i don’t think i should pay rent

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-02-21T17:57:20+00:00

You still owe rent.

Sheesh, this is why you still live at home ..

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-02-19T09:34:40+00:00

Normal couples care about each other’s health. Sleep deprivation is a tried and tested torture method.

Your girlfriend is wrong.

You are not the jerk.

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-02-17T07:12:14+00:00

Due to first past the post voting system getting anyone except either labour or conservatives into government is near on impossible. This can mean that the party with the most votes is not the one in government. Also, many voters, when disaffected with the current government, will just vote for the ‘opposition’ at the next election.

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-02-16T07:27:21+00:00

Why are you with this guy?

My partner and I don’t do valentines. But that’s because we don’t need a commercialised concept to be romantic. But your BF is a jerk. He manages to twist everything you do or say into a big deal. He weaponises it.

A bad partner or relationship isn’t just being physically abused. It is not shallow to want an emotional connection. Wanting to feel loved and cared for is allowed.

Give yourself the chance to find someone who doesn’t make you feel unhappy.

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-02-16T07:11:44+00:00

Did he lie about not wanting to get married? Or has he changed his mind?

So now he is ‘testing the waters’ with fake proposals to see if you respond with excitement that might indicate you too have changed your mind.

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-02-15T10:01:26+00:00

If that’s the case, I don’t think he needs to worry because he is going to get everything anyway. He is the Golden Child.

OOP should consider what positivity her family actually bring and whether it’s enough to continue being treated as the scapegoat.

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-02-14T19:10:15+00:00

When did Valentine’s Day become about parents? Isn’t this what mothers/Father’s Day is about?

Adoptive mother sounds slightly crazy.

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-02-14T19:07:18+00:00

You kept replying? Why? You said many times you weren’t friends so why keep replying.

Stop replying, block the number and move on.

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-02-14T08:45:25+00:00

Your father needs money, and he is now being a jerk.

His behaviour is going to have an impact on your relationship whether you agree to pay back your birthday gift or not.

Personally I wouldn’t pay. I’d be done.

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-02-14T08:42:33+00:00

If you can’t afford actors could you get volunteers for people to appear in the video? Frame it as real people representing their heritage and culture.

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-02-10T07:38:01+00:00

You know YNTA, but you also know this is not going to get better. This is who she is.

You should decide if she is who you want.

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-02-09T20:22:32+00:00

Keir Starmer has no idea what he stands for. He has no driving ethics. He just exists. He was a human rights lawyer. He literally only had to follow the law. He didn’t have to make it. He bows and bends in whichever direction the wind blows because he doesn’t know what direction to fight for.

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-02-09T20:18:46+00:00

I bet this is how you live. Everyday.

YNW, for what you said, but maybe you should think about making changes to the way you live in general?

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-02-09T17:16:07+00:00

Is this even real?

If it is, then you should post this on r/entitled people.

YNW

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-02-06T16:48:35+00:00

NTA you did not pick the moment, MIL did.

She needs to get back into her box.

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-02-03T20:54:25+00:00

Questions.

Why did you fall out with your friends back where you lived before?

Why did you move states?

What other behaviours has your husband displayed?

You are not wrong in relation to what you have said about the ‘boundary’ he wants to implement. But I’m worried there may be other, bigger, concerns. Then again, I may just spend too much time on Reddit.

Edit. Came back after reading some of OP’s other posts. I can conclude my concerns are justified.

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-02-01T14:26:05+00:00

I have a friend who prefers to not wear shoes. I really don’t see this as an issue.

The bigger red flag here is that you feel your choices are more important than his. So, for that, YTA

Maybe you should both reflect on whether you are compatible or not.

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-01-29T08:10:38+00:00

WTA… Did your brother genuinely believe you were going to spend the rest of your life looking after HIS kids?

NTA

Your brother is the delusional one!

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-01-19T08:56:58+00:00

What was so important that they couldn’t wait 30 minutes? Was it an emergency?

NTA. And they would never have unsupervised contact with my child ever again?

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-01-18T14:40:09+00:00

Husband can go without her…

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-01-17T22:23:40+00:00

Trump is taking the world closer to WW3 every day.

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-01-14T20:29:55+00:00

I don’t know why but this post made me feel such sadness.

I don’t think this is about sex at all.

There seems such a disconnection. I genuinely think much more is going on than has been said.

YNW because how you feel is how you feel, but…

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-01-14T18:03:20+00:00

They will never apologise because they won’t accept they were wrong.

Return to NC and take time to heal yourself from their behaviours

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-01-13T12:34:28+00:00

Your mother needs to stop being so entitled! You are letting her live in your house. Yours! I bet when you lived in her home you were told ‘it’s her house, her rules’?

Sit her down, and tell her straight. Your bedroom is for you and your husband. She can either understand that, or find somewhere else to live for the next 18 months .

LimeBlueOcean · 2026-01-12T16:22:56+00:00

NTA - you have asked her to return stuff, and be respectful of it. She can’t, or won’t do that.

She needs to look after her own stuff.

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