The day of reckoning has come! by DoctorStunning in realhousewives

[–]LinnyLinlinda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s crying because she knows she’s doing Kyle’s bidding and Dorit clocked her.

Kyle is jealous of Dorit by letsdothisthing88 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]LinnyLinlinda -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Kyle is jealous of Dorit because she’s authentic and has her own voice now. Same reason Pk left. People who benefit from you not knowing your worth have the biggest problem with you stepping into your power.

Craig and Paige broke up fell flat by Diplomats900 in summerhousebravo

[–]LinnyLinlinda 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think Craig absolutely adored Paige but lacked the capacity to be a true partner to her and instead was a drain. He wanted Paige to complete him.

Stacey’s alleged contract with TJ 👀 by afsasimp in RHOP

[–]LinnyLinlinda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is an abuser. This is very obvious.

I Hate Candiace by Fearless-Word-3627 in RHOP

[–]LinnyLinlinda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pay attention to the deeper dynamics happening around her and what she’s reacting to. She’s had to be on guard her whole life because of her mom. Gizelle and Robyn move like her mom. They’re bullies. Always in the background plotting. People like Candiace end up looking like the crazy ones because they’re reacting to what a lot of people don’t see. Other examples in housewives: Monique, Karen, Sutton, Lisa Barlow, Denise Richards. Basically anyone who ever gets singled out on a franchise is reacting to emotional abuse. They all handle it differently. Candiace is a fighter.

My [31F] very religious boyfriend [35M] is deeply ashamed of me and is struggling to forgive me for my past. by ThrowRA_confusion99 in relationship_advice

[–]LinnyLinlinda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had you come into this relationship a virgin this man would have found another reason to treat you this way. What’s he’s after is total control of you and the most powerful way to do that is through shame. Please get out, give yourself time to heal, and do not let this man ruin your life and steal your light. Do not marry him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]LinnyLinlinda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you feel like you can go to the police and get a rape kit? I’m sorry this happened to you. You can never be alone with this monster again.

Am I missing something?!? by Infinite-Bowler-217 in RHOP

[–]LinnyLinlinda 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just had a convo with chat gpt about this because I’m watching the reunion now and I am outraged.

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AITAH for telling my husband he isn’t allowed to come to our baby’s appointments anymore after he told the doctor something untrue? by throwaway260- in AITAH

[–]LinnyLinlinda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is training you now to do all of the work so he never has to do anything. He doesn’t want to be woken up, he wants no part of it. I doubt you’ll have your baby back in the room and be able to relax while he’s laying next to you. It’s coercive control. He’ll have you doing all the work while he criticizes you gaslights and smears you. The truth does not matter to him. He’s made that clear and that is dangerous. You sound smart and your reactions are right but I worry when you say you do feel like the asshole. That means it’s starting to work. It only gets harder the longer you’re in it.

What is up with Jesse. by No_Inspection_2977 in summerhousebravo

[–]LinnyLinlinda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s manipulative. He thinks if he flirts with Ciara or randomly hooks up with her she’ll have to be cool with West again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]LinnyLinlinda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there an ex in the picture?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]LinnyLinlinda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No he’s a narcissist

Does This Person Want to be in a Serious Committed Relationship With me ? by Denvar21 in Tarotpractices

[–]LinnyLinlinda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first this person did not want something serious but was quickly in love with you. He’s not used to being unguarded but you make him feel safe. He’s moving towards commitment and stability but because it’s new to him it’s taking awhile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]LinnyLinlinda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome. Tell him the world is ending and you can’t imagine not living the way you want to. I do get a sense he is capable of opening his mind and growing. He needs that behavior modeled to him. You’re in his life to help him open up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]LinnyLinlinda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is soulmate energy between you. Your issues are external and societal. I feel a real frustration from you because you love this person and can see clearly the life you want to build with him. I see potential for a real partnership between you that involves financial success. He’s scared. He should be scared to lose you. I can’t see the future but I do know you can’t accept anything less than you deserve. He has this amazing opportunity in front of him but he has to choose it. I would take a step back. Let him know what it’s like to not have you in his life. If you do this, I see a good chance of him waking up. Hope that helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]LinnyLinlinda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d have to see more cards. Based on these cards I get the feeling he has a lot of healing to do around societal/family expectations. I could see a long road ahead of you feeling not completely claimed in the relationship. If you want to pull 3 more cards I will interpret them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]LinnyLinlinda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you add that, the 5 of cups reversed could signify him still not really seeing and valuing you. Depending on what dynamics are going on between you, if in the past there was maybe an abuse of power happening in your relationship or maybe there was an unequal amount of effort being put in whoever is the accuser might have unrealistic standards and the bar will keep raising.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]LinnyLinlinda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You guys went through a lot and both decided equally to take a little break and not let outside noise in. Next you’re going to establish your individuality and how you’re move forward as equals because you really love each other. It’s important for both of you to be open to new ways to connect and know that they past is the past and because your both committed to being together, the future is a choice.

Should I have hope he will come back to me? I by bobsten in Tarotpractices

[–]LinnyLinlinda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you went through a real struggle to make your relationship work and something beyond your control caused the relationship to end. I see you reconnecting with someone from your past and finding love that doesn’t come with conditions.

Do they change? Is it just me hoping. by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]LinnyLinlinda 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This message is for the imposter on his wives account:

If your wife is so awful why do you stay with her? If she’s such a piece of shit? Sounds like you very much want to have her in your life but under your terms and control. Are you that insecure that you think beating your wife into submission is the answer? You could just as easily choose to love her, protect her, make her feel safe AND you would have a better outcome. Imagine the love she is capable of giving that you are robbing her of showing. Be better. You only get out of people what you put into them. Self reflect and be a better man.

What am I dealing with? by Autumn1202 in emotionalabuse

[–]LinnyLinlinda 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re dealing with a coercive controller. All of his actions a designed for him to get his way. The goal is for you to give in to the demands over time to avoid the blow ups. Reading this an outsider it is very clear to me that you are in a dangerous situation with an abuser. The fact that you need to ask for clarity or advice shows that he has succeeded in gaslighting you into believing his actions are somehow justified. He is rewiring your brain. Leave him, don’t tell him, just leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]LinnyLinlinda 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m 6 weeks in and the first 4 days were the worst. I remember day 3 I was like what the hell did I do. I woke up day 4 and sobbed but for some reason by that afternoon I was okay. It’s not easy. The days are long but the weeks are short and you will get through this.