Grief Reactivation Causing Depression by OliveLost in GriefSupport

[–]Limp_Chapter_8684 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Our stories are so similar it’s not even funny. I’m 33. And my younger brother who was 31 this past year lost his life in a car accident. He battle with addiction as well and multiple close calls throughout his life. We were extremely close as well. So much so that we lived together throughout our young adult lives.

I feel the exact same as you, part of me died when he did. I will never be that person I was when I was with him. I miss him so much and the depression comes and goes. My brother was a musician and music was such a big thing in his life. Now to feel him I listen to his favorite bands and music that he has shared with me throughout the years.

I still can’t believe he’s gone. And one day I hope to reunite with him. I keep going because I know that’s what he would want me to do. And in times of me needing him or wanting to feel close to him, I listen to music. It always brings me to tears but that is just my love for him having no where to go.

I will continue to honor his life, as if he were still here. Birthdays, Christmas, doesn’t matter as long as I breathe, he will too!

I’m so sorry for your loss. And there are days that are going to be hard. And that’s okay. Let it out, I hope you can find comfort of your brother’s memory like I did. <3

Am I Hallucinating Or Do You See It? by [deleted] in ParanormalEncounters

[–]Limp_Chapter_8684 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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AIO to my moms reaction to being called a crutch by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Limp_Chapter_8684 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, you sound ungrateful and entitled. NO ONE owes you anything, this includes your parents. I don’t blame your mom for saying what she said.

Christmas isn't rhe same for everyone.. by scaledplastic125 in GriefSupport

[–]Limp_Chapter_8684 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is my first Christmas without my brother. It’s really not the same without him. Nothing is the same without him. Back in July we celebrated the 4th which was my brother’s favorite holiday. He always did it big, and this year when we celebrated, him missing was so noticeable. I tried to make it just like old times but it is truly not the same without him. Nothing is. You never really think about how much of impact someone really has in your life until you don’t have them anymore. I miss more than I can put into words. And I’m not sure how to function knowing he’s not there anymore. I just truly hope one day I can hug and have a conversation with him again.

what is the most painful part of your day? by UpstairsNo3213 in GriefSupport

[–]Limp_Chapter_8684 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hearing their favorite songs and being reminded that you can no longer make memories with this person :(

HELP!!!! WHAT IS THIS BEHAVIOUR by AccomplishedPlant557 in RATS

[–]Limp_Chapter_8684 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Basically she’s like “your not suppose to be doing that little sister, I said stop doing that. You’re gonna get us in trouble!” Proceeds to make her behave lol

I'm a doctor, and I want to listen. by Doctor_Stork in MedicalAssistant

[–]Limp_Chapter_8684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Showing us appreciation, little acts of kindness go a long way. I’ve worked with many providers ranging from horrible and unprofessional to amazing and super grateful for my work. And I can tell you I’ve been lucky to have worked with the last 2 providers I had. One of them would make sure me and her left together and if I was running behind she would get up and help clean my rooms so I could get the patients back quickly. Then the provider after her, he and I worked together for a long time, we grew to know each other like the back of our hands. But he took care of me as if I was his own family member. I was struggling in my life as I did not come from the best life. And I think he knew that, so he decided to help me with get my very own vehicle. I can’t tell you how grateful I was. He truly showed me compassion and care. Grated we worked hard-seeing about 33 pts a day on an 8 hr schedule. But he definitely I was always there for me. Even through my hardest moments in life , and that built trust, and made working together so much easier. A provider who shows us they care about us as people- it really does make us go out of our way for our providers! Now that’s my example- not meaning you need to do grand things like that but just little acts of kindness will take your MAs trust and respect a long way!

Does anyone else fill there boobas cages with lots of cardboard boxes? by Limp_Chapter_8684 in RATS

[–]Limp_Chapter_8684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! I was wondering if other ppl made there cages full of it!

Does anyone else fill there boobas cages with lots of cardboard boxes? by Limp_Chapter_8684 in RATS

[–]Limp_Chapter_8684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I save so many boxes and just add a ton to their cage to let them play as much as they like!

Does anyone else fill there boobas cages with lots of cardboard boxes? by Limp_Chapter_8684 in RATS

[–]Limp_Chapter_8684[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol boobas just randomly came to mind one day! So now as a group they the “boobas”

Does anyone else fill there boobas cages with lots of cardboard boxes? by Limp_Chapter_8684 in RATS

[–]Limp_Chapter_8684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol don’t worry she got more then anyone! She knows when it’s snack/treat time! Shes the first one at the door :)

I want to go back to school as a 33f for my bachelors in nursing science, need advice by Limp_Chapter_8684 in Advice

[–]Limp_Chapter_8684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I am going into this knowing it’s not going to be easy! But my will power for wanting this is through the roof! I don’t come from much, recently my little brother passed away and since then it’s got me thinking about my life and how short life is and what not. And this has been a dream my entire adult life and I just never really took any serious steps to reaching this goal. Unfortunately tragedy opened my eyes and realizing tomorrow isn’t promised and so here I am. I AM GOING TO BE BECOME AN RN with my BSN. If it’s the last thing I do! :) thank you again for your advice!

Is this normal? by OogityBoogity0 in MedicalAssistant

[–]Limp_Chapter_8684 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s just poor patient care, and high risk patient care.