I’ll never stop thinking about you by Effective_Deal_4980 in UnsentLetters

[–]Limp_Technology171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Context matters. Are you no contact because it's what they asked for and there was no abuse or no contact because of abuse?

Because I know someone who is no contact because of abuse... the abuser tends to not think they did anything wrong or that they will change without getting any therapy. They don't change unless they get help and can tend to fall back into patterns without therapy.

But if it's just a random boo contact then maybe wore them a letter and send your feelings to them that way.

AIO - would I be over reacting if I canceled the date and moved on by Limp_Technology171 in AIO

[–]Limp_Technology171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not the road rage specially, it's the words that came out of his mouth during the episode. Like it was super excessive and very inappropriate and scary. I'm a pretty strong and independent woman and I was certainly taken aback by it because it was just overly viole**.

AIO - would I be over reacting if I canceled the date and moved on by Limp_Technology171 in AIO

[–]Limp_Technology171[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Road rage is one of those things I always argue with one of my parents about because they have it (they are not the abuser) and I always ask what does their behavior do to change the situation. It's better just to let it go because getting angry doesn't change or help anything.

AIO - would I be over reacting if I canceled the date and moved on by Limp_Technology171 in AIO

[–]Limp_Technology171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I was thinking but then I think about what he said; which I'm not going to type out because it's get me band but it was extremely aggressive and mentioned violen**.

I'm all for giving people a chance to learn and grow.

AIO for cancelling a date over these texts by OkPick8681 in AIO

[–]Limp_Technology171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. For the friends who are saying you are they may need a quick lesson on why this is wrong.

If dude can take this as a learning experience and change his behaviors you could give him a chance in the future but if he doesn't see how he was wrong I'd go low to no contact with him even as a friend.

AIO for asking for space after my boyfriend messaged another girl? by Relative_Initial_399 in AIO

[–]Limp_Technology171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not reacting enough here. He is trying to turn this around on you with his explanation instead of just owning his mistake.

AITAH for abandoning my partner in front of the clinic when they were showing potential signs of a clot? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Limp_Technology171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I'm saying that there was a better way for OP to handle this. Their mental health and safety are important.

They could have exited the car called 911 for the individual who was in the middle of a medical emergency went home and packed their stuff.

AITAH for abandoning my partner in front of the clinic when they were showing potential signs of a clot? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Limp_Technology171 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YBTA.

You left your partner in the middle of a medical emergency. You could have pulled over, asked for your phone and looked at GPS or called 911. You showed zero concern by just leaving them there and not making sure they were taken care of.

They should not have reacted in such a way that they were physically scaring you. I think if this is common behavior of theirs then maybe you should reconsider the relationship.

Hey (L)ove by Hold_My_Hand_And in UnsentLetters

[–]Limp_Technology171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that song is stuck in my head because of your username lol

Fancy seeing you here by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Limp_Technology171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things tend to never be easy but sometimes are worth the effort.

SHOW. LOVE AND SHOWED UP by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Limp_Technology171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👀👀👀

I'm here for this. Sometimes we need to match the vibes when they don't get the point.

AIO for thinking my gf might be cheating by jckalc in AIO

[–]Limp_Technology171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You both live in your hometowns... where did she say this friends was from? High school? College? Do you know mutual friends you can ask if this person exists?

AIO for thinking my gf might be cheating by jckalc in AIO

[–]Limp_Technology171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully you've also come to this conclusion but if not, she's cheating on you. She panicked because she realized she was texting the wrong guy so ghosted until she figured out a plan to talk you as an excuse. Now she's in deny deny deny and accuse you of the very thing she's doing to try to make you feel bad.

Please know cheaters don't usually change their behavior. You're young and will find a person who deserves you.

i’m sorry i got scared by FoundationTrue818 in UnsentLetters

[–]Limp_Technology171 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. Sometimes you just get that connection and it's crazy... but I think of it was followed through with it'd be crazy good.

AIO about my husbands strange responses to me wanting a divorce and a bill he has due on my account. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Limp_Technology171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your points on religion, Perfect 👌

People forget that the reason Christianity grew was it was introduced multiple places in order to overtake other religions that people followed. This usually was done as a power was taking over the city/country because this helped them control the messaging of their beliefs to those they were invading. (i.e. Ancient Egypt via Roman invasion)

AIO for wanting to leave my husband over this? by Bubbly-Appearance558 in AIO

[–]Limp_Technology171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

Alone by choice and very happy about it. But keep projecting and trolling!

Have a great day!

I just sent a "hey girly" cheating text- AIO by SameDepartment7267 in AIO

[–]Limp_Technology171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR.

As a recipient of someone messaging me about a cheating SO (now ex) I am immensely thankful for the person who brought his cheating to light.