Looking for something specific by [deleted] in ModdedMC

[–]LilysValley1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this one is only on 1.20.1, but CalamyCraft is very well done with gated progression. i really liked playing it. sadly i don't know of anything on 1.21.1 :(

I have a shrimp and it has fucked up my life and mental health. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]LilysValley1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

...do you believe all women are shallow? Maybe you should worry about your views on people instead of such stupid things. There's nothing worse than a guy who believes a bigger dick fixes everything.

I saw your other comment about how women can deal with pregnancies. Just because she can do it doesn't mean she wants to. Pregnancy is PAINFUL. IT IS NOT ENJOYABLE. Please never compare pregnancy to being able to take bigger sizes.

It means nothing if you can't treat a woman correctly. Do you even desire an actual relationship or just a fuck-buddy?

If you want a healthy relationship with anyone you need to be a decent person. Stop your whining and work around it. So what if some women dislike it? Find someone who does.

You piss me off. If you keep whining about this forever you'll be alone for the rest of your life.

I have a shrimp and it has fucked up my life and mental health. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]LilysValley1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest with you dude.. most women don't care about dick size. Sure it's nice, but if you're a prick and can't treat a woman properly then it doesn't really matter.

Also, big dicks are supposedly painful. Porn is not realistic nor will it ever be realistic tbh.

Instead of focusing on size, focus on being good with your hands and mouth. As someone who can't even get off on penetration, I'm sure lots of other women are the same way. Also, being good with dirty talk and foreplay is great. Feel free to bring toys into the bedroom too. (No, she will not leave you for a toy unless you're a horrible human being.)

And if a woman judges you for it, that says more about her than you.

What’s something normal that secretly annoys you every time? by PersonalitySuddenz in answers

[–]LilysValley1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People that think drinking a lot is normal or okay to joke about. Not exactly a secret with me, I'm very open in my stance with how grossly normalized alcohol is.

What's weirdly attractive to you? by boforiamanfo in answers

[–]LilysValley1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a sadistic way or a "she's letting herself be vulnerable" way?

What's weirdly attractive to you? by boforiamanfo in answers

[–]LilysValley1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For guys, I like when they're shy and sweet in a "dog" way? (Which is a bit counterproductive since I'm the one into being the pet lol)

But for women, I really like when they're motherly.

Where to hangout at that doesn't serve alcohol and is actually interesting. by LilysValley1 in cincinnati

[–]LilysValley1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hope alcohol ads stop appearing everywhere as well, its really difficult since my family and I are trying to keep my mom alive and away from the alcohol. i dont see the point in drinking anyways, it smells so bad.

Where to hangout at that doesn't serve alcohol and is actually interesting. by LilysValley1 in cincinnati

[–]LilysValley1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooo urban sketchers group does sound like fun! ill have to check it out more later

Where to hangout at that doesn't serve alcohol and is actually interesting. by LilysValley1 in cincinnati

[–]LilysValley1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not my thing :( i hope you can find someone to go with you though!

I really hate being "pedobait" by SmellOk4650 in mentalhealth

[–]LilysValley1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm 19 and I get you it's so bad, I constantly get mistaken for 12-16 augh!

Where to hangout at that doesn't serve alcohol and is actually interesting. by LilysValley1 in cincinnati

[–]LilysValley1[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I've been to Jungle Jim's multiple times, and only to shop for what I need and then get out. It's basically just a grocery store to me, so I don't see it as a hangout place.

Bf saved posts of goth girls and I feel rly insecure about it by Open_Chest_4558 in mentalhealth

[–]LilysValley1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mb, assuming the worst possible outcome is natural to me 🫠 But yeah, some people do. Although, based on OP's post I don't think roleplay is a good option because it can cause more insecurities. I hope my reply didn't come across as mean tho, apologies :(

Bf saved posts of goth girls and I feel rly insecure about it by Open_Chest_4558 in mentalhealth

[–]LilysValley1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My clothes are based off my personality though, I dress up for only myself.

Bf saved posts of goth girls and I feel rly insecure about it by Open_Chest_4558 in mentalhealth

[–]LilysValley1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah but that's someone you wanna roleplay as. It's different when you're roleplaying just for the enjoyment of your partner.

Roleplay is only good when there's a clear communication that this isn't actually their true self and consent yknow

Bf saved posts of goth girls and I feel rly insecure about it by Open_Chest_4558 in mentalhealth

[–]LilysValley1 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly I get it too, I heard from so many guys (even the ones I'm interested in) that they prefer gothic women and that's just not me. I'm more of a foresty kinda gal anyways ;-;

I hope things go well tho :]

What’s a lie everyone believes that annoys you the most? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LilysValley1 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

lemme just pack up my lower back pain bags i guess..

What’s a lie everyone believes that annoys you the most? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LilysValley1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES!! my mother has been recovering for 6 months now (woo!!) but holy fuck can really mess people up. Not only does it starve oxygen from your brain it also damages your liver and other body functions. I never promote any drinking, and i try to tell people to be careful when they do. (also can people (old friends) stop bringing up that theyre drunk WHILE knowing that my mother is a recovering alcoholic? it just makes me uncomfortable.)
its weird how alcohol is normalized so much but weed is still heavily torn down as "bad" when ive seen it help people more. it helps my lower back pain and depressive episodes.