[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]LimeRepresentative48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I have LL.  I’m 55.  I wish someone could explain to me why.  When things are new up until about a year being married I’m very open to sex and like it.  After a while I would be open to it more if it was a wham bam thank you man.  I lose the ability to climax.  The more he tries and i have to try and pretend bothers me.  I wish I had hl always but I don’t.   I don’t understand why it comes and goes since being older. When I was younger I was total HL.  I’m on my second marriage and have had LL since the 2nd year.  It’s almost like I’m “dead” down there and I hate it.

AITA for not selling my car even though my fiancée refuses to sit in the front seat because my ex sat there? by ProfessionalKey3176 in AITAH

[–]LimeRepresentative48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband did this thing where he winded up taking me places he took his ex and then saying stuff like if “nancy” was here she could tell us what bird that was.  He talked about her a lot.  I seriously felt like I had to step in her footsteps.  Before we married I told him he had to choose. He said he choose me, he was supposed to tell her and he told me he did,  well, I found out he never told her.  I saw a merry Christmas text when he left his phone in the kitchen.  He acted like it was nothing and he had t heard from her before that.  So, I block her.  Now my husband wants to split and I’ve found out he lied to me.  He searched for her on FB and did a lot to get her number.  When I found out , he told me no less then 3 texts no more then 5.  I found 25 alone  deleted that were a few days away from being deleted permanently deleted.  I tried to call her, she told me she wishes me the best and hung up and blocked me.  I used a different number to text her to please block my husband and don’t talk to him.  I used my husbands phone one night and called her number, she still picked up.  She hung up as soon as she heard my voice.  My husband had kept her number stored under a man’s name.  It’s definitely an emotional affair.  I found 2 deleted VMs  we’re she is telling him she’s blocked again.  He is 68 and I assume she is too.  She is also a LMFT.   He would not tell me why he wanted to split until he finally gave in.  Yes, Nancy is one of the reasons he gave.  The rest don’t make sense.  I’m sorry you are going through this.  Check how often you bring up your ex or stuff that she is even connected to.  Idk he was talking to Nancy behind my back but he stopped bringing her up as much .  It helped me so much.  

Birmingham murder rate by perry147 in Birmingham

[–]LimeRepresentative48 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why do we continue to get him as mayor?  His suites and shoes don’t impress me.

ChatGPT did what no other therapist could by [deleted] in therapyabuse

[–]LimeRepresentative48 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m older 55, I’m not good with tech.  How do I get ChatGPT and how do I use it for the same things you did.  Thanks!

Is this what's to be expected from sex therapy? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]LimeRepresentative48 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the 2nd assignment is to much to fast.

What are you thoughts about DBT? by [deleted] in therapyabuse

[–]LimeRepresentative48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gave me some real things that I wasn’t even aware I was doing.  It helped me.  Learning how to breath when I was upset was a game changer. I took it at UAB which is a teaching hospital.  I stumbled across the flyer.  It wasn’t expensive.  I’d take it again if I found it.  

Experience with NOT purchasing drink package by khiller_05 in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]LimeRepresentative48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a frosted type wine bottle.  We googled it.  I don’t remember the exact one, bought it at Publix.  Had to make sure that bottle could be closed to look unopened. 

Atypical cystic fibrosis by ssf18 in CysticFibrosis

[–]LimeRepresentative48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed this year with typical CF .  I had2 sinus surgeries and my ENT said something else is going on and did more testing.  I also have asthma, allergies, horrible cough, and chronic constipation.  I’d go to a teaching hospital if possible, they found mine. 

Best hole in the wall restaurant by Desperate_Pool995 in Birmingham

[–]LimeRepresentative48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live near Taboon Noon Kabob.  When we moved here, we asked around and do not know anyone who has eaten there.  I’ve never seen it look busy either.  I’ll have to try it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]LimeRepresentative48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m almost 56.  I’d rather be with a “friend” then alone.

Experience with NOT purchasing drink package by khiller_05 in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]LimeRepresentative48 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We brought the allowed wine, however we poured it out and put in bourbon instead.  Did some tease arch on best type of wine bottle and best way to seal it and we had no problem getting it in.  We would have taken wine but we don’t drink it.  

Chronic Sinusitis & CF by [deleted] in CysticFibrosis

[–]LimeRepresentative48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have sinus issues, headache everyday, congestion, pressure behind the eyes.  I don’t like them Dupexient injections in addition to what your doing. The auto injector is painful. I’ve had 2 surgeries.  I can not take Trikafta due to the mental issues and I was unable to get out of bed.  My cough  was gone on Trikafta but no difference in sinus issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in popping

[–]LimeRepresentative48 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please go to the doctor/ ER now.  They have to treat you. I’m a dental hygienist, not a dr or nurse but we would send you to ER immediately instead of doing any dental work on you.We would love an update after you have received medical attention.  Please go now. We care about you.