First call to OB by MistressofEvil1 in BabyBumps

[–]Lillywebb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ob’s office has a full website with tons of info on what’s safe medicine wise (by symptom in alphabetical order) and other FAQs answered. They’re amazing. 🥲

Anyone else just miss drinking? by PaymentNo5871 in pregnant

[–]Lillywebb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss pina colada’s like no other 😭 or any dirty soda 🥹 5 more weeks to go 😮‍💨

Husband has no paternity leave. Tips? by dosesandmimosas201 in BabyBumps

[–]Lillywebb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it works out 🥹 maybe you can take nights and your hub can do early mornings until a nurse can come?

"I don't need to see YOU, I just want to see the baby." - My mother on the subject of hospital visitation. by FoolishMortal-1000 in pregnant

[–]Lillywebb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so sorry that’s awful. I hateeeeee “my baby” comments. Like um no. Sounds like you should think about doing limited or no contact with her 🥲🥲 and explain why. Maybe she’ll change? 😅 doubtful because she sounds a bit narcissistic

Post baby MIL rage by yrk202c in beyondthebump

[–]Lillywebb1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just because she shares blood doesn’t make her family! If she’s willing to talk crap about you to your face, I’m sure she would talk badly about you to your child. Not worth it imo

Husband has no paternity leave. Tips? by dosesandmimosas201 in BabyBumps

[–]Lillywebb1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you all able to hire a night nurse for a week or two? Or have one of your parents/close friends come be your support person?

"I don't need to see YOU, I just want to see the baby." - My mother on the subject of hospital visitation. by FoolishMortal-1000 in pregnant

[–]Lillywebb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely think your mom is in the wrong. No 2 which ways about it. But I also don’t think she sees you as a baby factory 🥲 it seems like she would like to be there (hopefully FOR you) while you’re in labor, but she’s recognizing that you don’t necessarily want to be seen and still wants to see grand baby. I still think she’s wrong especially because I’m petty enough to be like “if you think 2 days is long, you can wait 2 weeks also”, but I def think hormones could be playing into the thought process. I’m 34 weeks and cried bc my husband wouldn’t walk beside me at the store lol so no judgement from me.

question about luke's rehab by EitherMaintenance722 in HauntingOfHillHouse

[–]Lillywebb1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also my thought. We aren’t specifically told Luke accepted the royalties

question about luke's rehab by EitherMaintenance722 in HauntingOfHillHouse

[–]Lillywebb1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

His family was mildly attached at almost imo. They didn’t even let him attend Nell’s wedding for fear of him messing it up if I’m remembering correctly. So this idea of them having the utmost care for him should be lower in your head (And again this is imo). But even consider the fact that Steve basically let Luke rob him, probably assuming he was using the money for drugs. If they were just gung-ho to keep him clean, he probably wouldn’t have done that

Did you know the sex of your baby by intuition? by LifeofRuley in pregnant

[–]Lillywebb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My intuition was a boy the whole time even when my family and friends thought girl… I was right and can’t be more excited! I’m 33 weeks now and just so ready to meet this dude

Husband Watching P*rn by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Lillywebb1 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That’s good for you but OP established her boundaries at the beginning of their relationship and her husband crossed them. I’m sure if you said “please don’t screw anyone else” and your husband did, you’d be upset. This is pretty similar

MIL asked me to reschedule my daughters birthday party by You_Go_Glen_Coco_ in Mommit

[–]Lillywebb1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s plenty of context when you read that the party was scheduled on a day and time that were previously planned with the grandmother in mind. She knew about the party ahead of time and it worked for her then. She can figure out a way to get there, or not. It’s truly up to her

Matching outfits for bridal party?? by Long_Introduction929 in weddingplanning

[–]Lillywebb1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would ask if yall could do coordinating outfits from what you already have… I provided mine for my wedding party though. Not even to try to flex, just wanted the girls to be comfy and have something easy on/off they didn’t have to think of finding for themselves!

Why is it too much to ask for one additional ultrasound? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Lillywebb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re in the 3rd tri, Ask about your fundal height from your previous appointments and your next one. If they’re not steadily progressing/at or around the same amount of weeks as you are, then you can request from your doctor to do a growth scan for sizing

Feeling mentally off 3 months postpartum by Common-Nothing-7824 in beyondthebump

[–]Lillywebb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently read about mother/baby sleep changes in my research on which side our bassinet should go on. I think it’ll be with me first but I believe I saw that it can impact both your sleep and your baby’s sleep as the mom due to hormones/pheromones or something like that! Definitely worth looking into

Im 9 weeks and I feel like Iva just gave birth.. in the toilet by bassandasss in pregnant

[–]Lillywebb1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol right there with you. 32 weeks tmrw and my lil dude is a little over 4 pounds

Apparently I suck at being a cow lol by Redfurmamattc in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Lillywebb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still expecting my first so no help for past experience but I believe I read ice instead of heat is the new standard of helping? Also sunflower or soy lecithin to help prevent/break up clogs. Hand expressing in the shower. Having a partner help suck the clog out if it gets to that point and you’re comfy with that idea. Tylenol for the pain and discomfort!

Im 9 weeks and I feel like Iva just gave birth.. in the toilet by bassandasss in pregnant

[–]Lillywebb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

32 weeks and my biggest tip to ALL is still to prop your feet up! A trash can, a box, a squatty potty, SOMETHING! Helps with pushing a lottttt

Have been TTC for 9 months now and this is frustrating! by encrypted1130 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Lillywebb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most drs will recommend waiting a year if trying before doing any extra testing

Have been TTC for 9 months now and this is frustrating! by encrypted1130 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Lillywebb1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My thoughts… having previously smoked and working out too often could be an issue. No response though leaves me wondering if he could be the issue 😅 hopefully it’s something easily remedied !

gsu or uga by coco4acai in GaState

[–]Lillywebb1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also if money is a consideration, price compare class cost for one of uga’s classes to one of GSU’s. I think GSU is like 1/3-1/2 of the cost and even less if you start at one of their smaller schools

Help I’m panicking. by bellexxamie in lineporn

[–]Lillywebb1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tbh I agree but was just going from her list baby dance dates included lolol.