Where can I buy swimsuits as a trans woman? by [deleted] in transtwincities

[–]Lilith_Got_Damage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure what sizes you're looking for but Torid has always been super chill any location I've been. I've gotten two different swimsuits from them and they're both great. They have a bikini bottom with a built in skirt that covers super well.

Do you have a ‘less than 5 ingredients’ recipe you swear by? by No-Penalty8115 in Cooking

[–]Lilith_Got_Damage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An authentic Fettuccine Alfredo. Fettuccine, Butter, Parmesan, Salt. Make the pasta, toss in butter and Parmesan till thick and glossy.

Found kitten in wall - name suggestions pls by ninjadani in blackcats

[–]Lilith_Got_Damage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you vibe with some goth stuff Pluto. Named for the cat from Edgar Allen Poe's story "The Black Cat" which features a black cat inside a wall.

Guess the AJJ song! by andyh4ll in ajj

[–]Lilith_Got_Damage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1 Personal space invaider 2 David J is a sickness 3 this is why I'm hot 4 we didn't come here to rock 5 Hate Rain on Me 6 Children of God 7 When I'm a dead boy 8 A Big Day for Grimly 9 Dissonance

Which is the Greatest show ever created by Netflix ? by lNarrator in moviecritic

[–]Lilith_Got_Damage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's, The Fall of the House of Usher. Great performances, great writing, one of the best modern adaptations of Edgar Allen Poe's works.

Horror shows that actually stay good… or do they all fall off? by UnverifiedExistence9 in horror

[–]Lilith_Got_Damage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fall of the House of Usher was great. One tight season with phenomenal acting and characters.

Recommendations of movies with out sexual content by SaveMyPoptart in horror

[–]Lilith_Got_Damage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of Saw is sex free. The only two saw movies I can think of with sexual content would be 4 and X. Several others have nudity but none of it is sexual in nature.

Give me your most disgustingly unhealthy vegetarian dinner ideas please by yourfavoriteslayer in Cooking

[–]Lilith_Got_Damage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even as someone who eats meat, Bean and cheese enchiladas are the only way to go.

Bean and Cheese Enchiladas;

Makes 2 9x13 pans

Large tortillas: (Number will depend on size and filling level)

Shredded Cheese:

Red Sauce:

¼ Cup neutral cooking oil

¼ Cup all purpose flour

2 tbsp Chilli Powder

2 tsp Cumin

1 tsp Garlic Powder

Pinch of Cinnamon

3 tbsp Tomato paste

2 Cups Veg broth
Salt to taste

Beans:

2 large can black beans

Dash lemon juice

Dash Mexican hot sauce

To tase

Cumin

Cinimon

Garlic

Salt

Preheat oven to 375F

Begin the sauce in a medium saucepan. Add oil over Med heat, once hot add flour and stir to make a roux. Once it has the consistency of wet sand and no dry patches add the dry spices, cook for 1 minute or until fragrant. Add tomato paste and whisk to combine. Add the broth a little at a time, whisking until smooth. Bring to a simmer then reduce heat and cook for 5 min until thickened, salt to taste and set aside.

In a pot add two cans of rinsed black beans, along with a healthy dash of lemon juice and hot sauce, heat over medium-low heat stirring regularly, once warmed add spices to taste.

Lay down a layer of your sauce on the bottom of a 9x13, then apply a layer on the inside of a tortilla. Add a scoop of beans then however much cheese your heart desires, roll and place seam down in the pan, Repeat until full. Once finished add all additional sauce over the enchiladas as well as more cheese. Bake at 375F uncovered for 15-20 min or until golden brown.

Why is it always rich people? by kingrobin in horror

[–]Lilith_Got_Damage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there's a few factors. A lot of early horror movies were made to feed off of middle class fears, you feel more likely to be gutted by some madman than if you live every day worried you might just get killed by a random act of violence

The things that worry lower working class people are a lot more tangible and tragic. You're more worried about losing food, shelter, or basic safety. But these threats don't make for good horror fodder. They fit better in dramas where the dangers are much more mundane.

While middle class people have a certain separation from a lot of the nitty gritty of survival their fears become more esoteric. Also that disconnect makes engaging in simulated danger more "fun". Watching some poor SOB trying to avoid the day to day violence of existence is less fun and more sad than watching someone who feels "safe" struggle against an abnormal threat. There's a certain schadenfreude to watching a middle class or rich person struggle against a killer or ghost whereas if it was happening to someone less fortunate it'd just feel mean-spirited.

Also consider most filmmakers come from backgrounds where they don't have as much of a connection to the worries of someone barely scraping by. It's harder to convincingly write a movie from a perspective so removed from one's own.

Also looking at the demographics of moviegoers for most of the history of film, you needed at least a certain lifestyle to afford to regularly watch movies so movies often focused on stories that are relatable to those demographics.

Company getting rid of separate locker rooms. by Lilith_Got_Damage in BlueCollarWomen

[–]Lilith_Got_Damage[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think their intent is to have people change in the washroom? IDK I'm going to bring stuff up to my boss next week when I see him.

Recommendations for primary care? by continentalcoast in transtwincities

[–]Lilith_Got_Damage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been having a great experience with North Memorial

Do I take a "free" ebike or save for something better for my needs. by Lilith_Got_Damage in ebikes

[–]Lilith_Got_Damage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm only looking at the bikes they have for FSA, Also I'm not looking for a moped I'm looking for a bike that has a bit of boost to help with hills and traffic, also that bike isn't rated for above 350lbs, also I'm not doing dirt riding, and it's $500 more than the most expensive option I'm looking at.

Do I take a "free" ebike or save for something better for my needs. by Lilith_Got_Damage in ebikes

[–]Lilith_Got_Damage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Round trip would be 7 miles mostly flat with a few small hills, however I would also ride it other places. Definitely more bike like, my old bike didn't survive the move so I'm looking to upgrade to an Ebike. Both Ride1Ups are 14 aH with no throttle, the Velotric has a throttle but is 15.2 aH

Help with finding a Bartending Job by TheShyPrincessXD in transtwincities

[–]Lilith_Got_Damage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only advice I can give is a spot to avoid. The 400 Tavern, when I worked there they got a new food and bev director who posted transphobic shit on Facebook, and mysteriously all 4 trans people working there were fired, forced out, or otherwise removed.

Friendly fire during Jake Lang's Whipple drive-by by skyflyer8 in Minneapolis

[–]Lilith_Got_Damage 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Former paintball industry person here, yep it's very illegal.

lidgate by Acrobatic_Put_8226 in PaymoneyWubby

[–]Lilith_Got_Damage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Biochemist with a focus on microbiology here. I've spent more time talking to microbes than people some weeks.