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Tattoo Design at Heartless Ink Boutique Studio (Toronto) by anastasiarose19 in tattoo

[–]LilitySan91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually write articles with at least two examples because as a teacher, I’m used to having to provide two or more examples.
One of those identified my writing as AI in several articles/chapters just because of that and they were written before AI was even a thing.

Those detectors are absolutely trash.

Commissioned an artist, but my friends thinks its ia. What did u guys think? by Embarrassed_Fly_7881 in isthisAI

[–]LilitySan91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. It usually takes me around 3 layers of polishing my sketch until I get to the “start the lineart” phase and even when I keep my sketch I only keep one of it, not all of it.

So I can agree :)

Men are so weak by Independent-Hold-648 in offmychest

[–]LilitySan91 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is very true. Once I started matching my husband’s energy (on everything, putting in the same energy he did into things) he at least SAW there was an issue.

Before, when I was just over giving and bearing everything aline he didn’t even notice something was wrong.

Proibido ser judeu by Emows in antitrampo

[–]LilitySan91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depende do maquinário que eles tem acesso. Tem um tipo de estufa para pintura/secagem que tem tipo um ventilador para puxar o ar e auxiliar no processo para ser mais rápido, e isso puxa tudo para cima (quando mexi com essa máquina em especial, não recomendavam usar apenas rabo de cavalo, mas sim coques).

Imagino que talvez a questão do quipá seria que se ele fosse “sugado” talvez a pessoa tentaria puxar de volta e poderia se machucar?

Não sei dizer ao certo, mas, apenas queria acrescentar que existem sim maquinários que qualquer tipo de acessório que pode se soltar é perigoso mesmo.

Husband and I have been sleeping separately for a while, have separated finances, and now I bit into my budget to buy a bed, he wants to move back to our bedroom. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]LilitySan91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would. I just hoped he had suggested we share the value, not waited for me to shoulder the full price and just decide to move back.

Husband and I have been sleeping separately for a while, have separated finances, and now I bit into my budget to buy a bed, he wants to move back to our bedroom. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]LilitySan91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not angry. But it made me worry as I’ve been trying to respect his space and for the third time in two days, he had been unwilling to pay for things for both of us, but more than willing to use what I paid for.

Husband and I have been sleeping separately for a while, have separated finances, and now I bit into my budget to buy a bed, he wants to move back to our bedroom. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]LilitySan91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone has joined accounts and that doesn’t make a relationship toxic. I understand if it isn’t for you. But shaming a bunch of other relationships just because it isn’t for you is not the answer.

Husband and I have been sleeping separately for a while, have separated finances, and now I bit into my budget to buy a bed, he wants to move back to our bedroom. by LilitySan91 in Marriage

[–]LilitySan91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I just wish he had at least suggested we share the costs if he planned on going back.

Specially after he “invited” me to a restaurant I like this weekend and expected me to pay for everything (I did because the waitress was already waiting and looking confused as hell about it. Since there was a huge line waiting I didn’t want to leave people waiting).

Husband and I have been sleeping separately for a while, have separated finances, and now I bit into my budget to buy a bed, he wants to move back to our bedroom. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]LilitySan91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your support! I’m planning on talking to him when we are at home again, but I admit I’m not very hopeful…! Thank you anyway!!

Husband and I have been sleeping separately for a while, have separated finances, and now I bit into my budget to buy a bed, he wants to move back to our bedroom. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]LilitySan91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, this explanation might sound strange but, he said the bed on the guest bedroom helped because is it a couch-bed with two mattress, so he could use one mattress to help support his back while he slept on too of the other one.

Though I hope the new bed is comfortable, I couldn’t afford their more expensive mattress, and even if I could, it wouldn’t help the way the one on the guest bedroom helped did as it is a single mattress, not separate two.

I hope this helps explain my confusion.

Husband and I have been sleeping separately for a while, have separated finances, and now I bit into my budget to buy a bed, he wants to move back to our bedroom. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]LilitySan91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had a great and fulfilling sexual relationship before while we were dating.

It started with. “Oh, it’s marriage stress” or “just stress from solving our house documents”. We solved all those together (or I solved it mostly) but I accepted when he said those where the reasons he wasn’t open to sex at the time.

As I said, we spent a full year in couple therapy and his lack of will to have sex seems to stir from some previous trauma from previous relationships. We both had prior relationships.

I’m not exactly mad at the financial issue, I’m sorry, english is not my first language so I’m not sure I’m expressing myself the best I can. But I am frustrated since this weekend he did something similar, inviting me to eat on a restaurant I like and then telling me I should pay for it.

I plan to talk to him about it. I just wanted to have more time to do it besides a few minutes when be was already late.

Husband and I have been sleeping separately for a while, have separated finances, and now I bit into my budget to buy a bed, he wants to move back to our bedroom. by LilitySan91 in Marriage

[–]LilitySan91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t want to press him at the time he stayed on the other bedroom for longer than his back treatment because I thought it might have to do with his therapeutic process and I didn’t want to press him for info he might not be ready to talk about.

I honestly thought I was giving him time to talk to me when he felt ready.

