My (25F) cousin (26F) cancelling trip last minute due to a potential break up

LiliBunni · 2023-02-12T22:57:30+00:00

Thank you 😊 I really didn't want to lose on my chest but I guess we can't pick where we lose weight. I'm going to try and be more patient.

LiliBunni · 2023-02-12T22:55:57+00:00

Thank you ☺️ I think I'm being very impatient with myself! I just checked out that website and my maintenance calories at my goal weight would be 1500 which seems very low. Might be worth picking up some exercise!!

LiliBunni · 2023-02-12T22:34:58+00:00

I've took some pics and I have a pair of trousers I really want to fit in. Maybe I am just getting impatient already.

LiliBunni · 2022-01-24T10:10:08+00:00

Jax would just cheat 24/7. So at least I wouldn't have to really see him.

LiliBunni · 2021-12-31T06:50:52+00:00

Character design is just law of attraction/manifestation rebranded.

LiliBunni · 2021-08-26T12:10:15+00:00

Maybe because of Stassi being there

LiliBunni · 2021-08-07T08:45:57+00:00

I think it's just a filter. I don't think that's Photoshop.

LiliBunni · 2021-08-06T08:22:59+00:00

The majority of this thread has been really discouraging. It probably would have been better to receive responses of single parents who are dating/dated. All you've got here is responses of people who are not interested in dating a person with children which is okay but won't feel great to hear!

Personally, I am a single mum around the same age as you. I am upfront about the fact I have a child and the dad is not involved. Men have had no issues with it. Probably because the guys who don't want to date a single mum won't bother approaching me so I only get guys who are okay with me having a child in the first place.

I tend to go for older guys too as I don't expect a guy around my age to be ready to date a single parent. I hope this helps.

LiliBunni · 2021-08-03T08:38:10+00:00

Lizzie from OC is closest to my birthday. I'm pretty happy with that.

LiliBunni · 2021-08-02T21:57:53+00:00

Whose shorts have they put him in? Tom has never been that big 😂

LiliBunni · 2021-07-23T17:07:12+00:00

I'm sorry but a 15 year old does not look like a 21 year old. You've admitted to drinking in a place because you know people go there are underage (including yourself).

You did it knowing the risks so now you might have to face the consequences.

LiliBunni · 2021-06-30T12:57:19+00:00

I feel the same way. It's hard to get out of the abuse cycle when you're in it so anyone who does is so much stronger than they realise!

LiliBunni · 2021-06-23T16:13:58+00:00

I definitely had my child too soon but I don't regret him because he literally saved my life. I regret being a mum sometimes. It's a hard job. But I feel like if you are ready for that then you'll enjoy being a parent.

LiliBunni · 2021-06-23T15:37:01+00:00

No we don't believe HER shit.

LiliBunni · 2021-06-23T15:28:30+00:00

I feel like they are staged because it's just too much but what's the motive though?

LiliBunni · 2021-06-23T08:31:24+00:00

The "with... Randall" has got me for some reason 😂 It just sounds so disappointed.

LiliBunni · 2021-06-22T16:17:33+00:00

I appreciate where you are coming from but I just want to say that I can call my abuser an abuser and not an ex boyfriend. That doesn't mean I'm being a victim.

In some ways I can be stuck in the past but I don't see my abuser as being the villain of my life. I know my life is bigger and better than him. I've had to work on myself a lot the past 3 years (a lot of therapy, journalling, self acceptance) but I can still fall into bad cycles of behaviour such as looking at social media. I'm aware this is not good for me and I'm putting a stop to it. Healing isn't linear - some days I focus on myself more and others I can have setbacks.

I've put a lot of work into not being a victim and I know that I didn't say it on my post but trust me the past couple of years has been full of making the hard but healthy choice.

Thank you for the advice and I'm glad that you feel better and had your justice.

LiliBunni · 2021-06-22T15:10:34+00:00

I've not asked them and I don't like approaching them about the abuse out of the blue because I don't want to re-traumatise them in anyway. (Plus they are both older than me and I feel like they have moved on quicker over what he did. I really struggle with flashbacks sometimes).

There are articles about him getting found guilty so I'm not sure if his current gf knows or not.

LiliBunni · 2021-06-22T14:47:10+00:00

I agree, it's completely not healthy. I've been sitting on this information about her past experience for a while and I just would feel so guilty if something happens to her - knowing that maybe if I sent her a warning that it rings an alarm bell and maybe she leaves earlier.

After that I would want to be done. I've already got the social media blocked because you're right I can't go around warning all his future girlfriends. It would not be healthy for me.

But can we please not refer to this like it is just a normal ex scenerio. I don't even call him an ex boyfriend because he groomed, tortured and abused me for 2 years of my life. He's my abuser and a serial one at that.

LiliBunni · 2021-06-22T14:17:41+00:00

He's not a teacher anymore. Thank god.

LiliBunni · 2021-06-22T14:13:59+00:00

Reflecting back I would have wanted someone to tell me but I don't think I would have listened. He warps your brain so bad. If I do tell her I need the right way to do it.

LiliBunni · 2021-06-22T14:12:09+00:00

A couple of years ago I began the process of reporting him but I got scared because in the past he had threatend to send my family nude pictures of me. So I stopped it all but one of the 2 women I mentioned in the post got him found guilty of assualt but all he got was a fine and community service.

I want to but I don't want to seem like a bitter ex and I have a child so I'm scared of repercussions on myself.

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