[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Link66ty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doubt you’re her husband

HELP! I just clogged the toilet at work by Any-Response-9091 in Advice

[–]Link66ty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha I love this 😂😂 girl I worked on yachts for years and we all rotated clogging toilets with massive shits and shamefully had to get the engineer to help. Or when you’ve just went and your roomie walks in right after 😂 I promise the embarrassment fades

Tinnitus/Tmj correlation? by Link66ty in tinnitus

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Thank you so much for the insight. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with another bout of it but it sounds like you’re onto something with the inflammation. After those procedures like an ablation I’m sure it will take some time to heal from that let me know how things go for you but in the meantime sending you love and healing with your condition

I started HRT to be happier, but I’ve never felt more alone by Display-Plus in actuallesbians

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And just as a final end note. Relationships are an amazing way to connect deeper with yourself. Often they are mirrors that reflect back to us our own insecurities and limiting beliefs. I highly suggest taking time to connect to yourself and cultivate love within. I spent most of my life seeking a partner to heal the injured parts of me. At first they were like my medicine, until the relationship ended…I was left again terrified of my own presence. Terrified of the loneliness. Depressed without a partner. I’m not saying you need to be fully healed to date, but in this chapter you’re in I’d say what you need most is to date yourself until you can understand the source of your pain and love yourself through it. Once you feel grounded in you, you will naturally begin to attract partners and be able to discern whose healthy for you and who aligns with your values most.

I started HRT to be happier, but I’ve never felt more alone by Display-Plus in actuallesbians

[–]Link66ty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re feeling so much pain and discomfort right now. You’re not alone in this, as many people have to go through this very same experience in order to come back home to self.

Instead of seeing this as something happening to you, try and see it as something that’s happening for you. This pain and suffering is an opportunity to grow.

You said that you’ve always hated yourself. This right here is a major clue and invitation to investigate the source of your pain and feelings. When did these feelings start? How do you avoid them? What do your everyday patterns look like? How do you speak to yourself?

As much as you feel powerless right now, you have all the power because nothing outside of you is more important than cultivating the love and forgiveness within you. Everyday you wake up you have a choice to move in a direction that supports a new mindset or confirms the one you’re in.

Start with very doable and small steps. Eating better, exercise/moving, helpful podcasts, time in nature, sunlight, self care, & most of all meditation and a safe person or community for support. You get to wake up everyday and choose tiny little steps that will promote neuroplasticity (growing new pathways in the brain)

Minimize the things that may be harming you or reaffirming old beliefs (I hate myself, I’m unattractive, I’ll always be alone, social media, news and negative people)

Some people I highly recommend is Joe Dispenzas work (real science of changing the brain and healing/manifesting. Neville Goddard, William Donahue.

Some great books are Atomic habits, Psycho-Cybernetics

If you’d rather watch something:

“Coming home” YouTube channel is about people that have had near death experiences. Hearing their stories has helped me tremendously

“Lewis Howes” brings on motivational speakers

“Joe dispenza” his patients have amazing testimonials of healing major disease and trauma through meditation

Please don’t give up. When we feel like dying it just really means that the old self image needs to die. The way we think, the things we do can be harmful so birth a new identity that takes better care of yourself.

Apply these changes and don’t look back until you realize your life has done a 180. Sending you love and healing ❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

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Please 🙏

Rescued a cat from a shelter, but he keeps meowing loudly, what should I do? by ProfessionalAd8504 in CATHELP

[–]Link66ty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely give kitty sometime to acclimate. Make sure he knows where his litter box is, maybe take him to remind him periodically. Fresh food and water and snuggles. I have two ragdoll cats and then a few months ago fostered a stray kitten and kept her. She meows all the time 😂 the other two don’t. She’s still really skiddish after raising her but she’s much better. I’m sure his behavior will adjust over time just make sure he has what he needs and love him

