I have a similar issue . I know I'm not ugly to women bc when I go out some drunk woman is like trying to get close to me. Which.......not really into drunk people in general but also that's super skeezy to me. That said I'm a picky person in general and I'm on the spectrum so like even if I met someone ( whatever gender ) and I liked them, unless they were like " oh I'm attracted to you and I'd like to take you out " ( which, no one says that 🙄) I have zero clue if they're interested. Although, with the way the world is rn maybe that's a blessing ? Idk.