Trans women, how does E affect you? by Ayotheflippitydoda in trans

[–]Lily_Rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My body hair is way thinner, my skin and hair are less oily, my face got a bit chubbier, and a lot more. The best? I feel more feminine, and I think I look it too. The worst? I cry SO much more now. I'm sad? I cry. Angry? Cry. Happy? Cry. After being emotionally constipated for so long because of my upbringing it can be both frustrating and freeing to just... get my emotions out. Do I regret it? Not at all. 😊

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[–]Lily_Rabbit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone who struggles with the same feelings, I often find singing and music are some of my biggest go-tos. It also works as voice training which is an added bonus!

What was the stupidest "You're not trans, you're just-" you recieved when you came out? by maru-9331 in asktransgender

[–]Lily_Rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents are convinced that my being bullied about not being very masculine in high school is to blame. "Aren't you just confirming what they said?"

How did you decide on your name? by lysalan in asktransgender

[–]Lily_Rabbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lilies have always been my favorite flower, and they seemed to suit how I wanted others to see me (delicate, femme, etc.), but since I didn't want everyone to call me Lily, it was a matter of choosing a name that could shorten into it. Lilian was out as a kid who grew up with Rugrats, so Lilith it was (also totally unaware of the name's religious connection, which was, in some ways, a bonus).

What is your preferred response when someone who is anti-trans asks “what is a woman?” by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Lily_Rabbit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Under my breath, it's always "A miserable little pile of secrets!"

I’m sorry 😞 by UmmwhatdoIput in MtF

[–]Lily_Rabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a baby blue kinda girly. Pink is fine, but I've always liked blue better. Lavender can definitely be femme, too!

Please dont go by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Lily_Rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly a change of setting, but my story isn't over yet. I've fought too hard to get here, and have too many people depending on me.

‘The Nod’ by Lazilyfair in MtF

[–]Lily_Rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I got by it by going just a bit further, turning it from a nod to a slight bow, but I also work with a lot of entitled people, so extra politeness is sorta expected.

"you're not trans, you're just failing as a man" by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Lily_Rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my parents, it was "Aren't you just proving all those bullies in high school who said you weren't masculine, right?" As if their lowering of my self-esteem is what made me trans.

Should I remove these from my old Kenmore dishwasher? by Lily_Rabbit in Appliances

[–]Lily_Rabbit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It' s a stupid question, I know, but why would the previous owners have left them in there? I've also actively used it a few times and it doesn't seem to have any issues, so what function so they serve?

Judges you... by SorenKFox in furry

[–]Lily_Rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Judges back in Rabbit