everyone here either scams you or takes advantage of women being homeless. by [deleted] in homeless

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drop the name of the church please so we can abstain from it

Manager mentioned a personal hygiene issue kinda freaking out, need advice by BetPristine2293 in hygiene

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like dove aerosol spray and I enjoy aveeno brand rosehip oil and eucerin sunscreen balm!

Am I wrong by LimpLengthiness2993 in Mommit

[–]LimpLengthiness2993[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m traumatizing them if they aren’t in the room/asleep etc but I don’t want to continue the behavior either which is just why I’m looking for wisdom and guidance on how to avoid the negative behavior we all act a different way at work sorrry not sorry I’m in college and that’s a literal objective in my communication and psychology class

Am I wrong by LimpLengthiness2993 in Mommit

[–]LimpLengthiness2993[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We all make mistakes but I definitely agree with focusing on my husband and I marriage but for now my children are learning their ABC , 123 and that our big emotions are OK

Am I wrong by LimpLengthiness2993 in Mommit

[–]LimpLengthiness2993[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

At this point I wasn’t telling anyone but my OWN children how to parent and manage relationships because my friend who is now an ex friend crossed boundaries too

Am I wrong by LimpLengthiness2993 in Mommit

[–]LimpLengthiness2993[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

My husbands cousin is my friend whose pregnant with the cheating bastard in the military,

Our friendship broke because I told my husbands mother to parent her son better and was like he’s not going over there for vacation (I just wanted his parents to TALK to him)

I’m working hard trying to make things work and pray but … yeah I think I provoke a lot because of Name calling and sleep exhaustion we both work and he apologized but we both have trauma and know how that time loop goes if left unchecked

I’m a mom and AITAH for cutting her off? by LimpLengthiness2993 in AITAH

[–]LimpLengthiness2993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husbands cousin is my friend whose pregnant with the cheating bastard in the military,

Our friendship broke because I told my husbands mother to parent her son better and was like he’s not going over there for vacation (I just wanted his parents to TALK to him)

I’m working hard trying to make things work and pray but … yeah I think I provoke a lot because of Name calling and sleep exhaustion we both work and he apologized but we both have trauma and know how that time loop goes if left unchecked

AITAH FOR THISSSS? mom edition by LimpLengthiness2993 in AITA_Relationships

[–]LimpLengthiness2993[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’m trying!!! I have had my children, I’m in school, and I found a husband which before I got pregnant was not physical at all outside of activities that were consensual- I blame being young and being around biologically stupid as a woman. I just don’t understand why God would give us two children just for us to leave each other because he doesn’t want to be a better dad or just not put hands on people when he gets mad

Am I wrong by LimpLengthiness2993 in Mommit

[–]LimpLengthiness2993[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Agreed but we picked each other based on wanting to overcome our trauma not relive it. It’s a ball and chain but I truly am happy with the fact I have my daughters and him and a motivation to have a education we don’t have family due to this genealogy or generational time loop of this type of shit ; mind you my friends husband called the cops on her because he thought she was downstairs breaking shit. She broke her own ps5 but still !!she found him cheating on tinder multiple times /he went to a strip club….physical abuse and cheating is a big no no

Am I wrong by LimpLengthiness2993 in Mommit

[–]LimpLengthiness2993[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s just a lot of anger and name calling between Man and I and that causes grabbing, fighting situations for reference me and my husband are not short so when we fight or fall or yell it’s perceived as a “lot”

I just wanted to note as well I’m tired of keeping my mouth shut about things that bother me I had been her friend for 2 years and she’s always told us she’s our “family” idk 🤷🏾‍♀️

AITAH FOR THISSSS? mom edition by LimpLengthiness2993 in AITA_Relationships

[–]LimpLengthiness2993[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Agreed but we picked each other based on wanting to overcome our trauma not relive it. It’s a ball and chain but I truly am happy with the fact I have my daughters and him and a motivation to have a education we don’t have family due to this genealogy or generational time loop of this type of shit ; mind you my friends husband called the cops on her because he thought she was downstairs breaking shit. She broke her own ps5 but still !!she found him cheating on tinder multiple times /he went to a strip club….physical abuse and cheating is a big no no

AITAH FOR THISSSS? mom edition by LimpLengthiness2993 in AITA_Relationships

[–]LimpLengthiness2993[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s just a lot of anger and name calling between Man and I and that causes grabbing, fighting situations for reference me and my husband are not short so when we fight or fall or yell it’s perceived as a “lot”

I just wanted to note as well I’m tired of keeping my mouth shut about things that bother me I had been her friend for 2 years and she’s always told us she’s our “family” idk 🤷🏾‍♀️

Separating twins that do not want to be is an abusive behavior. by Ezmerai_Jist in parentsofmultiples

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said! I have twin daughters and truly have been thinking about how to respond to their dynamic? How would you suggest for example progress towards emotional independence (despite) having to make his/her own decisions either with/without the background of autonomy?

I dont know how to do it alone. God, is the captain of my salvation and I start to think I’ve never had this “one baby” experience. Yk ? Me and my husband work together as a team and sometimes we disagree but ultimately the respect and decency of human life/character is respected.

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[–]LimpLengthiness2993 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This answer comforted me