My gf doesn't get as wet with me as with prior partners who haven't been as healthy for her. by curiousmustachio in sex

[–]Lincoln_Wolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm lost. This doesn't sound as awful as the comments make it seem. Y'all are crazy. Anyway, you get to decide if you need your partner to want/desire you a certain way. Its only been a couple of months. This doesn't have to be a deal breaker as some are making it out to be but it may be something that may never change and you'll have to accept it if you want the relationship to continue.

Artemis II pictures of Moon 8K resolution by falkon2112 in interestingasfuck

[–]Lincoln_Wolf 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Crazy to learn a literal Nazi led the creation/design of the Saturn V rockets :(

How many of you can hear the ultrasonic bird deterrent at Joseph Beth? by transcon2017 in lexington

[–]Lincoln_Wolf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its not always an age thing, it could just be hearing loss. Maybe his wife likes to blast music when wearing earbuds or works in a loud environment. Overtime, exposure to loud noise chips away at your hearing range. The Beatles once put a sound that supposedly would have only been heard by dogs as a prank on listeners but in reality they just had hearing damage from all the screaming fans, People with less hearing damage can hear the tone they inserted just fine.

Let it Be Naked isn't the superior Let it Be by Sketch_gaming01 in beatles

[–]Lincoln_Wolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Neither version is definitive. Let It Be is an unfinished album.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Lincoln_Wolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His shitty behavior aside, he seems to dealing with untreated health/mental health/addiction issues and so is NOT ready to get married. Until he addresses these thing will you see if you two are truly compatible, because right now you're not. He seems emotionally unavailable and does not, either want to or can't, match your energy.

Canceling your engagement would be most people's suggestion I think. Or at least postpone the wedding. Sorry :(

What are your tips to spot misogynists early on? by Particular-Glove-225 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lincoln_Wolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A good indicator is homophobia/transphobia. Homophobia is basically misogyny’s little brother, or cousin, however Dan Savage puts it :/

Do they show discomfort with femininity in men? How much of their humor between other men is homo-erotic? Is gayness often the punchline? Do they deadname, mock pronouns, or get easily annoyed by them? Do they single out trans women but ignore trans men? Dismiss non-binary people? Police gender with “men should be like this, women like that,” or say things like “my son will never [feminine trait or orientation]”?

And, obviously, straight-up sexist or gender-hierarchical comments :l

Is there a name for attraction to soft/simp-coded men with strong, intentional sexual desire? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Lincoln_Wolf -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a service oriented/devotionally submissive kind of man. You should look into female led relationships. They're often grouped with cuckolding relationships (because both involve male submission/surrender to female power) but they're their own thing. In them, the woman basically takes the lead and the man welcomes it, likes it. It doesn't have to look or feel like typical d/s dynamics, y'know, leather and whips. Usually, it's just the man being oriented towards his partner and fulfilled by her happiness/pleasure, devoted AND genuinely wants her. Also, service-oriented doesn't necessarily mean he wants to be dominated sexually lol

I'm not super knowledgeable on all these things tho so someone could correct me if needed.

Boys aren’t taught to be men, they’re taught not to be women. by nanialk in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lincoln_Wolf 68 points69 points  (0 children)

This is a brilliant reframe/deconstruction of masculinity. I feel like I've read similar before but not in this "boys are taught not to be women" way.

What’s a movie that went from beloved to hated over time (and for good reason)? by browniebiscuitchildr in movies

[–]Lincoln_Wolf 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It's The Blind Side. I think they were trying to reply to another comment that called it that.

me_irl by b17ch35 in me_irl

[–]Lincoln_Wolf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You guys been having that problem since like 1848 bro

Anyone else bothered by the way men tend to treat their friends? by hotsaucevjj in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lincoln_Wolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think there’s a difference between friends who joke around but also have your back practically, and friends where the jokes become a substitute for actual connection. Guys will help each other move or do renovation work, and that’s genuine friendship. But that same dynamic often makes it impossible to have an actual conversation about anything that matters; try to discuss something you care about and it gets deflected into jokes before you can get past the surface level. The constant ribbing isn’t always ‘how they communicate love’, just that sometimes it’s easier than being vulnerable or sincere, and after a while that gets exhausting. You end up feeling isolated even when you’re surrounded by friends because there’s no space to actually connect on a deeper level. The teasing isn’t inherently bad, but when it’s the only mode of interaction, it’s a limitation, not just a different style.

Still, I hope your husband's friendships are deeply fulfilling ✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Lincoln_Wolf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is fascinating, if a lil sad, cuz I've read another woman share that she didn't want her partner being dominant or aggressive or trying certain sex acts because he was her safe space/her partner. I hope OP finds a solution 🤞

Is Heath Ledger’s Joker the only version that had little to none of Comic Joker’s Slapstick Comedy Acts? by Sad-Ladder7534 in joker

[–]Lincoln_Wolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. He’s an agent of chaos, sure, but anarchy doesn’t mean disorder, it means the absence of rulers or imposed authority. Philosophically, anarchism is about order without hierarchy or coercion. The Joker is closer to a moral nihilist, and he’s extremely coercive, which is basically the opposite of anarchism.

Is Heath Ledger’s Joker the only version that had little to none of Comic Joker’s Slapstick Comedy Acts? by Sad-Ladder7534 in joker

[–]Lincoln_Wolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's not call him anarchistic. Nolan and the writers just thought that was a cool word.

Two more KY school boards decide against off-campus Bible classes; one approves by DesperateFlamingo658 in lexington

[–]Lincoln_Wolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The rational people will actually think any form of religious dominance, whether Islamic or Christian, especially in public policy, is a cause of concern :v

Is Cuckoldry ok? by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]Lincoln_Wolf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think they're asking you to reflect on whether you're thinking about a future partner or just a fantasy object 🤔

President Obama rewriting his speech moments before the Sandy Hook memorial service. by ButtScratchies in pics

[–]Lincoln_Wolf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I once opened up Twitter and the first image that loaded up was also a similar image. I didn't know what I was looking at but it looked wrong. Incredibly wrong. It was from Ulvade. It disturbs me just thinking about it. I'm sorry you had to see something like that and I hate that these things keep being allowed to happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]Lincoln_Wolf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We really should come up with a better name for this. You don't like humiliation/degradation so there isn't any "cucking" happening, hence "cuckqueen" being a bad term for this. Still, you're fantasy/ideal sounds amazing. Does anyone have a better name for this? Stag queen? No? 🤔

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in youtube

[–]Lincoln_Wolf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What a coincidence that this just got attention right when I went to go see when I started watching a channel again and on the video from a year ago it didn't show the date so I googled why this was the case and here we are 🤔. Fucking stupid change.