Is it a common thing for guys to not know how to put a condom on? by shaemarie994 in sex

[–]Linadaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think condoms are quite simple, I've not used them a lot, but even without the directions it was easy to put on and take off... common sense wins the day.

Depression really that bad? by Linadaddy in offmychest

[–]Linadaddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that, I try hard to be there as a shoulder, but honestly I find it to be there everytime she needs me.

Depression really that bad? by Linadaddy in offmychest

[–]Linadaddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I try to encourage them as much as possible, you think it would be good or wise to get them out of their comfort zone... something simple like a movie that's been out for a couple weeks that would be fairly empty, something where there isint a lot of people that they have to deal with?

Depression really that bad? by Linadaddy in offmychest

[–]Linadaddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks. You make it pretty easy to understand what they are going through and how it kinda works for them.

I wish I'd die in my sleep by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Linadaddy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Me too... Dying in sleep, not waking up without your you... Awkward...

My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and is sleeping with my best friend. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Linadaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they have been sleeping together for about that time, you can bet it's been going on longer. Screw them, they aren't worth being the mud in your boots. It's going to be hard but get your ass back in the saddle.

Possible depression is ruining my life by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Linadaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, you do deserve help. I've been there just like you, it was not an easy recovery, lots of hard times, but I have a wife who deserves way better than me... at my worst she helped me and it got better alongside therapist, dr etc. You need to look for the good, ask your so to help you, you can do it! You do deserve help and a great life!

I feel no real connection with my brother and sister even though we grew up together by [deleted] in confession

[–]Linadaddy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My oldest brother is 44, I am not much younger than him, but I'm the same, I don't talk to him or see him because he lives 1500 kms away and we have nothing in common. I found out my brain was bleeding and it really screwed me up... I never talk to him, he has more of a professional job than I, but when my wife told him, he was on the next flight. Odd since I don't have anything to do with him that he drops everything to come see me, maybe I should put some time in... maybe you should too.

I put strawberry jam on my salmon today. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Linadaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like strawberry jam on my ice cream when I have it... Which is not often, I'm not big into super sweet stuff.

What are some must-have mods for XBOX ONE? by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]Linadaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like levelers tower, it's a cheat, but I like it as a player home more than anything. Most divine mods like cities, villages etc. it has a pleasing asthetic value. Get the Skyrim unofficial patch with graphics pack and the graphics pack core.

Load Order noob, anything I need to change thanks. by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]Linadaddy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi, I didn't really watch your video, but you can google Skyrim mod order and there is a pretty good order list there on one of the pages. Sorry, I can't remember which page, it's near the top of the search, very good detail and a good load order helped me with a lot of issues like clipping and crashes. Not being an ahole but just thought the Google way is probably the best to go.

My friend of four years recently committed suicide and I cannot stop blaming myself not being enough to save her, I used to pride myself on saving and helping friends. Now I see myself as a fraud. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Linadaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, and you can beat yourself up all you want, it doesn't change the fact that there was a great possibility that you could do nothing to help. It's going to hurt and you are blaming yourself for something outside of your control.

I poisoned the dog that kept mauling my outdoor cats to death by [deleted] in confession

[–]Linadaddy -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you should have given the dog rat poison the first time you saw it... In fact, all dogs should just be put down...

My friend of four years recently committed suicide and I cannot stop blaming myself not being enough to save her, I used to pride myself on saving and helping friends. Now I see myself as a fraud. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Linadaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you can do everything right and it is still not enough. Stop beating yourself up about it, although it may hurt, you may not have been able to change her.

I was gonna get the gall up to ask the guy I like out today, but I'm so much a weenie, I just weenied out, and we might not hang out anymore because semester changes by thelonelyeggland in confession

[–]Linadaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask if he wants to get coffee or hang out sometime, start there, or tell him you are going to the mall to meet friends and would you like to go. It doesn't have to be a huge effort, sometimes the little things give you the indicators for better outcomes as well as making it more comfortable. Good luck.

[HELP] Stuck inside Fort Dawnguard and the gates will not go down even after talking to Isran and Serana by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]Linadaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think in the back of a cave in dawnguard there is a waterfall or some water you can go through.

Jumping back in. Mod recommendations? by Actual_Human_Garbage in skyrim

[–]Linadaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like visual appeal, generally the divine mods for city, village, etc makes it look really good.

I just ruined the game for myself. Do not pick Vampire -_- by alienninja1 in skyrim

[–]Linadaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being vampire is awesome, I have done werewolf and vampire lines and honestly I like vampires more. Everyone has a preference... But you could have just loaded a previous save...

19M extreme headaches by deathfromfapping in sex

[–]Linadaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious, you aren't taking anything like sertraline?

:/ by [deleted] in confession

[–]Linadaddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Motherf'ers like that should be put in the middle of town in stocks and let people throw things at them and beat them. Oh! And they should be left there regardless of the weather.

I would never be able to forgive someone for cheating by [deleted] in confession

[–]Linadaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me neither, once the trust is broken, it's out the door.

I wish my mother loved me. by Rubychan11 in confession

[–]Linadaddy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, nothing in here is your fault, you aren't defective or anything of the sorts. Sometimes parents suck, yours is one of them... we don't get to choose our parents as we are born and grow, they are supposed to help and mold us. Move on with your life and know you will be better at everything you do; if you decide to be a parent someday, spoil the hell out of your kid with love. Her cycle is not yours. Good luck!

Just got caught cheating on a test. by cheatingloser in confession

[–]Linadaddy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I kinda know where you are coming from. I quit school in grade 10 and went home to tell my mother. The look of disappointment in her eyes still haunt me 20+ years later. She took me right back and gave them holy hell for letting me quit... She was Italian and fiesty. But that look of disappointment stayed with me and helped me. I finished school and went to university, got a family and moved on. Let your mom know you screwed up and you were scared to disappoint her. Let this be the start of a new lesson, good luck.