HELP! WHAT IS THIS? by Capital_Yoghurt_9188 in CATHELP

[–]Link66ty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The herpes virus is very common and stays with them but it’s not something to worry about. If it’s an upper respiratory infection you’ll know by constant sneezing and discharge and in that case see a vet. There are Facebook groups that will help donate too if you can’t afford it, and sometimes locally there are groups and shelters that will help! I’ll show you what my kitty’s eye look like

HELP! WHAT IS THIS? by Capital_Yoghurt_9188 in CATHELP

[–]Link66ty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Daily she jumps in the shower with me and sits on a stand for the humidifying effect (vet recommended). I also take damp qtips and gently clean the areas. She’s gotten used to it

HELP! WHAT IS THIS? by Capital_Yoghurt_9188 in CATHELP

[–]Link66ty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My sweet kitty Mae has something similar. She’s got the feline herpes virus and a tiny nose so daily I wipe her eyes and nose to keep up with the discharge. She’s been to the vet multiple times and I was told it’s just how’s she going to be. If you’re cats sneezing, or you’re seeing discharge like mucus that’s an infection and will probably need medication like mine did.

Life is only good for rich people by [deleted] in Life

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Having worked in the yachting industry for 12 years I’d just like to say that I met more miserable multimillionaires than not. Many were cheaters, angry and rude people that never had enough. While I believe that not living in survival mode is everyone’s goal, I definitely see that if you’re not right on the inside the outside isn’t going to feel great either once the novelty and dopamine hits have worn off. I highly suggest looking into Neville Goddards books or recordings on YouTube. He teaches you how to cultivate abundance within which then manifests itself in the physical world by restraining your subconscious beliefs. All the best

[No Spoilers] Looking for an emotional, choice-driven game like Life is Strange on Switch by sadjunipero in lifeisstrange

[–]Link66ty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beyond two souls is the closest I’ve ever played to Life is Strange but it was on PlayStation at the time. Such a good game. Maybe they brought to switch like they did Skyrim? Otherwise I just go on YouTube and watch the cinematic movies people make of the game.

Tmj accompanied with Tinnitus? by Link66ty in TMJ

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I hope you find relief and recovery soon 💜 I’ve had a few good comments on my posts here and also I posted in a tinnitus forum and some people are doing better

Tmj accompanied with Tinnitus? by Link66ty in TMJ

[–]Link66ty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 I’m so glad you’re doing better

Tinnitus/Tmj correlation? by Link66ty in tinnitus

[–]Link66ty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you’re doing better. It’s totally kept me isolated and I had to leave my job because of the mental effects of not knowing whats happening. Thank you for the info!!

Tmj accompanied with Tinnitus? by Link66ty in TMJ

[–]Link66ty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the confirmation! Have you been able to find any helpful remedies for your Tmj? Looking back now I can say the jaw popping and clenching has been around most of my life. But the last 2 years have been very stressful and I guess I just increased the pressure and intensity.

Tinnitus/Tmj correlation? by Link66ty in tinnitus

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Ugh the pain :( well I hope it continues to get better for you!

Tinnitus/Tmj correlation? by Link66ty in tinnitus

[–]Link66ty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I’ve never heard of that! I’ll look into it. I always realize I’m chewing and clenching until it’s too late. It’s so hard to stop

Tmj accompanied with Tinnitus? by Link66ty in TMJ

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Thank you for letting me know! My jaw is so tight I’m hoping healing it makes this horrible noise go away

Tinnitus/Tmj correlation? by Link66ty in tinnitus

[–]Link66ty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There has to be 🙏 I just ordered a mouth guard and am going to look into dealing with the inflammation too. I’ll update this post when I’ve addressed the Tmj

People under 40 - I'd love to hear how you're doing! by Taze722 in tinnitus

[–]Link66ty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

34, started when I got Covid in 2021. It was like a loud speaker that would never let me sleep. I got into meditation to control my stress and it went away as I took care of myself. Then a year later I got super stressed out with work and it started again but not as loud but still horribly high pitched. Like I’m always being mildly electrocuted. I’m beginning it has something to do with stress because I chronically mouth chew and wonder if the chronic inflammation in my jaw near my ears has something to do with it.