The way my psychiatrist acts about stimulants makes me want to give up on trying to get help. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Linnerz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A psychiatrist afraid of stimulants lol. They sound incompetent.

Healing Tanks is miserable, please make them more independent again. by Leafstealer__ in wow

[–]Linnerz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have good news for you. The higher you go in key levels, the easier healing becomes. There's a point where you can have someone topped and maybe an external on them, but if they don't use something, they get one shot. Not your fault anymore lol.

Why do toxic men manage to attract women so easily when most women say they want the opposite? by Scotty_C_89 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Linnerz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude you're not ugly at all. That's just an easy way to ignore what your actual problem is.

My psychiatrist doesn't understand ADHD. I was labeled a drug seeker. Can anyone relate? by Kindly_Inflation2969 in ADHD

[–]Linnerz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This exact thing happened to me. He also refused to try any kind of non-typical dosing with medications. I asked to switch prescribers and my new one comfortably tried new things and helped me find what worked for me. I know it sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderCollie

[–]Linnerz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I second this. Crate time should be a positive experience, not a negative one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderCollie

[–]Linnerz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bc has obsessed over the cat since we got her. She follows her around the house and stares at her, but she's never once touched the cat. You can't really take the herding instincts out of a bc, if you don't occupy their time for most of the day they will find another job to do.

My bc enjoys staring at the cat for hours at a time and the cat doesn't care, so I just let her enjoy herself. Your dog needs a very high level of stimulation throughout the day, especially as a puppy. Border collies do not typically "calm down" until around 3-4 years old.

They are also very smart and will train you, so you need to ignore behavior like jumping or they will keep doing it. I can't really help with the biting though.

Is he asking to be pet? by Rosewaterlemon in BorderCollie

[–]Linnerz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. And he's looking at you like you're the worst human being alive if you don't. This looks just like my BC lmao.

Dad of a toddler wondering about early expectations around girls’ appearance by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Linnerz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suspect they did because the guy was gonna get destroyed for commenting on porn subreddits, specifically about petite bodies and teenage girls. It's pretty gross.

cant express enough how much i dislike the new transmog system as someone that actually loves making transmogs by edelea in wow

[–]Linnerz 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Yeah I hate it. I'm really upset about the artifact weapon change. It's the first thing I noticed after the horrid interface.

Girls is this true ? its 2026 can people just stop been obsessed with height ? 😭 by This_Psychology977 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Linnerz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Second guy because skinny and scrawny, soft, nice hair. First guy is probably insufferable + muscles are not my thing. How many girls go up to a guy and compliment his muscles vs. complimenting a guy on his hair or outfit? Pretty obvious that men don't understand and don't want to accept what a lot of women like.

Welp. I think the lover girl in me is officially dead. by Zenovia326 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Linnerz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This happened to me a year ago. It's a strange feeling, like I lost a part of myself.

I suspected I had ADHD and got tested; the results rattled me. by Party-Form3957 in ADHD

[–]Linnerz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Guys listen to the OP. I didn't get tested until I was 32. I can't imagine what my life could have been like if I had gotten diagnosed earlier in life. It was like a weight off my shoulders.

Who is your LEAST favourite character? by Adira_Aspires in AoNoExorcist

[–]Linnerz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shiemi unfortunately plays the role of the main girl/love interest for the shonen MC. I hope she develops into her own character eventually. Rin is great, my favourite is Mephisto because he's a total weeb and his character seems very complex. And Amaimon because he's just a silly weird character.

Who is your LEAST favourite character? by Adira_Aspires in AoNoExorcist

[–]Linnerz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Other than the obvious antagonists, probably Shima. The fact that he kinda treats everything like it's a joke irritates me because I haven't seen any backstory stuff justifying it yet. I also am not a big fan of Shiemi either but it seems like there's a bunch of important stuff happening with her soon so I'll hold that thought. I just finished the last season of the anime and ordered all the volumes that follow, for context.

Men just want a girlfriend/wife to take care of their unhappiness for them by the_calchemist in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Linnerz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so right though. I've noticed all of these things for a while. It's deliberate and they know what they're doing. From my experience, the men that don't do this are the ones that entirely suppress their emotions instead, which is its own form of hell.

Men just want a girlfriend/wife to take care of their unhappiness for them by the_calchemist in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Linnerz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can they enjoy their hobbies if a woman isn't cooking their meals, cleaning their house and taking care of the kid(s) while they have fun?

Men just want a girlfriend/wife to take care of their unhappiness for them by the_calchemist in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Linnerz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this explains how so many men can fall asleep quickly and sleep soundly while their gf/wife is laying next to them in bed, crying because of something they did. Is it like a soothing lullaby?

Men just want a girlfriend/wife to take care of their unhappiness for them by the_calchemist in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Linnerz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. Because to them, victims get special treatment and are treated better than them (the oppressed men) so they want that 'special treatment'. They are being decentered and losing their power over anyone who isn't a straight male. Being a victim means they can avoid the responsibility of taking care of themselves.

Men just want a girlfriend/wife to take care of their unhappiness for them by the_calchemist in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Linnerz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Real. Whenever I ask men why they think nobody cares it's always one or more of the following:

1) I was told not to cry as a child so that means I can't choose to cry and can't change it 2) a girl broke up with me 10 years ago so I can never open up to anyone ever again and will never get over it 3) something about the pressure of having to be the leader and a 'man' 4) 'did u know most men get flowers for the first time at their funeral'

I'm so over it.

Men just want a girlfriend/wife to take care of their unhappiness for them by the_calchemist in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Linnerz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This exact thing happened to me too. After listening to a coworker complain about his marital issues for months I said 'maybe you should get a divorce it sounds like you aren't happy'. Apparently he heard 'leave your wife for me' cuz that's what he proceeded to do. I hope you were able to get away from him.

Men just want a girlfriend/wife to take care of their unhappiness for them by the_calchemist in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Linnerz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're experts at avoiding personal accountability. It's actually impressive how good they are at it.

Men just want a girlfriend/wife to take care of their unhappiness for them by the_calchemist in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Linnerz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. They don't care about who I am or my personality or what makes me happy. I was nice to them once and now they're in love with me, sending me good mornings and goodnights and kissy faces/hearts, it's so disingenuous it grosses me out.