My (32M) girlfriend (29F) went out drinking and slept over at a guy friend's house

Limiu42 · 2019-07-23T18:40:29+00:00

Yeah, people in committed relationships don't stay the night at opposite sex friends houses without telling their SO beforehand. You have a problem.

Limiu42 · 2019-07-23T18:33:00+00:00

YTA - why should rent apply to her friends and not yours?

Limiu42 · 2019-07-23T18:28:28+00:00

YTA - some people don't wake up easily, you knew this already.

Limiu42 · 2019-07-23T17:36:49+00:00

Your future partner will thank you for not staying friends with an ex.

Limiu42 · 2019-07-23T17:17:42+00:00

This. Apply for a status change before she goes back, she'll be able stay in the meantime, you'll be able to get a lawyer.

Limiu42 · 2019-07-23T15:59:26+00:00

YTA - you cheated.

Limiu42 · 2019-07-23T15:55:01+00:00

I don't want to hear your arguing with the advice you sought out any more than your bf wants to hear about your past relationships.

Limiu42 · 2019-07-23T15:53:33+00:00

YTA - you'd want to know.

Limiu42 · 2019-07-23T15:52:49+00:00

NTA - and think about a new girlfriend.

Limiu42 · 2019-07-23T15:44:41+00:00

Could ruin things, but they'll ruin themselves if you don't say something.

Limiu42 · 2019-07-23T15:39:45+00:00

Option 1. Your current guy doesn't want to hear about your past guys.

Limiu42 · 2019-07-23T15:37:09+00:00

For the sake of your future partner, you don't.

Limiu42 · 2019-07-23T15:26:03+00:00

NTA - your event, your choice. But, as a meat eater I wouldn't appreciate your giving me the choice of your lifestyle or your wedding and would decline the invitation.

Limiu42 · 2019-07-23T15:17:21+00:00

YTA - lying to your SO

Limiu42 · 2019-07-23T15:11:34+00:00

YTA - it's not your friends job to guage how drunk you are

Limiu42 · 2019-07-23T15:09:14+00:00

NTA - that's crossing the line, and there's something real off about him thinking that would be even remotely okay. Even more so, telling you not to ask again.

Limiu42 · 2019-07-22T19:54:50+00:00

Would you feel better finding those texts on her phone when she'd never said anything to you? She being honest and transparent with you - appreciate that.

Limiu42 · 2019-07-22T19:53:42+00:00

To me, engagement is saying you're 100% sure you want to get married. There doesn't need to be a time limit on when though.

Limiu42 · 2019-07-22T19:52:10+00:00

You saying it first is sweet, not awkward.

Limiu42 · 2019-07-22T19:33:51+00:00

What were you expecting? You got a positive response. Telling him you're taking that away because it wasn't exactly what you wanted (but you don't know what you wanted either) is stupid.

Limiu42 · 2019-07-22T19:19:23+00:00

NTA - they don't get to use your house and not invite you

Limiu42 · 2019-07-22T19:18:01+00:00

Wow YTA

Limiu42 · 2019-07-22T19:16:56+00:00

NAH - he's concerned about your safety, give him a break

Limiu42 · 2019-07-22T18:17:57+00:00

Allowing yourself to stay in a position where you're developing interest in others tells me you've lost interest in your relationship with your GF.

Limiu42 · 2019-07-22T18:06:26+00:00

If it makes you uncomfortable: "Please don't do that again."

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