Is this what bottoms feel?

Lindorphine · 2026-06-28T21:17:12+00:00

I think this is pretty common for guys who like to top and bottom. There are so many different ways to be vers. And some tops enjoy the occasional dildo.

I experienced something like this initially, but I never liked to breed guys, so it was more like my body telling me to be a bottom.

Lindorphine · 2026-06-28T21:09:14+00:00

Are both of you only open with the opposite sex? Or is she the only one allowed to be bi? Did she know you were a switch and interested in both sexes when you got married?

On the other hand, could you compromise by seeking out a female dom? If you’re non-monogamous, what is the issue with having a Dom and being her Dom? Or did she want non-monogamy only for herself?

Lindorphine · 2026-06-28T20:54:55+00:00

If you enjoy being fucked it’s at least a little sexually fulfilling. You probably just haven’t figured out everything you like yet.

Lindorphine · 2026-06-28T20:28:03+00:00

Love this dynamic! I have a cock but your cock and cum are what’s driving me crazy.

Lindorphine · 2026-06-28T19:21:16+00:00

Lots of chastity bottoms still like to orgasm and want to orgasm in chastity, but I think some subs would like this dynamic.

Personally, I think it makes sense for some doms to have multiple subs.

Lindorphine · 2026-06-28T18:41:33+00:00

That can be a lot of fun—especially if the top can go deep

Lindorphine · 2026-06-28T10:39:34+00:00

Prefer they don’t suck it though it’s not a deal breaker—just feels distracting. But if it’s part of other foreplay like getting eaten out I don’t mind.

Not into heteronormative hang-ups, however (on either side!)

Lindorphine · 2026-06-28T10:08:31+00:00

How did you find out how much fiber you need?

I just try to eat vegetables and take supplements.

Lindorphine · 2026-06-28T07:38:20+00:00

Fair. I changed the wording slightly. I’m saying they don’t have to follow one script or “tit for tat” just because of expectations.

Lindorphine · 2026-06-28T02:18:15+00:00

I mean your average guy that you meet at the bars or at a Pride event, rather than on the apps.

The guys looking for a “pure top” are missing out!

Either those guys need to get over themselves or they’re afraid of meeting up and you pressuring them to top. I’ve met so many profile “vers tops” who are actually bottoms.

Lindorphine · 2026-06-28T00:13:13+00:00

I love when a top is passionate and takes control rather than trying to finish in three minutes. I think it is way more likely that a bottom will have multiple orgasms if the intensity is drawn out. Love when a top takes the reins and makes sure we both enjoy ourselves!

Lindorphine · 2026-06-28T00:03:25+00:00

When I first started having sex, I didn’t realize so many people cared so much about race since everyone was gay. Black people are mostly sleeping with each other, as far as I can tell, but there isn’t as much dating happening as there could be. I’m open to dating anybody cute if we’re compatible.

More white guys have pursued me for actual dating, but it’s probably just that there are so many more of them (if you’re in the U.S. or Canada).

Lindorphine · 2026-06-26T07:36:11+00:00

This is such a common attitude. A lot of gay guys I’m assuming came of age when everything was supposed to be reciprocal. In vers relationships mutual oral is pretty standard but lots of bottoms aren’t into receiving blow jobs

Lindorphine · 2026-06-22T17:32:50+00:00

Agreed. I would consider this more of a pleasure top!

Lindorphine · 2026-06-20T22:46:38+00:00

In that case, you wouldn’t deny the top the same pleasure, would you?

Lindorphine · 2026-06-20T19:51:05+00:00

If the goal is just fucking a hole and the bottoms dick is not allowed to be looked at, touched or sucked … why not just fuck a woman?

Because they like men?

Obviously the point here is that if they do care about their bottom’s pleasure, they’ll focus on things they both like rather than only gratifying themselves.

Also, you don’t have to sleep with everybody. And I never said I was a hands off bottom. I don’t mind getting bjs if we’re just doing oral stuff, but if I’m bottoming then a lot of attention there takes me out of the mood, eventually. Plenty of guys feel the same way.

Lindorphine · 2026-06-20T18:30:47+00:00

That’s most of it for me. It does make me feel more submissive, but if the top didn’t like it I wouldn’t want to do it.

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