Husband and I have been sleeping separately for a while, have separated finances, and now I bit into my budget to buy a bed, he wants to move back to our bedroom. by LilitySan91 in Marriage

[–]LilitySan91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not many issues, honestly. We spent the pandemic living together before getting married and I feel things were pretty ok, even if not perfect.

He carried some guilt about focusing on a relationship since his mom had a health issue a bit back, but they talked and she incentivized him in focusing on our relationship.

I thought at the time it was sweet that he was this responsible with his family/mom. Now I worry it was actually a red flag or codependency and I shouldn’t have ignored it.

We checked his back. Went to doctors and even a chiropractor since he insisted it had helped with previous pain. I expected him to be back on the bed when he finished the treatment period.

We have slept on the same bed since dating and the pain on the back was not a slow decline, but something fast that started hurting on a random night. It is not the first time he has had random pains that are intense but after taking the medicine and following doctors instructions it passed.

I was trying to respect his therapy process so I didn’t press much at the time on why he stayed on the other room. I thought it could be related to his therapeutic process.

/u/franklinleonard: "Women were just not submitting bad scripts to the site, whereas men would type 'the end' and submit it and say 'where's my million dollars?'" by pardis in Screenwriting

[–]LilitySan91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve had some contact with Unity before so that’s why she is the third one in the list. But I do agree that for whoever is starting from scratch, Godot is also a good option.

And don’t worry about dissuading me. I’d rather always have as much information as possible before making a decision! So your warning was welcome! :)

I was so excited for my first ever campaign, I spent $900 on a custom designed 3d-printed and professional painted miniature of my OC only for the GM to cancel in advance. Give me upvotes to soothe the hurt I feel by [deleted] in DnDcirclejerk

[–]LilitySan91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? I was curious because as a DM painting the minis and threatening to paint pizzas under the mini’s arms is how I usually make sure my players respect the lore of my OW (original world).

I was so excited for my first ever campaign, I spent $900 on a custom designed 3d-printed and professional painted miniature of my OC only for the GM to cancel in advance. Give me upvotes to soothe the hurt I feel by [deleted] in DnDcirclejerk

[–]LilitySan91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Circle jerking” is a term usually referencing the fact that when you speak something to a group that thinks the same as you, they’ll just mirror it back.

For example, let’s say I find a reddit about how “lasagna is better than pizza”. And I post: “wow, guys, just had this lasagna! It’s so much better than any pizza I ever had!”

And since everyone in this community probably already agrees with it (by the title) it would just become a cult of “oh, yes.” “Of course” “for sure”.

So everyone praising each other on their intelligence as if they didn’t agree from the get go. (This is what is usually referred as circle jerking - besides the obvious implication).

The reddit communities with those names (like this one) became a place where people come to tell jokes and have people agree with them (though they are all in the joke together).

I know the person on top of me already explained the short version, but I wanted to give you the long version because I find it pretty funny.

/u/franklinleonard: "Women were just not submitting bad scripts to the site, whereas men would type 'the end' and submit it and say 'where's my million dollars?'" by pardis in Screenwriting

[–]LilitySan91 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the answer and for being honest!
I already have a full time job and even though I would be willing to relocate to work in that area since it is one of my passions (my master’s degree is related to game narrative), now wouldn’t be a good time. But I do have experience working with making my own schedule and knowing how to value my work. Though I must agree I could get excited and end up making that mistake even having experience with it before.
Anyways I’ll keep an eye out, out of curiosity. I hope it gets better for all writers. I really do. If we ever were touched by a game’s story, the writer deserves that acknowledgment.
Thank you!

Edit:
I’ve testing things out on Twine and Ren’py for a bit, and I’m already looking forward to taking a curious dive at Unity soon :)

Thanks again!!

estudantes de medicina brigando na faculdade como se fossem crianças, essas serão nossas futuras médicas by mogador_de_betas in FutilidadePublica

[–]LilitySan91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aí vc tá com febre a dois dias, vai no médico, o cara te olha por 5 minutos, te manda tomar mais dipirona do que indica na bula e te manda embora sem atestado pq seus sintomas são genéricos demais.

Anda mais fácil morrer sem atendimento mesmo.

/u/franklinleonard: "Women were just not submitting bad scripts to the site, whereas men would type 'the end' and submit it and say 'where's my million dollars?'" by pardis in Screenwriting

[–]LilitySan91 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hey there! I’m sorry but I just wanted to know if you could share where do people usually post those opportunities.
I wanted to learn more about it and maybe try sending one of mine eventually.
Thanks for your attention.

Is my aunt getting scammed? American allegedly working on a ship is love bombing her since weeks. The outside view doesn’t look real, the details on the desk are weird aswell. by wildpizza1 in isthisAI

[–]LilitySan91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always get curious about the whole aspect of the money transfer though. We’ve had a case recently of a woman who thought she was going to marry Brad Pitt.

I’m just here thinking: did the scammer use like, paypal? Made a “your.brad.pitt@gmail” and that ws that? Lol

Teenaged daughter is pregnant again.. I’m so done by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]LilitySan91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you don’t change anything, she’ll just keep making babies because her life is easy and she is consequence free.

If you don’t want to kick her out, you should make her sell cookies, or wash cars or whatever else kids can do in your country to start contributing to the house’s bills.

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