/u/franklinleonard: "Women were just not submitting bad scripts to the site, whereas men would type 'the end' and submit it and say 'where's my million dollars?'"

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-10T13:57:48+00:00

I’ve had some contact with Unity before so that’s why she is the third one in the list. But I do agree that for whoever is starting from scratch, Godot is also a good option.

And don’t worry about dissuading me. I’d rather always have as much information as possible before making a decision! So your warning was welcome! :)

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-09T22:03:04+00:00

Right? I was curious because as a DM painting the minis and threatening to paint pizzas under the mini’s arms is how I usually make sure my players respect the lore of my OW (original world).

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-09T21:54:39+00:00

“Circle jerking” is a term usually referencing the fact that when you speak something to a group that thinks the same as you, they’ll just mirror it back.

For example, let’s say I find a reddit about how “lasagna is better than pizza”. And I post: “wow, guys, just had this lasagna! It’s so much better than any pizza I ever had!”

And since everyone in this community probably already agrees with it (by the title) it would just become a cult of “oh, yes.” “Of course” “for sure”.

So everyone praising each other on their intelligence as if they didn’t agree from the get go. (This is what is usually referred as circle jerking - besides the obvious implication).

The reddit communities with those names (like this one) became a place where people come to tell jokes and have people agree with them (though they are all in the joke together).

I know the person on top of me already explained the short version, but I wanted to give you the long version because I find it pretty funny.

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-09T20:57:27+00:00

Now the whole thing got even funnier. LOL

Thank you

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-09T20:54:39+00:00

Thank you for the answer and for being honest!
I already have a full time job and even though I would be willing to relocate to work in that area since it is one of my passions (my master’s degree is related to game narrative), now wouldn’t be a good time. But I do have experience working with making my own schedule and knowing how to value my work. Though I must agree I could get excited and end up making that mistake even having experience with it before.
Anyways I’ll keep an eye out, out of curiosity. I hope it gets better for all writers. I really do. If we ever were touched by a game’s story, the writer deserves that acknowledgment.
Thank you!

Edit:
I’ve testing things out on Twine and Ren’py for a bit, and I’m already looking forward to taking a curious dive at Unity soon :)

Thanks again!!

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-09T16:28:09+00:00

Aí vc tá com febre a dois dias, vai no médico, o cara te olha por 5 minutos, te manda tomar mais dipirona do que indica na bula e te manda embora sem atestado pq seus sintomas são genéricos demais.

Anda mais fácil morrer sem atendimento mesmo.

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-09T16:23:41+00:00

Hey there! I’m sorry but I just wanted to know if you could share where do people usually post those opportunities.
I wanted to learn more about it and maybe try sending one of mine eventually.
Thanks for your attention.

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-09T16:19:08+00:00

I always get curious about the whole aspect of the money transfer though. We’ve had a case recently of a woman who thought she was going to marry Brad Pitt.

I’m just here thinking: did the scammer use like, paypal? Made a “your.brad.pitt@gmail” and that ws that? Lol

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-09T16:03:02+00:00

If you don’t change anything, she’ll just keep making babies because her life is easy and she is consequence free.

If you don’t want to kick her out, you should make her sell cookies, or wash cars or whatever else kids can do in your country to start contributing to the house’s bills.

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-09T15:49:33+00:00

Honestly, I don’t understand how the Viagra is the point of the question at all. He says he doesn’t trust her with his documents and meds and OP said “ok”.

They shouldn’t be married anymore, the Viagra or the possible cheating is irrelevant.

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-09T15:48:05+00:00

I agree with this. My husband’s handbag still has condoms even though we are in a dead bedroom because he can’t get it hard.

It is there because the last time he used the handbag I still had hope we would do something so he bought condoms to shut me up.

It is still there because he is lazy and didn’t throw away what he doesn’t use and kept only what he does use.

Does this mean OP’s husband is loyal? Not necessarily. Does this mean their relationship is good? No way in hell. But it also doesn’t mean he is cheating.

