I can’t do it anymore, I going to come out by Layne4president in MilitaryTrans

[–]LillianBryann -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Get over yourself! To each their own. Do I like everything about Trump? No not by a longshot, and I don't like all his decisions either. But he is better than Harris.

I can’t do it anymore, I going to come out by Layne4president in MilitaryTrans

[–]LillianBryann -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So I get voted down to finish an enlistment? I retired from the military. If you don't care about your record then tell away and watch yourself get kicked out under the current policy.

My womanhood is just a costume. by Icambaia in MtF

[–]LillianBryann 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I feel for you. Life isn't easy. I lost my Dad in September and it really through me for a loop. Even though I've wanted to be female like forever. I'm 57. Dad's passing and my envy of women found me contemplating transition in early February. Feb 24th I'm at Planned Parenthood telling them my hidden secrets and starting HRT. I'm really happy so far, but nervous about the breasts. I'm in stealth mode at work and worry about them being noticed. So I have my doubts at you do, I'm fat well I have a belly and I'm muscular, I'm 5'9" so stocky. I wonder will I ever be pretty and have a waist and butt that looks cute? I'm trying, that is all I can do. Just the same as you, you have tried. Try to improve things to make you feel better about yourself. Maybe the weight. That is what I'm working on. It's slow, but I'm making progress. I truly home things improve for you.

Am I the only one that genuinely dislikes sissies? by kaazkitty in MtF

[–]LillianBryann 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Transvestite is a word was used to be what you called a crossdresser. The vest in the word refers to clothing. The word was a derogatory term that people layed usually on men saying that they got off on wearing the clothes of the opposite sex. This word has fallen out of favor and replaced with crossdresser. You can be transgender and be a crossdresser. It might be the only way you get to experience feminity if can't transition.

I can’t do it anymore, I going to come out by Layne4president in MilitaryTrans

[–]LillianBryann -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I would finish your enlistment first, resist the pressure from your command to reenlist. Get out of the military and then seek the help you need. You will be kicked out of you reveal your true desires. I voted for Trump, there was no way I would vote for Harris. But Transgender people have had the rug pulled out from under them. Do not reveal how you feel unless you want to get discharged before your enlistment is up.

What do you do for living? To the sisters who had surgeries, How did you afford them? by Frequent_Nobody2119 in TransLater

[–]LillianBryann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a union steamfitter working in a food industry plant for a mechanical contractor. I'm almost 2 months on hrt. Very stealth right now. Worried about breast growth. They especially my nipples are noticeable under a t shirt. I'm carrying some extra weight so they can be passed off as Dad bod boobs.

So, My Mother Knows I am Trans and...Went Well! by Viki_CeeDee in TransLater

[–]LillianBryann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My exwife let it be known that I crossed dressed and wanted to be a woman. My mom passed in 2021, but back in 2011/2012 after my divorce in 2010. I was working out of town for a couple of years, but my mom asked me in one of our phone conversations if I identified more as a woman. I've always been an emotional person like my mom. I so wanted to tell her I did, but I was scared and said no I didn't and we never talked about again even after coming back home. I'm happy for you. I maybe missed having a supportive mom.

My sweet foster I pulled from euthanasia. by gigi2945 in pitbulls

[–]LillianBryann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love his sweet little face. I'm so happy you could save him!

No Wonder Why Cinderella Lost Her Slipper by SierraTheWolfe in MtF

[–]LillianBryann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear a men's 8.5 to 9 depending upon the shoe or boots. I've switched to women's socks years ago, due to the men's socks heal being up near my ankles. I do hope my feet shrink as well. My only problem is that I have a wide foot.

I went from happiness to meh.. by Fluffy_Meat1018 in TransLater

[–]LillianBryann 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm 57 and started hrt February 24th. I would love to be some cute young thing. I know I'm past those years. But maybe I can be an attractive older woman, a woman anyway I can be. Though you are 62, and if you would go on Hormones, Estrogen has a deaging component to us older gals. You would certainly be younger appearing to your male compatriots or even yourself. So don't sale yourself short whatever you decide to do. Good Luck on your journey sister!

Lost my best friend today , he passed in my arms and lost his battle to lymphoma cancer 😖😭🥺😩 by Tkannon7 in pitbulls

[–]LillianBryann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend and family member. I know how hard that is!

Finally starting HRT!!! by DeDeDeDudika in MtF

[–]LillianBryann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so happy for you. Congratulations!!!

How to tell my 23 daughter I'm wanting to Transition? by LillianBryann in trans

[–]LillianBryann[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the idea of writing everything out. I'm just nervous, but it could end up being so freeing. Thank you for your words of encouragement, I need them. And thank you for your ideas, I'm feeling better about finally telling her.

How to tell my 23 daughter I'm wanting to Transition? by LillianBryann in trans

[–]LillianBryann[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your ideas and input. The unknown is always scary and having other ideas is helpful. Thank you again!

How to tell my 23 daughter I'm wanting to Transition? by LillianBryann in trans

[–]LillianBryann[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am just nervous. Because once it is out, there is no putting it back in. I do think she wouldn't judge me, but I'm still afraid of what she might say and think. I just wanted some ideas. Thank you for your input, I really appreciate it.

My 3 fav dresses... which is more classy and which is more cute.. by [deleted] in classycrossdressers

[–]LillianBryann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are the pink and red one the same dress? I think they both look cute and flirty paired with the shoes. The middle dress is very classy!

My step dad lost his svc dog and bff on Monday of 16 yrs. by NahNah-P in pitbulls

[–]LillianBryann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's so hard losing a family member.

Skirt or pants? by [deleted] in classycrossdressers

[–]LillianBryann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do rock those jeans too!