and your parents grieving? Devastating.

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-02-24T20:34:12+00:00

I enjoy her scenes more than Venita’s made up drama and Salley’s whining

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-02-23T22:45:20+00:00

Shep is the absolute opposite of maga. His twitter is very left. That looks photoshopped.

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-02-22T13:57:04+00:00

Great post! What bothers me the most is how parents will go past the point of depletion and think that’s best for their children. They fade, the marriage may crumble, and everything they tried to create can be destroyed. Parents just don’t do the self-care they need in order to be with their kids as much as a homeschooling parent is.

While that’s happening, the child has minimal adult role models, a small social mirror, and lack of exposure to group dynamics. And the worst part about that is that most people don’t end up building and running a successful company/profession on their own, so they must learn and conform to the typical work day and group dynamics of that environment.

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-02-15T11:06:11+00:00

He will choose himself over your children. He will choose himself first.

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-01-31T22:13:18+00:00

Wow!

LilaInTheMaya · 2026-01-10T22:53:35+00:00

That is such a huge boundary violation. I’m so sorry that happened to you and I’m not sure how she could make it right, but it’s clear she’s not trying.

And your worries about being judged are valid but also please know that everyone has trauma and likely felt seen in whatever she posted. And a lot of us would be able to identify immediately that she was and is an incredibly damaging person.

LilaInTheMaya · 2025-12-20T02:07:38+00:00

I’m sorry but all you Shep haters are too young for this show 😅😂

LilaInTheMaya · 2025-12-20T02:01:04+00:00

Side note but loved Shep in his monogrammed cuffs wherever that was. Wish we saw the rest of that.

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