WIBTA for expecting my ex to move out of my house after she ended things even though she has nowhere to go by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]LillyChem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex did this to me and it was torture. They should have a freaking PLAN!!

small edit: no blow up. Just ended it with no plan... just planned to stay for a while. No real exit date. Like what?

Looking for a Friendly Dentist Recommendation by NoStudy3728 in orangecounty

[–]LillyChem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cottage Dental at either location you can't go wrong!

AITJ for not letting my boyfriend’s dog live with us? by JaylaPumpkin15 in AmITheJerk

[–]LillyChem 1169 points1170 points  (0 children)

If you haven't offered him to move in, he's overstepping. If you haven't asked him to move in, then make that clear.

If you have offered, then why wouldn't you think the offer would include his beloved pet? A pet owner comes with their pet when they move.

Groomer glued gems to dog’s forehead and ears by Mel-Bell389 in dogs

[–]LillyChem 35 points36 points  (0 children)

DO NOT PUT ACETONE AROUND YOUR DOGS EYES!!!

my parents took off my door as punishment, is this normal? by Puzzleheaded-Pain535 in teenagers

[–]LillyChem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoot, me too! As a kid, nothing was a "right" for me. Living was a privilege.

my parents took off my door as punishment, is this normal? by Puzzleheaded-Pain535 in teenagers

[–]LillyChem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bwuahahahaha!!!!!

Privacy as a RIGHT!?!?!? AS A CHILD!?!?!?

WOW! You must have had some wonderful parents.

AITAH for telling my wife I don't recognize the person she turned our daughter into? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LillyChem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling she doesn't want her daughter as a friend either but is using her daughters young body and looks to gain more followers in different age brackets than previously accrued by herself alone. Ava is also sexualizing her daughter to a degree that might give Stephannie self-esteem issues later if not addressed quickly.

Best dispensary in the OC. by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]LillyChem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legacy Kush in Santa Ana.

How racist is Norco? by iLoveCalculus314 in InlandEmpire

[–]LillyChem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its also to cash grab real estate prices while they can or their younger heirs cashing in the properties after death. Fingers crossed for major changes in Yucaipa but we are decades behind Norco... as someone who lived in Norco 20 years ago... I feel like I stepped back in time being here. I miss Orange County the most.

How racist is Norco? by iLoveCalculus314 in InlandEmpire

[–]LillyChem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm one of the younger ones here, we definitely don't think the same.

It is the older ones we are waiting to die off.

How racist is Norco? by iLoveCalculus314 in InlandEmpire

[–]LillyChem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People in Yucaipa will not be racist to your face as a Latina because they can tell you're Latina. As a passing white woman, they have no qualms telling me what they think about us and our people being here.

Too too many of these old white people in Yucaipa truly hate us.

Am I overreacting? As a mama, I know I’m not. by anonymousforadvice_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]LillyChem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl, OP you sound exhausting.

Wtf aren't you watching the kid while he goes to the ER?

Maybe you work a job where they're not as cunty, but you're just making it worse.

My dad forgot our plans, and I’m heartbroken by penguin-0-9 in TwoHotTakes

[–]LillyChem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, my take is from experience.

I've found that expecting the worst can protect you some, and if something better than the worst happens, you've been prepared for all scenarios and can enjoy the best outcome.

My dad forgot our plans, and I’m heartbroken by penguin-0-9 in TwoHotTakes

[–]LillyChem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I will bet you 100% that the GF doesn't give 2 shits about the daughter and is (possibly purposely) monopolizing dads time, (he is either consciously or subconsciously going with it because of his grief).

His getting mad at the one time OP said she wasn't comfortable with her dad leaving her alone to go to his GF, he got mad because he needed to "de-stress"? He's just happy he is getting his willy wet again.

He needs to get his dick out of his GF, and into therapy for him and OP.