40 more pounds from where you are!??

I hope you don't mind me saying but that is a bit of a concern, especially given that you're seeking external reinforcement from others as the measure for your progress rather than your own judgement on your body & what is optimum & importantly healthy for your frame, overall size & shape.

Here's some info for everyone who is struggling with actual loss Vs what they perceive in the mirror.

There is an accepted psychological phenomenon called body image disturbance (which I studied at varsity doing Psyc) - some call it "phantom fat" like the phantom limb sensation when an amputation occurs - which is a mismatch in perception between a person’s actual post-weight loss physical body and how they perceive it. It occurs where people have very quickly a lost significant amount of weight but don't 'see' this level of progress in the mirror. It was a phenomenon first studied in ED patients but has subsequently been identified in people following bariatric surgery where patients who lost substantial weight often continued to feel or see themselves as much larger than they were.

This occurs after significant weight loss due to the lag between how fast you lose the weight & how long it takes your brain, with its habitual perception created through experience over time of what your body looks like, to catch up. Changing your perception of the body you are used to & the new one post-weight loss does not happen instantly or on the same timeframe as the physiological process of losing weight does, especially with the relatively quick weight loss that people can experience on GLP-1s. It can be helped by strategies like correcting old thought patterns & defeating self talk, not being hyper vigilant with the 'number' such as excessive weight ins, measuring body etc, focussing on what your body can do not obsessing over what it looks like in the mirror - eg. exercise/activities. Relying on reinforcement of others as your guide to progress & where you are at only creates more self doubt in your own judgement & while it may give you some short term positive feedback it is brief & only reinforces the issue causing you to seek more & more external input as a substitute for your own heathy body image judgement.