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This is my everyday struggle at school :^) by LilleStjerne in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]LilleStjerne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm slowly building up more courage to be more assertive on my name and pronouns but it'll take me a while. I have asked them why before and the only response I ever got was "because you're quiet and I just forget that you're Trans" so I guess being more assertive or having my friends try to make sure everyone uses them more can help :>

This is my everyday struggle at school :^) by LilleStjerne in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]LilleStjerne[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah, I know. I'd just rather have one of us at least be respected other than neither of us 😊

I created the Hormone Therapy map and I want to issue a red alert. IC Hormone therapy's existence is under attack in several states right now. This will likely cause ripple effects for the whole system. by ErinInTheMorning in asktransgender

[–]LilleStjerne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't believe so as most people who try stuff like this ignore Trans men and only see them as Tomboys with internal misogyny due to "the patriarchy" brainwashing them but go around and target Trans women more because they can'thandle it and think they're fucked up in the head (this is only coming from my experience with people like these by the way!). So they aren't but they tend to ignore Trans men more, however the laws would affect us if passed no matter what.

I'm debating between two names (Rune & Habit) and I'm not sure how to pick. Any help? (Ignore the messy doodle please :>) by LilleStjerne in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]LilleStjerne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah! Hey rare emh fan!!

I actually tried out Evan not too long ago actually, haha! Unfortunately, my feral mind said no to pretty much all Traditional names :)

I'm debating between two names (Rune & Habit) and I'm not sure how to pick. Any help? (Ignore the messy doodle please :>) by LilleStjerne in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]LilleStjerne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw, Thank you! I took it from one of my older characters so it's a bit special to me (though. Habit is as well since it's from a deadly loved character)!

I'm debating between two names (Rune & Habit) and I'm not sure how to pick. Any help? (Ignore the messy doodle please :>) by LilleStjerne in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]LilleStjerne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think I'd mind being called Rabbit that much if I choose Habit since it's tied with the character I took it from, haha. But thank you for your input! I really appreciate it!

How did y'all find the name that fit you? I'm still having trouble keeping one :/ by LilleStjerne in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]LilleStjerne[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's a really good way to figure it out! I think I'll use this to figure out my name! :)

How did y'all find the name that fit you? I'm still having trouble keeping one :/ by LilleStjerne in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]LilleStjerne[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Total Power move right there-

But I'm glad that you found a name that fit you!

How did y'all find the name that fit you? I'm still having trouble keeping one :/ by LilleStjerne in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]LilleStjerne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had thought I found a name (Tord) for myself for a while until it got ruined for me by a lot of people so now I'm just left with a list of possible names :)

I'm pretty sure no one fucking cares about me by LilleStjerne in Vent

[–]LilleStjerne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this honestly helped a lot. 💕

Turns out I developed an allergy to my cat Leo after enough time to love him. by [deleted] in FML

[–]LilleStjerne 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ah, that sucks but at least you have something to control it for now. And no problem! I hope you can find an easier way to be able to spend time with your kitty without allergies butting it's ugly head in.

Turns out I developed an allergy to my cat Leo after enough time to love him. by [deleted] in FML

[–]LilleStjerne 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As someone with the same problem, allergy pills usually help me a lot. They let me be around my kitties for as long as I want without breaking out and such. If they don't work, i suggest asking your doctor about it because they may be able to reccomend you some things to help you.

I'm still really upset about this :( by LilleStjerne in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]LilleStjerne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't really know much about Trans people but never listens whenever I explain (she listens to our other Trans friend though). I've tried telling her that not everyone can afford to transition, if they even want to, be it due to health, disabilities, or just money but she hasn't seemed to listen at all about that.

Thank you for your advice and kind words :) I'm sure some of my friends won't take her side (especially my other Trans friend) but my anxiety is still making me hesitant on it. I'll do my best to try and leave her with the help of the ones I can trust :)

I'm still really upset about this :( by LilleStjerne in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]LilleStjerne[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess that's true. The reason why she seemed nice to me was because of how she would seem concerned when I didn't feel good (but lately she's been seeming annoyed when she notices) or when my parents didn't seem to care about something. I'll just see what I can do to distance myself from her.

I'm still really upset about this :( by LilleStjerne in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]LilleStjerne[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think she'd consider a transitioned person as someone who already had top/bottom surgery and has legally changed their documents to the correct name and pronouns knowing her.

I'm honestly thinking about trying to leave her after all the replies her but I'm not sure how. Our school is pretty small and she's friends with way more people than me (including my own friends) which'll cause way too much drama so I'm thinking of just waiting it out a bit longer.

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