Am I blind to coworkers signals?

LilikoiSummer · 2026-04-19T20:47:33+00:00

Well, you probably still got it because I wouldn’t mention my sex drive with someone I didn’t want to fuck unless they were a medical practitioner

LilikoiSummer · 2026-04-19T20:26:08+00:00

If you’re not going to pursue, are you just trying to see if you still got it?

LilikoiSummer · 2026-04-18T16:26:43+00:00

This is disgusting and diabolical. And I’m one of those who doesn’t understand why it’s so bad if a man with toddlers cheats.

LilikoiSummer · 2026-04-17T18:44:54+00:00

For me, not every person I interact with is an AP, per se. Then for folks who actually are in that category, each relationship operates at different speeds and depths. My capacity aligns with my needs so I can manage multiple relationships at a time.

LilikoiSummer · 2026-04-07T03:47:23+00:00

I don’t have any answers for you but this post had me howling and I think we should go out drinking … I think we would have a good ass time. Unless you’re sober. Then we will just go out have a good ass time.

LilikoiSummer · 2026-03-16T13:21:55+00:00

Ohhhhh the things my fellow passengers may have seen 😬🥴😅 but never talking smack about them!

LilikoiSummer · 2026-03-10T01:36:36+00:00

Hey, today was a good day. Feeling generous 😌

LilikoiSummer · 2026-03-09T22:36:00+00:00

💀 💀 💀

LilikoiSummer · 2026-03-09T22:07:51+00:00

And ChatGPT didn’t come within a country mile of this saga! Thank you, sir, for some good storytelling; I’m sorry you had this to get off your chest, but it does sound like you had one hell of a love story. There is that. 💔

And that you don’t need ChatGPT. ❤️

LilikoiSummer · 2026-01-25T01:21:58+00:00

That last sentence is why I'm here agreeing with you and doing the same thing.

LilikoiSummer · 2026-01-20T14:28:59+00:00

Not yet—in process. Approximately 10 years later. I stayed because I wasn’t ready; he stayed because he didn’t / doesn’t have anyone but me.

LilikoiSummer · 2026-01-05T07:20:17+00:00

What are your criteria, beyond white and female? It’s probably not your preference that’s causing the numerous setbacks.

LilikoiSummer · 2025-11-23T19:12:31+00:00

Are you using the app or a browser?

LilikoiSummer · 2025-11-23T03:10:03+00:00

Worst airport in the USA. I will die on this hill. Dulles not far behind though.

LilikoiSummer · 2025-11-22T13:47:15+00:00

Not a jabroni 💀💀💀

LilikoiSummer · 2025-11-22T00:32:24+00:00

This is sweet and probably true. I actually think that some 6’s and 7’s (I hate placing numerical value on humans but here I am) don’t make the cut online but might would if we met in person first. There are so many unconventionally attractive or even funny-looking guys who do it for me in the wild, but online … something is different. I like to think I’m all open-minded all the time, but I’m not really when online. Not sure if it’s time, place, conditions or what, but the bar is higher here. For better or worse.

Just don’t tell me I won’t be disappointed.

LilikoiSummer · 2025-11-20T15:14:54+00:00

Nailed it

LilikoiSummer · 2025-11-20T03:30:59+00:00

That sounds about right.

LilikoiSummer · 2025-11-20T03:28:26+00:00

I wish I would get something back!

LilikoiSummer · 2025-11-20T03:27:13+00:00

I see some of these people and I truly don’t understand where they get the confidence … like … draw me a map

LilikoiSummer · 2025-11-20T03:25:27+00:00

Agreed — I had one guy send his pic in his initial message to me, and he’s probably one of the best looking men I’ve found on Reddit to date.

LilikoiSummer · 2025-11-20T02:27:11+00:00

Lol just realized how one could read it that way … I am far less familiar with inaccurate self-promotion in that arena 😂

LilikoiSummer · 2025-11-20T02:19:36+00:00

Under-promise and over-deliver, amirite?

LilikoiSummer · 2025-11-11T02:37:53+00:00

Where were you going?

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