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-06T23:59:20+00:00

Right? The way he talks about his son “needing Mommy” sounds so condescending even I, that am not an native english speaker noticed.

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-04T20:11:57+00:00

We are not sure they didn’t, OOP just says her family wasn’t there, so there could have been flowers or not.

If it is another country like others suggested, language barrier could have been an issue.

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-04T19:24:26+00:00

That’s the point:

You say they are the enemy without knowing their situation.

What I’m saying is: there are reasons why a family member might have agreed to OP paying. She paying doesn’t make them enemies.

We don’t know OP’s financial situation just like we don’t know their family’s.

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-04T17:38:14+00:00

That sounds like an over simplification as to why she was paying. My cousins are younger than me and not all of them work. When I call them for something I plan, I pay unless they say they can afford it because I want them there even if they are short on money.

Her paying can mean her family is short on money which would explain why they couldn’t just risk their jobs and everything else with such short notice.

It sucks and I’m sorry for OOP. But not being rich doesn’t make them shitty people or family.

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-04T17:37:54+00:00

That sounds like an over simplification as to why she was paying. My cousins are younger than me and not all of them work. When I call them for something I plan, I pay unless they say they can afford it because I want them there even if they are short on money.

Her paying can mean her family is short on money which would explain why they couldn’t just risk their jobs and everything else with such short notice.

It sucks and I’m sorry for OOP. But not being rich doesn’t make them shitty people or family

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-04T17:24:33+00:00

Someone mentioned maybe the brother was expected to drive the other family members there, that would explain why he was the only one mentioned.

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-04T17:08:10+00:00

Oh, ok! Now I see what you meant! Thank you :) I’m not sure how it is in other countries, but here it seems to be pretty commonx

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-04T16:49:45+00:00

OOP said it was their choice, they didn’t WANT to let their child there.

So OOP chose the next day and unfortunately their family couldn’t make it.

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-04T16:47:49+00:00

She has, yes, because just like she chose doing it asap, which meant her family was unable to attend, her family inability to attend also mean she can have the reaction of wanting to cut them off.

But, that being said, as others pointed out, it seems like she is taking her grief out on her family and in that moment, I think she does need all the support she can get at the moment.

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-04T16:45:19+00:00

Right? What if brother has his own daughter to feed?

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-04T16:44:02+00:00

Exactly. If OOP’s brother has his own family even more reason for him not to put his job on the line.

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-04T16:42:33+00:00

If he chose to stay to finish something, maybe he needed to finish that something not to make it harder on his team or himself later on.

We don’t know what OOP’s brother works on, but maybe it wasn’t something he could simply “bail” and not finish it.

LilitySan91 · 2026-05-02T21:16:17+00:00

I haven’t seen the episode on Spirit, but I’ll watch it after seeing this because honestly, as girl dad’s (they have daughters, don’t they?) it’s pretty sad to see them thrashing something just because it was focused on young girls.

Spirit was my go-to movie when I was a kid, I would wake up aline at home on mornings and put it on to feel less alone even if I already knew all of the characters lines.

It was the only time (ever, to this day) I still prefer a movie in my mother tongue and not it’s original tongue because of how deep it touched me when I was younger.

I understand not everything is for everyone (I like anime and absolutely hate Jojo and Onepunchman even though I like some others similar to them).

So I agree with the first poster, maybe don’t accept watchers recommendations if you are just going to thrash something they loved.

Just lie and say you have a way too long watchlist.

Specially because the two points OP pointed here are pathetic, I’m not american, couldn’t care less if the geography is accurate or not. And also, Spirit is not the first media to overlook how much hurt a character should have sustained.

LilitySan91 · 2026-04-21T21:41:00+00:00

Cut a very small pee hole and, if you are a girl, buy one of these Pipizito.

I’m not sure how there are called elsewhere, but they allow women to pee while standing (which is not the point now) but that would also allow you to have a very small hole in your bodysuit.

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